Do you keep track of how many swing partners you've had?

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by graygo98

We are also very new, so like Vespertine said, its hard to not be aware of the numbers. But its certainly not the point... having a great time together is.

Numbers will never be too important. But WHAT I have experienced will be--whether it is with five couples over my lifetime, or fifty. I will receive my greatest pleasure in recalling what took place between people I enjoyed being with.

Originally Posted by confunktion

Quality over quanitity preferred here. It's not about the prowess or the conquest or signifigance of a list to me. I'd rather fondly remember that one night of unbridled fun for all than constantly be reminded of a bunch of miserable experiences.

Mr. Funk
Already burning my list in the fireplace

I proud of you Mr Funk, burning your list.

With the little experience I've had I already know it is the mutual pleasure between/among playmates that stands out most to me. When I know everyone is enjoying themselves, that is a moment to remember, that is what I strive for.

LM

[TNT]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Do you keep track of how many people you have sex with?

What? We were suppose to be keeping track? No one told us that

Like others have said, it's not about the numbers to us, it's about the fun we have and that's all that matters.

Teresa

[CB_n_Red]

We were recently asked by a couple we were meeting socially for the first time how many couples we had met. That we couldn't honestly say, not having kept count, actually seemed to work against us - there seemed to be an assumption that we hadn't actually played with anyone else before because we couldn't put a number on it!

Yup! It takes all sorts in this game....

CB

[hotokiecpl]

lOl at the moment i guess you can say we keep count but how hard is it to count to 1 in two different catagories? we have been with 1 cpl and with 1 single male for a mfm 3some twice. so at the moment even if we didn't try it would be very hard to forget as the single male is a good friend that we even see out of bed too.

We use to keep track but once we had to start taking our shoes off to count that high it just didn't seem worth the effort.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty

We use to keep track but once we had to start taking our shoes off to count that high it just didn't seem worth the effort.

I can count up to 21, IF I take off my shoes AND my underwear

[twotocum4u2]

It's not about numbers, we keep track because we play with several couples on a regular basis. We've become friends with many of them outside the bedroom.

[sweet_tna]

We have little punch cards to help us keep track. Every 10th couple earns us a free video rental . . . NOT! We'd rather enjoy the memories of the good times we've had than keep track of numbers.

=)

[Bama0468]

we don't keep track, if you put me on the spot I could likely count it out, but its not about numbers its about qulity and in a few cases the friendships we made BETWEEN the bed post... sides you can't knotch it if your tied to it ::p:

[Chris&Amelia]

You give out rental videos? We hand out raffle tickets and every month we hold a random drawing. The winner gets a pretty awesome gift basket.

[SluttyNymph]

I know the ballpark number lol no names being that i really don't remember about 75% of there names

[willyoats]

Being a compulsive data keeper, of course I do (did). It's the engineer/math geek in me.

And I kept dozens, maybe hundreds, of the love letters from a swing partner that I am still in contact with. A few years ago, I burned it all.

There was a time when looking back on that list of names was a thrill. Remembering each woman, her softness, her peculiarities, her touch was a trip down memory lane. Recalling how many times we made love was a thrill. I have a special soft spot for all of the women I was with more than three times.

It's not the numbers that count; it's the warm memories which the list helped me recall. Now that the list is gone, it is ever more difficult to recall some of them. That's a shame, but life goes on.

[luvscum1]

Bob use to keep track of the count, but it got to get out of hand,lol. when younger and at parties I would please 30-40 men a night and most of them more than once, now its always 8-10 a week often more. Most of the time its only oral ,thats my favorite pastime

[tittietwister]

Yes, we do keep a record.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

Do you keep track of how many people you have sex with?

I (Michael) sat down this afternoon with a pencil and paper and went about the task of listing the names of all females with whom I have had intimate contact since embarking on this Swing Lifestyles adverture. When I realized I could not easily recall all of the names, I began to think, "I'm out of control." As with so many other things in my life, I went to JoAnn for help. Together we completed the list; and another list for her as well.

An informal analysis:
- JoAnn and I have had the same number of partners, though this does not mean all were a result of a straight-across partner exchange.
- 19% eventually proved to be a "one-night stand".
- 30% of encounters have evolved into some sort of enduring relationship.
- 12% of the men are entirely incapable of having an erection.
- 0% of the women are incapable of having an orgasm.
- 54% are contacts made through on-line advertising.
- 21% are contacts made at meets-n-greets.
- 19% are contacts made at house parties.
- 4% are contacts made at swingers' clubs.

Percantage of encounters we regret -- 0%