How long do you like to play?

CantonCouple · 04-18-2003, 11:33 PM

Here are two questions, the first for the guys, the second for everyone.

I wondered how many times do you guys generally get off during a swinging encounter - Once? Twice? Even more?

Also, how long do your swinging encounters usually last - A few hours? An evening? An entire weekend?

Just curious.

lovers · 04-18-2003, 11:43 PM

I sometimes can get off as many as twice during a swinging encounter. It really depends on the situation.

As for length of time, a few hours is usually the norm for us.

Vjklander · 04-18-2003, 11:53 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by CantonCouple
Here's are two questions, the first for the guys, the second for everyone.

I wondered how many times do you guys generally get off during a swinging encounter - Once? Twice? Even more?

For MFM once or twice
For FMF three or four

Also, how long do your swinging encounters usually last - A few hours? An evening? An entire weekend?

Yes, usually overnight at least.

Just curious.

J

Chicup · 04-19-2003, 12:28 AM

I remember reading somewhere that men have to drag their women into a swingers party.

And then they have to drag them away

Seems to be a pretty common result.

Brit_Pair · 04-19-2003, 04:44 AM

Our meetings last anywhere between 5 and 7 hours. That includes time for socialising at the outset. Starting out as FF, and developing into MFMF, means I (Mr Brit) usually get off twice, though there was one exceptional evening when I squeezed in a third.

velbuzz · 04-19-2003, 07:27 AM

If we allow enough time (4-5 hours) I will be able to get hard at least twice. Women have the bonus situation because they can be on the receiving end of a tongue for as long as people are willing. And my tongue likes to keep moving

bill

OhioCouple · 04-19-2003, 07:41 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by CantonCouple
Here are two questions, the first for the guys, the second for everyone.

I wondered how many times do you guys generally get off during a swinging encounter - Once? Twice? Even more?

Also, how long do your swinging encounters usually last - A few hours? An evening? An entire weekend?

Just curious.

Our swing encounter have lasted from as little as 5 hours to an entire weekend. Part of the time usually consists of socializing (going to dinner together) and then to the bedroom. For the weekend jaunts, one couple that we are associated with lives 3 1/2 hours away from us. Whenever we get together with them which ever is the 'hosting' city we make a fun outing of it by including in local attractions, museums, car shows etc., during the daytime and in the evenings of course dinner and then on to some play time which is generally around 5 hours or so. We will include meeting for breakfast the morning of departure. (Also, I'd like to add that some sexual play has been know to happen in public venues while we were doing mainstream visiting...

These outings have alway been fun.

As for my hubby mainting a hard on and getting off. His best has generally been twice, (not including the one reserved for us after the other swingers have gone home.)

Lori

azwetnwild · 09-23-2003, 06:04 PM

I have seen some talk about women not liking marithon sessions, and other talk about a couple only staying and playing for a half and hour and how it was a wast of time.

So what is a good session and when dose it turn into a bad marithon session?

Reason for the question is I like to finish off with my wife so I just go until every one starts to get tired whether it's half hour or 3 hours, so if I forget to say somthing ahead of time it could be a long session and it's not somthing you can bring up half way thru.

Ciki123 · 09-23-2003, 06:27 PM

Most of the time I dont like looking at the clock, I just go with the flow. If it takes 6 hours, I dont mind....if it takes 15 mins...I dont mind...as long as its fun.

It really depends on the people.

I guess it would only be a bad marathon session if one person keeps going and going and the other person is bored or wants to stop....but that should never happen, because people should know when to speak up.

Ciki

**BiloxiCouple** · 09-24-2003, 12:00 AM

How long is too long?

When someone is not enjoying themselves anymore.

Next!!!

gsu22 · 09-24-2003, 12:31 AM

As soon as someone loses interest...its been too long in my opinion. Some like 15 min sessions....some like to do it for hours on end.......Me personally, it doesn't matter........the 15 min sessions can be hot and really physical while the ones lasting hours might be better sometimes because you can slow things down and really enjoy every minute.

Brit_Pair · 09-26-2003, 11:05 AM

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Originally posted by BiloxiCouple
How long is too long?

When someone is not enjoying themselves anymore.

A hard to argue with POV.

MagicEnigma · 09-26-2003, 05:07 PM

Hmmm, well I can’t really think of anything more interesting to do while watching TV, or reading a book. So if you can find a guy that can go a few hours, I’ll just have to keep an open mind and see what its like!

519Couple · 09-26-2003, 09:53 PM

ummm, anything more than about 9".

Bedmates · 09-26-2003, 09:59 PM

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Originally posted by 519Couple
ummm, anything more than about 9".

Ha ha ha!! I was looking for that! I knew somebody had to post it!

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04-18-2003, 11:33 PM	#1 (permalink)
CantonCouple Active Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 25	How many times do you usually get off during a swing? Here are two questions, the first for the guys, the second for everyone. I wondered how many times do you guys generally get off during a swinging encounter - Once? Twice? Even more? Also, how long do your swinging encounters usually last - A few hours? An evening? An entire weekend? Just curious.
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04-19-2003, 07:27 AM	#6 (permalink)
velbuzz Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 325 Location: Bradford County, PA Status: MWC 59/56 Swing Lifestyle Name:velbuzz	The girls are lucky If we allow enough time (4-5 hours) I will be able to get hard at least twice. Women have the bonus situation because they can be on the receiving end of a tongue for as long as people are willing. And my tongue likes to keep moving bill

09-23-2003, 06:04 PM	#8 (permalink)
azwetnwild Registered Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 6 Location: Flagstaff, Arizona Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:azwetnwild	how long is to long? I have seen some talk about women not liking marithon sessions, and other talk about a couple only staying and playing for a half and hour and how it was a wast of time. So what is a good session and when dose it turn into a bad marithon session? Reason for the question is I like to finish off with my wife so I just go until every one starts to get tired whether it's half hour or 3 hours, so if I forget to say somthing ahead of time it could be a long session and it's not somthing you can bring up half way thru.

04-18-2003, 11:43 PM	#2 (permalink)
lovers Delightfully Naughty Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 301 Location: Toronto, Canada Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Dalovers	I sometimes can get off as many as twice during a swinging encounter. It really depends on the situation. As for length of time, a few hours is usually the norm for us.

04-19-2003, 12:28 AM	#4 (permalink)
Chicup Not a potential *** Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 4,093 Location: Under the bed Status: Tired	I remember reading somewhere that men have to drag their women into a swingers party. And then they have to drag them away Seems to be a pretty common result.

04-19-2003, 04:44 AM	#5 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	Our meetings last anywhere between 5 and 7 hours. That includes time for socialising at the outset. Starting out as FF, and developing into MFMF, means I (Mr Brit) usually get off twice, though there was one exceptional evening when I squeezed in a third.

09-23-2003, 06:27 PM	#9 (permalink)
Ciki123 Active Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 13 Location: San Antonio Status: Couple	Most of the time I dont like looking at the clock, I just go with the flow. If it takes 6 hours, I dont mind....if it takes 15 mins...I dont mind...as long as its fun. It really depends on the people. I guess it would only be a bad marathon session if one person keeps going and going and the other person is bored or wants to stop....but that should never happen, because people should know when to speak up. Ciki
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09-24-2003, 12:00 AM	#10 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,002 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful	How long is too long? When someone is not enjoying themselves anymore. Next!!!
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09-24-2003, 12:31 AM	#11 (permalink)
gsu22 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 248 Location: Atlanta, Georgia Status: Single male	As soon as someone loses interest...its been too long in my opinion. Some like 15 min sessions....some like to do it for hours on end.......Me personally, it doesn't matter........the 15 min sessions can be hot and really physical while the ones lasting hours might be better sometimes because you can slow things down and really enjoy every minute.

09-26-2003, 05:07 PM	#13 (permalink)
MagicEnigma Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 149 Location: Great Lakes	Hmmm, well I can’t really think of anything more interesting to do while watching TV, or reading a book. So if you can find a guy that can go a few hours, I’ll just have to keep an open mind and see what its like!

09-26-2003, 09:53 PM	#14 (permalink)
519Couple Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 43 Location: Vancouver, BC Status: Couple	How long is too long? ummm, anything more than about 9".

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