How long do you like to play?

[OpenVA]

I'm just curious How other people feel about This. When you decide to play with others how long do you usually like to go? My wife and I are into marathon sessions (with breaks of course). What about you? one or 2 orgasams and your done for the night? or do you go until everyone is totaly spent? I'm the type that as long as I am awake I can keep going.

Another question just for the ladies. Which do you prefer more. a guy who can go for a really long time or someone who cums kind of quick but can keep coming back for more?

My wife is the type that much prefers a guy who cums faster but can keep coming back for more. She just really enjoys when a guy cums, so the more often he does the more she she enjoys it. That is as long as he can keep going after the first couple of times. She has repeatdly told me how frustrated she gets with guys who just keep going with out cumming.

That works for me because more often then not I cum a little faster then I would like but I rarely lose my erection and even if I do, I recover it quickly. There are occasions though when I can go for awhile and not cum. But she has told me that while she likes it when I can go a bit longer she enjoys it much more when I cum a bit faster and more often.

[CB_n_Red]

Well.... we just got home (now 5.30pm here) from our last night's playtime with some good friends. I make that about 20 hours in total. Not all playing of course. Plenty of good food, music, conversation etc etc as well as the fun, which went on intermittently the whole time we were there. We all managed at least some sleep in the course of the night as well. A very good time was had by all.

As for keeping going, I seem to be able to manage that just fine, but I can't get where I'm going everytime. Just the way I'm built and neither Red nor the other wife seem to complain. It would be nice to "get there" a bit more often, but at 48 I'm just glad I don't disappoint as regards stamina!

CB

[OpenVA]

Originally Posted by CB_n_Red

Well.... we just got home (now 5.30pm here) from our last night's playtime with some good friends. I make that about 20 hours in total. Not all playing of course. Plenty of good food, music, conversation etc etc as well as the fun, which went on intermittently the whole time we were there. We all managed at least some sleep in the course of the night as well. A very good time was had by all.

That is how we always kind of pictured it as well.

Originally Posted by CB_n_Red

As for keeping going, I seem to be able to manage that just fine, but I can't get where I'm going everytime. Just the way I'm built and neither Red nor the other wife seem to complain. It would be nice to "get there" a bit more often, but at 48 I'm just glad I don't disappoint as regards stamina!

CB

Well if no one is complaining then everything is fine :LOL:.

Please don't missunderstand the question though. My wife has a good time either way. But I was looking to illicit a response for the women on the board and what their prefrence was. I know a preference does not preclude a good time. I was just curious to hear what the ladies on the board had to say.

[northindycpl]

As far as Playtime goes... I would say it would depend on who we are with, and the situation at hand. I think going for awhile, taking a break, starting back up again is great. Sometimes the situation, however doesn't lend itself readily for that though!

As far as guys and comming..... I love it when a man can come repeatedly. I, too, get frustrated when a guy goes and goes and never comes, or saves it for the end. I would rather a man go and come, and go and come as he wants/we want.

I understand that some men think that lasting is really what women want, but that is only what some women want. I also think that as a man matures and recovery time becomes a factor, it bothers the man more than the woman. As I mature, my body changes too. We all do. Don't sweat it!

[hotcpl4unfla]

There's a couple we play with, and the husband takes forever to cum. Long after his wife, my wife and I have came, he is still pumping away. It almost becomes comical, all of us lying around and looking at our watches waiting for him to finish off. Personally, the wife and I enjoy having a good solid 2 hours of stop-go sex... getting worked up, ease it down, then work it up, etc. until we finally have one big massive orgasm. After our playthings have gone home, we have a one-on-one session that usually is over pretty quick. As long as the man is satisfying the woman he is with, it matters not how long things take in our opinion. I admit, I'm pretty quick once things get hot and heavy, but my wife is always right there with me...ladies still cum first!

[CB_n_Red]

Originally Posted by OpenVA

Well if no one is complaining then everything is fine :LOL:.

Oh yes

Originally Posted by OpenVA

But I was looking to illicit a response for the women on the board and what their prefrence was. I know a preference does not preclude a good time. I was just curious to hear what the ladies on the board had to say.

As Red is a total technophobe when it comes to using the computer, it's inevitably going to be me posting here, even if she's reading over my shoulder and telling me what to type!

Red likes repeaters, but is also happy with stayers. She likes the variety whatever.

CB

[HotMoCpl]

We haven't swung yet, but between her and I, we try to marathon. Reason? Once she cums the first time, she then starts cumming harder and longer and she knows I just love it when she's so sloppy wet that we need life jackets.
Cheers.

I've been a bad, bad, bad wittle boy. -Elmer Fud

[JustAskJulie]

I'll take a guy who can come in a relatively short time over a marathon man anyday. At the same time that doesn't mean I want to be going all night on either count. I probably fall into the one or two orgasms and I'm done group. In a group situation though, I'm typically happy to go until everyone is satisfied, whatever that might take. I haven't really encountered too many guys that could go more than once in a night without an extremely long break.

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by OpenVA

When you decide to play with others how long do you usually like to go? My wife and I are into marathon sessions (with breaks of course). What about you? one or 2 orgasams and your done for the night? or do you go until everyone is totaly spent? I'm the type that as long as I am awake I can keep going.

That really depends on who we are with. If it is a couple or single that we really click with then I'm all up for a marathon session with breaks But unfortunately we have had a few experiences where I can't wait till we're done I hate it when that happens but sometimes it just does. We're learning to watch for red flags a little better so it happens less and less.

Originally Posted by OpenVA

Another question just for the ladies. Which do you prefer more. a guy who can go for a really long time or someone who cums kind of quick but can keep coming back for more?

I prefer a guy who may cum faster but can keep coming back for more. Then you can have those 'marathon' sessions If he cums fast and is done . . . .

Mrs Spoomonkey

[mrbandsatl]

While talking with some friends recently, it dawned on us that some people are more focused on the duration of a sexual encounter than the quality of the encounter as a whole. Marathons are not our thing but we are curious... Not including all the wonderful flirting and foreplay that may go on outside the bedroom, from foreplay to getting dressed, how long is your typical sexual encounter when you are swinging? Is there any such thing as too short or too long? How long do you linger?

[Spoomonkey]

I don't think there is a "better" answer, but thinking over our experiences, we tend to spend a long time in the play room. I think because there is a lot of swapping around.

We are "long players" privately, so I think this sort of "spills over" into our swinging life. Marathon sessions and frequent sessions, though, can be quality sessions.

Spoomonkey

When Mrs naughty and I get involved in an MFM where the guy knows what he is doing (wether he is an "Experienced Swinger" or not), it is not uncommon for it to last HOURS. Small 10-15 minute breaks inbetween for all involved.
There has been more than one occasion where the sun has started to come up and that's when we decided we should probably get some sleep.

Of course they don't always last that long. But they are the ones that I remember the most. facelick

BTW,
A Marathon & quality can go hand in hand. A quality experience IS what turns it into a marathon.

[ALilOEverything]

For me anything less than an hour would be a disappointment. When we played the play sessions were far and few between, we had to get a sitter, get ready, drive a long way so I like to drag it out. foreplay, swap, more foreplay, swap again, sex for awhile, swap again, more foreplay, more swapping (I really enjoy going back and forth between partners) more sex etc... I think we averaged and hour and a half. I notice that the sessions between those who we knew well vs. those who we just met were much longer. Sex with strangers was always quicker and less satisfying for me.

[two4youinswva]

For us, when playing with others, the sessions tend to last a fairly long time. We recently spent some time with a favorite couple, and I think we "started" around 9:30pm. When all the fun to be had was had, and everyone was spent and wearing a big fat smile, I remember looking at the clock and saying "Holy $h1t! It's after 1am!". But I swear, 3 hours feels like 30 minutes when you're having a great time. It's not always that long, but it never seems to last less than 2 hours or so.

When we are playing with each other at home, it can vary wildly. Sometimes we will go at it for a couple hours (when time permits of course) getting as nasty as we want to be. Then on occasion, Mrs two4you will call me into the bedroom, and when I arrive, she is already in "doggie position", saying "pound me right now!". 10 minutes later she's humming a song while getting ready for work and I'm flopping around on the bed trying to get my weak knees to work again.

[mrbandsatl]

Originally Posted by ALilOEverything

Sex with strangers was always quicker and less satisfying for me.

Amen to that! Since we have a fairly limited window to play, we focus on our friends. While we occasionally enjoy a "strange" encounter, it is far less satisfying.

To answer our own question, our sessions tend to be protracted over a couple of hours with multiple variations between the participants. By "marathon," I was referring to a protracted event without a variety of positions and partners. Not that we put a time-limit on things, but we don't get too many opportunities to play and we love the variety that each opportunity provides.

So, we tend to switch around, take a break, jump back in, watch for a bit, then do it all again till everyone is worn out!

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Bob (and Sandy)