Private party vs swing club

[EUcpl]

Searching to get more information if you prefer to play on a private party or in a swing club we found no results. Therefore our question. Hook up with other couples and swap partners what do you prefer and why?

a) private parties
b) swing clubs

We prefer private parties because nobody will disturb us, no masturbating male voyeurs are watching us. Moanings and groanings are well known. Means not that we visit from time to time swing clubs. We do it often and especially when we are hot for an interracial.

Maggie

[CowboynVixen]

Both have their places.

Swing clubs are great for meeting new folks in real life, grabbing an email address if they seem to work for you, and testing the waters of compatibility. Swing clubs are not the best for really getting the in-debth scoop, however, and should most often be used for preliminary meetings and "wild balls to the wall" adventure when all cylinders click for a spur of the moment fling.

House parties are far more personal and are ideal for getting to know folks you have already met, or are meeting for the first time at the party. These parties tend to be the friendship building oppertunities, and often lead to connections that endure, and information that makes you decide not to get close to a couple.
At a house party, you are more apt to see teh warts on the folks you are meeting, allowing you a a more complete picture of long term possibilities.

[good times]

Originally Posted by CowboynVixen

At a house party, you are more apt to see teh warts on the folks you are meeting, allowing you a a more complete picture of long term possibilities.

Ewwww, Bad mental picture moment there CowboynVixen.

I do agree with you though, except with house parties we are much more concerned with knowing at least one other attendee before we will go because if it turns out that the group just isn't compatible with us it is much harder to make a hasty exit without offending anyone.

[JustAskJulie]

Thought I'd help you out here and add a poll to your topic, so you could get a few more responses that way.

[Spoomonkey]

When I read the poll - I posted swing clubs.

Mostly because I interpreted "private parties" to be gatherings of numerous couples at someones house. Our impression of them is that there is more pressure to play - so we have declined invitations so far...

But - if you mean getting together with another couple, that would be a lot of fun.

But - the thing about a swing club is even if you don't have sex, you have a good time... At least we do...

So I would still vote for the swing club.

Spoomonkey

[fun_pairTX]

We voted for swing clubs because we don't have to help clean up the next day LOL.
Otherwise they are pretty much the same to us.

[northindycpl]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

But - the thing about a swing club is even if you don't have sex, you have a good time... At least we do...

Spoomonkey

To go to an actuall house party with many couples is challenging. What if you don't know everyone, and don't get along when you get there? There is a lot of pressure to perform,too. (this is probably just my issue) I am alergic to cats, so what if we go and they have a gazillion cats?

I love getting together with a couple- outside of the club. But as far as your specific question I would vote "club"

It is a hellluva lot of fun for us, even without sex!

Mrs. Indy <-not allergic to monkeys or monkey wives>

[mf69_98]

We have preferred house parties to swing clubs. For one, we feel the swing clubs expect you to join for a period of time & if you don't click with many people or something comes up (as mu recent auto accident) you can't make it very much, you're out the money whereas with a house party, if you don't clikc with anyone, you can just make an excuse and hit the road.

[fun_pairTX]

CowboyandVixen posted; "House parties are far more personal and are ideal for getting to know folks you have already met, or are meeting for the first time at the party. These parties tend to be the friendship building oppertunities, and often lead to connections that endure, and information that makes you decide not to get close to a couple."

The house parties that we have here in Texas are more of a "leave your clothes at the door" type of event. We have been to a few on premise clubs and they are just no where wild as Texans turned loose.

[Belkin]

Man, you took the words right out of my mouth, Spoo. Agree 100% with everything.

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

When I read the poll - I posted swing clubs.

Mostly because I interpreted "private parties" to be gatherings of numerous couples at someones house. Our impression of them is that there is more pressure to play - so we have declined invitations so far...

But - if you mean getting together with another couple, that would be a lot of fun.

But - the thing about a swing club is even if you don't have sex, you have a good time... At least we do...

So I would still vote for the swing club.

Spoomonkey

[Sexyasiancouple]

Swing clubs are forgiving,therefore more comfortable.when it comes to single males a firm no seems to stop the come on.Variety seems to be a great asset to clubs.Just seeing roughly the same faces at a private party,that you werent interested in before makes them somewhat boring.There is one exception.We go to a bigirls party in calif.,where the host solicits new couples for every party.This party is truly better than any club.We always meet new people there.In fact we have met some of our best friends in the lifestyle there. B&T

[xxoticangel]

Despite our years in the lifestyle, meeting people from all over, we have never been invited to a house party. We have played at our home or someone else's home but don't consider those "parties". If invited we would probably attend a house party if for no other reason than to have the expierence but when we go "shopping" for playmates we would prefer a club. Seems there would be less pressure to hook up and even if we didn't we would still be able to have a great time watching and being watched.

[Alura]

Since we've never been to an on-premises club, we voted "Private Parties." We love to entertain at our home and consider two or more couples a party. Our private parties have been limited to two couples but maybe someday...

Mr. Alura

[Denver2some]

We prefer private parties, but of course much depends on the environment established by the host couple.

The private parties we've enjoyed the most have been of the "meet and greet" type, for the purpose of meeting other like-minded couples. Any serious play that went on, went on afterwards and at other locations. So there was no pressure to play at all, which made it easy to relax and enjoy the evening. (As opposed to a club, where you sometimes can find yourself in the position of saying "No Thank You" most of the night.)

[Vespertine]

I voted for private parties.

I prefer small intimate gatherings.