SIZE! Ever Been Disappointed?

[JennyMac]

Being new to the swinging scene, Mr. Mac and I were having a discussion the other night about men's SIZE!

Ladies..Have you ever met someone at the club or through personals got them up to the room...You meet them and they are HOT! Things start to get interesting. You're husband is over there with the guys wife, doing his thing. You unzip their pants slowly, reach in.... and reach in.... WTF? You might as well have stayed home and masturbated....

Just curious!

Jenn

[Pepper & Drew]

Hmmmm.....actually, I've never been disappointed over a playmate's size. Now, disappointment over technique is another thing entirely.....

Pretty much, if the guy is bigger than a Q-tip and smaller than a bread box, I can have a good time. I imagine though, if I did get caught in that situation, I'd try to make the best of it. Who knows, he may have over the course of time with his small penis, developed quite the talent with tongue and fingers....

Pepper

[C4CIN]

Mrs here... I actually prefer smaller- Too big and it hurts and too big is too scarey... We crack up at all the guys boasting in their ads about how big they are... We always believed: "it's not the size of the pen but how you sign your name!"

[wiscpl]

Mrs. wiscpl agrees here and says it's not the angle of the dangle but how you wiggle your worm that counts. Since we've been in the lifestyle she's had a number of playmates with varying degrees of width and depth and she always remarks how important technique is.

Of course there was the time before we met where the guy could have been no bigger than my little toe. I guess he was the only one who knew they were having sex.

[ALilOEverything]

I've been with all different sizes and it doesn't make that much of a difference to me. Sometimes too big is just too big and I feel bad if I can't take it all in and I sometimes can't orgasm because I'm worried he'll hurt me if I move the wrong way. If he's a little on the smaller side I know what positions work well and most of the time I can just angle myself just right so he's reaching the right spot. Kegels (I do them regularly) help if the girth is less than average too so that isn't a big deal either.

[funtoplay]

Since we started swinging....they have been all shapes and sizes. So far...knock on wood (no pun intended ), it really hasn't made much difference

[bbwinpa]

Actually I have only been disappointed once, see the poll choice involving thumb size - well let's just say....Sorry guys, but for me I need more than an inch. For other women that could be just perfect I'm sure, but I was disappointed ... and frustrated too!

[WesternSwing]

Answering for the Mrs. here, she has never said she was disappointed, but or her the swashbuckler is much more important than the sword. She doesn't even care about seeing pics of him before we meet. If she clicks with him on all other levels then the size of his penis will be just fine, no matter what size it is.

Mr. WS

[bear_and_babe]

I have ended up on the "short end of the stick" 1 time. I kept thinking that it would get larger if he would only get hard. Problem was, he was already hard. Size really does not matter to me, but if this guy wanted to have sex, I would have never known if it was in or not! Good thing he only liked to give oral. And he was not all that good at that either.

Its always the guys that go on and on about how big and good they are that end up being the smallest.

[HotMoCpl]

Okay, I know I'm not a lady but I'll answer anyway. That's simply because I'm a little....just a little on the outspoken side. :rollseyes When and if, that day comes; don't worry. You won't be dissapointed.

[EvilMJ]

I was only ever disappointed once, but that was when I was single and before I started swinging. It was one of those situations where I think we had sex but I couldn't testify to it in court. It was unfortunate because he was such a wonderful person otherwise and we always had such fun together.

On the flip side (once again when I was single) I was with a guy who was HUGE...I think my jaw must have hit the floor when he took his clothes off...I remembering thinking "damn what have I gotten myself into, there is no way , THAT Is going to FIT!" - It did, but it was almost painful.

Most of the time though I have no complaints - anything in between those aforementioned experiences is just fine for me.

[wkyadventurers]

As the male half of the couple I would just like to point out that misrepresenting size always seems to fall hard on men. Not simply because we can't measure without a ruler; but more because we wind up being the disappointed ones. How many times has some busty babe caught a man's eye, only to find that the new generation of push up bras have more material stuffed into them than breast meat? Sure there are some small penises out there, but we arent stuffing socks in our pants in an effort to attract the lady's. I think that old trick went out in the 70's. So come on girls, show us the real YOU and stop pretending you're something that you're not.

[Just_us49]

Before we started swinging D always felt like he wasn't big enough. I kept trying to tell him that he was. When we first start having sex he has to be careful how far/hard he goes in or he hurts me. Once she gets warmed up he can go all the way in but he can't pound real hard unless she is REALLY warmed up.

Now that we've been swinging I am convincing him he is good sized. He still wants to say, "he wasn't that much smaller than me". All I have to do is remind him how the guy pounded me from the get go and I wasn't even that aware of it and he relents and says I must be right. Granted, I have only been done by two other guys, but it was the case with them both. Also, we have done a good bit of "girls play guys with their own girl" and I always check out the size of the man and only once was he as nice sized as my man.

Don't get me wrong, I still had a good time and the one guy had knew how to use the small thing just right once he had some time with me and I enjoyed it. D isn't huge, just big enough to fill her up just right! facelick (a good 6 1/2" by 2") And he is really good at using it! Which brings me to my next point

Originally Posted by Pepper & Drew

Now, disappointment over technique is another thing entirely.....
Pepper

This has definately been more of an issue for me! D likes to take his time to enjoy my body. Rubbing, kissing, eating, licking, sucking before he actually gets inside. He usually has me begging for him to get in there before he does. I love that! It seems in swinging the guys so far (even the ones with their own girls) want to start f**king right away. No enjoying each others bodies. And then the guys wants to just pound as hard as they can. D seems to know when to take it long slow and when to speed up. No one has come close to pleasing me like him so far.

edit: the 2" is across not around BTW, and my hubby is mortified that I put his measurements

-M

[Just_us49]

Originally Posted by wkyadventurers

As the male half of the couple I would just like to point out that misrepresenting size always seems to fall hard on men. Not simply because we can't measure without a ruler; but more because we wind up being the disappointed ones. How many times has some busty babe caught a man's eye, only to find that the new generation of push up bras have more material stuffed into them than breast meat? Sure there are some small penises out there, but we arent stuffing socks in our pants in an effort to attract the lady's. I think that old trick went out in the 70's. So come on girls, show us the real YOU and stop pretending you're something that you're not.

I agree. My girls aren't real big but I never trump them up (especially swinging) because I want the guy to know exactly what he's getting.

I used to think I had terrible tits until we started swinging and I have found that many guys think they are wonderful. I no longer want to get an enhancement. I like them knowing that what I have is all mine!

-M