Do you prefer MFM or FMF threesome?

[JandY]

It's a pity that as a couple we could only vote once in the poll.

As it happens, we both agree that MFM is our preference, but many (we would hope) of the individual board members are one half of a couple sharing the same login.

What if our tastes were different?

[ist75swing]

Definitely MFM,
it is my best choice to have more than one lover in bed, and best turn on for my hubby.
if the 2nd man have a good friend, love to invite him too and have them play as a team on me both as MMFM group.
any other hot affair i am willing always to have

[SuperJast]

FFM 1st, and MF/M 2nd. Threesomes over foursomes, any day ! At least in this household !

[amid]

Originally Posted by Trellken

I'm too territorial/possessive to have another rooster in the henhouse.

This made us laugh..

We have had mostly 4 somes, one fmf and a few mfm (with a close friend). We love puppy piles on the bed, with the fmf there is nothing sexier than the girls making out and getting it on with each other, and for the mfm the joy of seeing mrs. taking on another man and seeing the exuberance at which she attacks her new lover is truly amazing! I guess it's just human nature to put your best foot forward with a stranger.

and as to the quote up top we would LOVE to have more mfm but we are hesitant for so many reasons. Safety being one? We both have this idea of some nut out there meeting us in a hotel room and turning out to be Son of Sam or something and the other thing is NEITHER one of us likes the Alpha Male type.. Jocks or Macho men (is that term even still used? or am I dating myself?) We both just seem to get along with low key people with no egos whether they be male or female..
No Problems with another Rooster in the Henhouse as long as he's not too COCKY haahaa..

[mixtupcpl]

Originally Posted by amid

and as to the quote up top we would LOVE to have more mfm but we are hesitant for so many reasons. Safety being one? We both have this idea of some nut out there meeting us in a hotel room and turning out to be Son of Sam or something and the other thing is NEITHER one of us likes the Alpha Male type.. Jocks or Macho men (is that term even still used? or am I dating myself?) We both just seem to get along with low key people with no egos whether they be male or female..
No Problems with another Rooster in the Henhouse as long as he's not too COCKY haahaa..

Hey, we're a 2nd ammendment state here in PA! Just go in heavy

Seriously though, we share the same concerns, but I think it can be addressed pretty well by just taking your time up front to get to know someone a bit.

The good thing with MFM is that there is no shortage of guys and guys are far less picky than women, so odds are eventually you will find someone who "fits" well and isnt a clear and present danger

we picked "other" b/c neither of us really have a threesome fantasy that is so strong. We've always played separately so the biggest curiosity for us would be MFMF

[amid]

Originally Posted by mixtupcpl

Hey, we're a 2nd ammendment state here in PA! Just go in heavy

Seriously though, we share the same concerns, but I think it can be addressed pretty well by just taking your time up front to get to know someone a bit.

LOL.. made us laugh.
I (male) have a permit to carry, but that probably wouldn't be a good idea! Can you see that falling out of the purse at the wrong time? The poor guy would think we were the nuts out to get him and would probably run outta the room nekkid whilst screaming! And it sure wouldn't look good sporting a shoulder holster and NOTHING else..

[mixtupcpl]

Originally Posted by amid

LOL.. made us laugh.
I (male) have a permit to carry, but that probably wouldn't be a good idea! Can you see that falling out of the purse at the wrong time? The poor guy would think we were the nuts out to get him and would probably run outta the room nekkid whilst screaming! And it sure wouldn't look good sporting a shoulder holster and NOTHING else..

Hahaha! I think we're inching towards a Micky Spillane novel! "HOT love and COLD steel!"

[Rackir]

Originally Posted by mixtupcpl

Hey, we're a 2nd amendment state here in PA! Just go in heavy

Heh. I thought the same thing when I read the Son of Sam comment. My wife and I both typically carry, and I'd feel nothing but pity for the psycho that thought he'd have an easy mark with us.

I actually had a semi funny/interesting experience with that a short while ago, but no one ran screaming.

Anyways, I voted MFM. While seeing my wife on the bed making out with another beautiful woman is a sight I will never tire of, something about the MFM really tickles me in my happy place. Of course that could be due to the fact that most of our experiences to date have been either foursomes or FMF's, and I do love me a little something different!

[mixtupcpl]

Originally Posted by Rackir

I actually had a semi funny/interesting experience with that a short while ago, but no one ran screaming.

Post! Just change names to protect the (not so?) innocent! Sounds perfect for the "Experiences" forum

[Sunswept]

Originally Posted by Speed & Trixie

Is it the voyeurism that attracts these men or the feeling of shring your mate with another man?

Speed.

I prefer MFM. It's all of the above for me, but add a bit of exibitionism plus a few more things!

I notice that some women really "blossom" sexually in the lifestyle, and they can truely be more than any one man can handle to get them to the peak of their complete satisfaction. So havingf a SM team up with me... or teaming up with hubby to take his sexy lady where she wants to go and allow her to indulge herself there for as long as she wants -is a big, big turn on.

Also, MFM takes enough pressure off each male to allow each of them to give their very best! As her energy evolves, it takes us all to hot hot places we can't really get to as a couple, or by ourselves, except through fantasy.

Also, from a voyeristic point of view and now as a SM seeing a couple that is really into each other abandoning themselves to each other is a huge turn to too! Hot!

Last, it is easier logistically than full swap with couples as people have already pointed out.

[cmarriedc]

WOW on the MFM vote I was sure it was all going to be FMF

[bbarnsworth]

Originally Posted by cmarriedc

WOW on the MFM vote I was sure it was all going to be FMF

Yeah. Very common misconception. People expect men will almost automatically say FMF, and that 99% of men have this fantasy.

Personally, I would enjoy an FMF but we're not looking for it. If a unicorn walks out of the forest...

But an MFM? I just love watching my wife have sex with another man.

[couplers]

Hubby and I both prefer FMF. Except when the three of us are on vacation (hubby, my bf Red, me), Red and I play alone. Although hubby can and does play alone as well, the big turn-on for me is watching my husband enjoy sex with another woman then getting him back for round two.