Do you prefer MFM or FMF threesome?

[Beachswinger]

I prefer FMF. Alot of guys have this fantasy of making love to 2 girls at the same time. I can say from my experiences that it's alot of work on the guy to totally satisfy 2 women at the same time. A good mix of tongue and cock usually suffices. You don't want to find yourself satisfying one and then running out of steam for the seond gal. Now that I'm middle aged, I do need the blue diamond to keep me at my prime and still be able to perform for both. I'm an opportunist who believes in living life to the fullest !

[Beachswinger]

While I have always preferred FMF, don't get me wrong, I'm currently involved in an occasional MFM (my first time) with a very nice couple who have invited me into their sex lives. MFM is fun too. For me, it's actually easier as far as performance goes as the woman is attended to by her husband and me. It's an easygoing relationship, no competition as to who goes in first, etc. The only difference is that while he and I both don't mind sloppy seconds, neither of us will go down on her after one of us cums in her, so we have to make sure SHE cums a few times before we get our rocks off in her. He's not much into oral so I get to feast on her until she cums at least 3x. Only then do us guys get "plug in"... :-)

[billyboy]

its all good

[joaninla]

Both my husband and I get very aroused each time we have an MFM. Nothing beats it!

[cubnamy1995]

This is the wife. First let me start by saying I admire the fact that you are asking before doing. Hubby and I aren't the most experienced people on the boards, but we have had our share of different combinations. Personally, I tend to go to the group thing a whole lot more where there are arms, legs, and asses everywhere. But in a more intimate setting with just 3, I tend to like the fmf. Don't get me wrong, I enjoy mfm, but lets face it, as a bi-woman, an fmf is just more fun for me.
It sounds like you are trying to figure out how to get you wife to get over her nerves more than anything else. Rule #1, DON"T PUSH IT! Talking is cool, but if the only thing you ever talk about is seeing your wife with another man, the more uncomfortable she will be. I'm sure in your mind, you are trying to let her know just how comfortable you are and in your own way trying to reassure her of your feelings. As a woman, what we hear is "I really really really want this, so please just do it already." If the idea does get her hot, then it will happen. My first time with an mfm with hubby was good, but not great because I felt like I was on display and had to almost "perform" to his expectations. That took alot of the excitement I wanted out of the experience away from me because it then wasn't about us, it was about him.
Now, after the experience, I had the chance to really talk to hubby and express my feelings. Since then, he still loves to watch, but not in that creepy way. He still gets to see me with another man, but I can actually enjoy myself, which in turn makes him even hotter.
Talk to your wife. Ask her how she would actually feel, (not just does the sex feel good). Actually being watched for the first time by your lover can be quite overwhelming and that may be a large part of her reservations. I'm sure the two of you can come up with the perfect scenario so that each of you is satisfied with the experience, and not just one or the other.

[blkendowednfla]

I'm a single male that feels he's in the minority as well. I too find it hot to have a woman enjoying herself in mfm situation. As for me, I have been on a discreet hunt to find a woman compatible in the "arena". Hopefully you finally get the chance to enjoy it with your wifey!

Ciao

[NandDinDayton]

The wife and I have been in the lifestyle for almost 5 years now. In that time we've shared more MFM's than FMF's. Mostly due to the lack of single females but I have to say I prefer the MFM's anyways. While the wife is Bi it surely still very difficult to handle 2 women......lol. Admittedly I love to watch her and another female going at it and I could just sit and watch for hours. I usually do watch for a while then join in for the last 1/3 of the session. When we do MFM that usually lasts about 1-1 1/2 hours and its all playtime for everyone. We're not "swappers". We prefer that everyone more or less plays together in one group. Thats what's fun for us.

[jon&roberta]

I know its all good - but I love the following FFM. Love women who will do another woman.

[varangian]

For a young fellow FMF is of course more exciting, but for the mature man MFM is the real thing - you get everything, first the live show and then the action. V

[SEA_DUCER]

FMF definitely I always love the attention of two women who want to be with me as well as eachother. Unfortunately it does not happen very often (

[AdultSocials]

I had to vote "other" because we as a couple prefer to play with other couples. We've only had one FMF threesome (since we've been together) and although it was fun, we enjoy watching each other with someone else, so couples work better for us!

[ross_sally]

I voted FMF, I thought that was the proverbial fantasy for males, but apparently not.

[love2dp]

My screen name says it all.

[steve as is]

MMF i love watching the pleasure my wife recieves and gives

[fun4Ds]

I kinda like MFM, its fun. And it was a first fantasy opened.

Mrs.fun prefers FMF Its fun, and ongoing.