What sort of relationship do you look for when you swing?

**LikeMinds321** · 03-21-2008, 02:30 PM

Whatever Happens, Happens

LM

P.S. I would never "hit and run"...I'd always wait for the ambulance to arrive and file my report with the police.

farmer · 03-25-2008, 11:19 AM

We look for new friends first, friends with benefits second (OK, a close second). As a couple, we seek couples that have different life experiences than ours and are willing to share. It's the variety we want, as in "variety is the spice of life." Pass the spice, please.

***JustAskJulie*** · 03-26-2008, 09:59 PM

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Originally Posted by farmer

We look for new friends first, friends with benefits second (OK, a close second). As a couple, we seek couples that have different life experiences than ours and are willing to share. It's the variety we want, as in "variety is the spice of life." Pass the spice, please.

Welcome back. Good to see you again. I hope you guys won't hit and run

, but rather stay and let us all get to know you better.

Tia Vampire · 03-28-2008, 09:20 PM

We like bouncing from house party to house party, making friends along the way, and than deciding on who we are interested in having sex with. Takes a few trips to the club before we have sex with anyone. Makes for good times and we don't get board with seeing the same people every other week. While we are traveling it's what ever happens, happens. Until we settle down at our favorite spot.

Chris&Amelia · 03-28-2008, 09:45 PM

We'd rather be friends with them before having sex with them, but it's not really a requirement if the mood is right.

socolais · 03-28-2008, 10:05 PM

It's just sex

**LFM2** · 03-28-2008, 11:27 PM

I second the socolais' post. It's supposed to be fun.

It's just sex.

cubnamy1995 · 03-29-2008, 12:29 AM

We love grudge sex, so we would really prefer to hate you first.

Chris&Amelia · 03-29-2008, 12:30 AM

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Originally Posted by cubnamy1995

We love grudge sex, so we would really prefer to hate you first.

And you win the thread!

**two4youinswva** · 03-29-2008, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by cubnamy1995

We love grudge sex, so we would really prefer to hate you first.

That was a whole plate full of Win!

cubnamy1995 · 03-29-2008, 12:32 AM

WooHoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The 151 is kicking in now. LOL

Chris&Amelia · 03-29-2008, 12:35 AM

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Originally Posted by cubnamy1995

WooHoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

The 151 is kicking in now. LOL

Okay, that's it. I'm heading to Cubnamy's place. This T-Shirt Duel is making me thirsty.

cubnamy1995 · 03-29-2008, 12:36 AM

Better leave now. Texas is a long drive!

Chris&Amelia · 03-29-2008, 12:44 AM

So, coming from Northeast Pennsylvania, I pretty much just aim south and west, right?

sweet_tna · 03-29-2008, 12:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Chris&Amelia

Okay, that's it. I'm heading to Cubnamy's place. This T-Shirt Duel is making me thirsty.

Can I hitch a ride? (Assuming I'm welcome, Cubnamy)

=)

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View Poll Results: What sort of relationship do you look for when you swing?
Insist on establishing a friendship first, or it's no go.	30	13.89%
Prefer to establish a friendship first, but it's not mandatory.	74	34.26%
Prefer not to establish a friendship, but it's not out of the question.	30	13.89%
No friendships, please--just in it for sex and fun.	15	6.94%
Whatever Happens, Happens	67	31.02%
Voters: 216. You may not vote on this poll

03-21-2008, 02:30 PM	#16 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 Let's get comfortable... Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 8,547 Location: On the couch Status: Married to Mr LM	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? *Whatever Happens, Happens* LM P.S. I would never "hit and run"...I'd always wait for the ambulance to arrive and file my report with the police.

03-25-2008, 11:19 AM	#17 (permalink)
farmer Registered Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Minnesota Status: Couple SLS Name:farmere	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? We look for new friends first, friends with benefits second (OK, a close second). As a couple, we seek couples that have different life experiences than ours and are willing to share. It's the variety we want, as in "variety is the spice of life." Pass the spice, please.

03-28-2008, 09:20 PM	#19 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 770 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? We like bouncing from house party to house party, making friends along the way, and than deciding on who we are interested in having sex with. Takes a few trips to the club before we have sex with anyone. Makes for good times and we don't get board with seeing the same people every other week. While we are traveling it's what ever happens, happens. Until we settle down at our favorite spot.

03-28-2008, 09:45 PM	#20 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A SLS Name:PA_Panache	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? We'd rather be friends with them before having sex with them, but it's not really a requirement if the mood is right. __________________ "May God be with you."

03-28-2008, 10:05 PM	#21 (permalink)
socolais nothin special Join Date: Mar 2007 Posts: 870 Location: Dallas Status: M. Male - half of a novice swinging couple SLS Name:Bruce_Melissa Blog Entries: 11	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? It's just sex __________________ Drama sold separately,,,,, some assembly required.....

03-28-2008, 11:27 PM	#22 (permalink)
LFM2 Happy Fall, Y'all!! Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,850 Location: State of Confusion Status: Couple SLS Name:LFM2 Blog Entries: 4	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? I second the socolais' post. It's supposed to be fun. It's just sex. __________________ "One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other." Jane Austen

03-29-2008, 12:29 AM	#23 (permalink)
cubnamy1995 Amateur Naked Acrobats Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 541 Location: East TX Status: Couple SLS Name:cubnamy1995 Blog Entries: 12	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? We love grudge sex, so we would really prefer to hate you first. __________________ *Aspiring Amateur Pornstars*

03-29-2008, 12:32 AM	#26 (permalink)
cubnamy1995 Amateur Naked Acrobats Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 541 Location: East TX Status: Couple SLS Name:cubnamy1995 Blog Entries: 12	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? WooHoo!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! The 151 is kicking in now. LOL __________________ *Aspiring Amateur Pornstars*

03-29-2008, 12:36 AM	#28 (permalink)
cubnamy1995 Amateur Naked Acrobats Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 541 Location: East TX Status: Couple SLS Name:cubnamy1995 Blog Entries: 12	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? Better leave now. Texas is a long drive! __________________ *Aspiring Amateur Pornstars*

03-29-2008, 12:44 AM	#29 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A SLS Name:PA_Panache	Re: Poll: Friends first, or hit and run? So, coming from Northeast Pennsylvania, I pretty much just aim south and west, right? __________________ "May God be with you."

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