Condom Use: principles vs the heat of the moment

[twoready4fun]

We always use condoms. If we ever become exclusive with another couple, there is a slim possiblity that could change once everyone got tested.

[lacouples]

We don't have many rules, but we always use condoms for penetration. On one occasion a condom broke during anal. As soon as I noticed I stopped. The woman I was playing with would have continued, but my wife and I live by the condom rule.

[nhcpl1968]

We always use condoms with folks we don't know.if we have know them for some time and can trust them we just go with what ever happens

[hannah_mark]

Each to their own but I find this an odd question. I have never allowed another male (or a toy for that matter) penetrate me when swinging unless they are wearing a condom. The same applies with Rob. He always, without question, wears a condom when penetrating another woman.

Safety is so important to us. We feel that anyone who doesn't wish to use protection really shows a lack of respect for the people they're playing with. I suppose it's down to each couple.

[hannah_mark]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

Does anyone use condoms for BlowJobs too?

We don't ask for that but we have been asked to do this before and really don't mind. I suppose there's been a handful of times when condoms have been used for a blow job and, once, we used dental dams as well.

[Formybubu]

We choose to go bareback as we are both fixed and the condoms cause rashes for both of us. But when we are with a new couple(we know who does and does not use them for the couple we have played with ) We use a code we just say Yes or No if one says yes then we know a condom will be used. But if she says no and the other person says use onefor me We will stop playing with that couple as we do not play with couple who don't play by the same rules. It is either yes for both males or no. Not you have to with me but he doesn't with her.

[shywife]

My ex was extremely hot for sloppy seconds - I just couldn't go there knowing the risks.

[sweet_tna]

Condom use is one of our few hard and fast rules. As long as it's still a rule, we're following it. No exceptions.


(And yes, the pun is intentional)

=)

[red96]

Last time we played I stopped our friend from penetrating the Mrs. without a condom. Not sure if it was a heat of the moment thing or he was just seeing if he could get away with not using one. We always want our partner to wear a condom, maybe if we were in a situation that became a regular thing and we all got tested we would consider not using them. But for now we require condom use for penetration and we also bring some with us just in case our partner doesn't have any.

[Brian and Jo]

We do most of our playing with a group of six couples we have known for over 20 years. We do not use condoms when we are with them. But if we are with a new couple or a couple we have not known for some time condoms are essential.