Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had?

Playful1 · 07-01-2008, 02:53 PM

I admit it, I keep a list, of names and number. I enjoy doing it. I do it for both sexes.

It's not something I show anyone though, or that more than one person knows (who also keeps a list).

funcpl4life · 07-01-2008, 02:59 PM

I can name them all extemporaneously. It's a weird ability. Mrs FC4L has a list up until we got married.

Mr FC4L

knb2004 · 07-01-2008, 05:03 PM

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Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

Percantage of encounters we regret -- 0%

There are some things in life that money can't buy... for everything else, there's Mastercard.

Nice post.

lustylearning · 07-01-2008, 05:16 PM

hehehehe... nope, but i'm pretty sure hubby does.

Hot Raleigh Cpl · 07-01-2008, 09:40 PM

We lost count somewhere around 250 playmates in the third year we were together. It's been slower since then. Nowadays, we have only a general sense of how many it's been. We still more or less track how many guys L has in an evening, but have long since lost track of how many there have been total.

The numbers are interesting, but it's about the heat and fun, not about the numbers.

S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl

sahajacpl · 07-02-2008, 09:42 AM

We voted "No, it's not about the numbers", not because we can't recall the names or great sexual experiences, but because we can count the number of couples we have played with on fingers of two hands. Then it's not too hard to remember at least first names of those we have swapped mates with for social fun as well as for sexual intercourse.

It is somewhat analagous to the dates one has had before hitching your wagon to one's present mate. Again, since the number of girlfriends/boyfriends prior to marriage has been under a dozen, it's easy to remember at least the first names. And, the ones we distinctly remember are those with whom we have had sexual intercourse after a date. The most memorable ones are the ones where intercourse happened on the very first date or those who were particularly awesome in bed.

We suppose the swinging experiences are no different. One selectively tends to remember couples that were or are great social and sexual mates. The ones we swapped mates with for play followed by sexual intercourse are etched in the memory, particularly if swap partners were sexually adept.

So, overall its about quality of the social and sexual experience and not about numbers of couples you have played and swapped mates with for intercourse, social as well as sexual.

Pepper & Drew · 07-02-2008, 09:05 PM

Just like I don't weigh myself, or wear a watch, I don't keep up with the number of partners I've had. I try not to be ruled by numbers.

Pepper

Chris&Amelia · 07-03-2008, 05:53 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Do you keep track of how many people you have sex with?

By keeping track of the amount of restraining orders currently issued against me.

lustylearning · 07-03-2008, 06:02 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chris&Amelia

By keeping track of the amount of restraining orders currently issued against me.

luvscum1 · 07-05-2008, 09:03 AM

Hello
We lost track many years ago, We are both retired now, and always seeking new play partners. Mostly seeking men as I am very oral. If in our area and want to meat email us. Can be bi or str8

Malachista · 07-15-2008, 05:17 AM

Yeah, I keep a list with the dates I went to a club, and note with slashes (/) if something has happend

Brian and Jo · 07-22-2008, 09:52 AM

We have been swinging for over 30 years now and lost count of the number of partners we have had a long time ago. However we do keep a separate address and phone list of our swinging contacts and there are currently 34 names listed. But we have not seen most of them for a few years. For us it is not the number of couples we have swung with that is important. What matters to us is the quality of the relationship, both sexual and friendship, we develop with our swinging partners. We most certainly like some sexual variety in our lives but we are also looking for a friendship which extends beyond the bedroom. When we started swinging in the late 1970s we met with a lot of couples once or twice. But over the years we have narrowed our circle of swinging friends to a group of six couples with whom we meet on a regular basis, sometimes with just one other couple, other times with two or more and occasionally all six. Nowadays we rarely swing outside of this group except when we are on vacation.

steve as is · 07-26-2008, 10:54 PM

no we dont but we have the memories to keep forever

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View Poll Results: Do you keep count of how many swing partners you've had?
Yes, I also keep a list of names	22	21.15%
Yes, but just the count	13	12.50%
No, it's not about the number	44	42.31%
No, I lost count too long ago to care.	25	24.04%
Voters: 104. You may not vote on this poll

07-01-2008, 02:53 PM	#31 (permalink)
Playful1 Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 79 Location: US Status: Single Female	Re: Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had? I admit it, I keep a list, of names and number. I enjoy doing it. I do it for both sexes. It's not something I show anyone though, or that more than one person knows (who also keeps a list).

07-01-2008, 02:59 PM	#32 (permalink)
funcpl4life Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 130 Location: NW Arkansas Status: Couple	Re: Notches in the Bedpost I can name them all extemporaneously. It's a weird ability. Mrs FC4L has a list up until we got married. Mr FC4L

07-01-2008, 05:16 PM	#34 (permalink)
lustylearning Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 205 Location: Virginia Status: female half	Re: Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had? hehehehe... nope, but i'm pretty sure hubby does.

07-01-2008, 09:40 PM	#35 (permalink)
Hot Raleigh Cpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 145 Location: Raleigh, NC Status: Hot couple, deeply in love	Re: Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had? We lost count somewhere around 250 playmates in the third year we were together. It's been slower since then. Nowadays, we have only a general sense of how many it's been. We still more or less track how many guys L has in an evening, but have long since lost track of how many there have been total. The numbers are interesting, but it's about the heat and fun, not about the numbers. S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl

07-02-2008, 09:42 AM	#36 (permalink)
sahajacpl Sahaja Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 27 Location: USA Status: Married Couple SLS Name:sahajacpl	Re: Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had? We voted "No, it's not about the numbers", not because we can't recall the names or great sexual experiences, but because we can count the number of couples we have played with on fingers of two hands. Then it's not too hard to remember at least first names of those we have swapped mates with for social fun as well as for sexual intercourse. It is somewhat analagous to the dates one has had before hitching your wagon to one's present mate. Again, since the number of girlfriends/boyfriends prior to marriage has been under a dozen, it's easy to remember at least the first names. And, the ones we distinctly remember are those with whom we have had sexual intercourse after a date. The most memorable ones are the ones where intercourse happened on the very first date or those who were particularly awesome in bed. We suppose the swinging experiences are no different. One selectively tends to remember couples that were or are great social and sexual mates. The ones we swapped mates with for play followed by sexual intercourse are etched in the memory, particularly if swap partners were sexually adept. So, overall its about quality of the social and sexual experience and not about numbers of couples you have played and swapped mates with for intercourse, social as well as sexual. __________________ sahajacpl

07-02-2008, 09:05 PM	#37 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 994 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple SLS Name:alhedonists	Re: Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had? Just like I don't weigh myself, or wear a watch, I don't keep up with the number of partners I've had. I try not to be ruled by numbers. Pepper __________________ "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura

07-05-2008, 09:03 AM	#40 (permalink)
luvscum1 Here to Stay Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 26 Location: Ceres Status: female married SLS Name:luvscum	Re: Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had? Hello We lost track many years ago, We are both retired now, and always seeking new play partners. Mostly seeking men as I am very oral. If in our area and want to meat email us. Can be bi or str8

07-15-2008, 05:17 AM	#41 (permalink)
Malachista Pussy on the Prowl Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 204 Location: Central Europe Status: Single Female Blog Entries: 21	Re: Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had? Yeah, I keep a list with the dates I went to a club, and note with slashes (/) if something has happend

07-22-2008, 09:52 AM	#42 (permalink)
Brian and Jo Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 202 Location: Ontario	Re: Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had? We have been swinging for over 30 years now and lost count of the number of partners we have had a long time ago. However we do keep a separate address and phone list of our swinging contacts and there are currently 34 names listed. But we have not seen most of them for a few years. For us it is not the number of couples we have swung with that is important. What matters to us is the quality of the relationship, both sexual and friendship, we develop with our swinging partners. We most certainly like some sexual variety in our lives but we are also looking for a friendship which extends beyond the bedroom. When we started swinging in the late 1970s we met with a lot of couples once or twice. But over the years we have narrowed our circle of swinging friends to a group of six couples with whom we meet on a regular basis, sometimes with just one other couple, other times with two or more and occasionally all six. Nowadays we rarely swing outside of this group except when we are on vacation.

07-26-2008, 10:54 PM	#43 (permalink)
steve as is Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 27 Location: TAREE Status: marriedcouple	Re: Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had? no we dont but we have the memories to keep forever

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