Glove with the one you love?

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by Russ

boy, I sure wish you had stopped your hubby before he told me he was a "double standards" kind of husband.......on a "do you fuck filled pussy" thread.....I already knew I was expected to wear a condom, and figured the same thing you just wrote always applied in a MFM.....I mean you do have 3 wonderful attractions at the amusement park...and I know which one isn't open to me(usually never as a rule) and usually like to enjoy a light snack of snatch before going to work( but never with fresh gravy!)

I don't see why I would ever need to stop Mr Spoo on anything especially telling someone he is a double standard husband. What I do with Mr Spoo or as you put it what 'attractions at the amusement park' are open to him are in no way an indication that they are open to anyone else short of our choosing. So yes he/we are double standard because we do this for us to play with friends we meet in the lifestyle.

I believe and have found that most couples share the same sentiment about their relationship and activities with each other compared to their relationship and activities with people they play with.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[northindycpl]

I wouldn't expect or want Mr. Indy to wear one, at all, anytime. I would expect another,too. And Curious is absolutely right- it is for his protection as much as mine.

As I am still fertile and not on the pill- I am incredibly cautious when it comes to that point. Mr. Indy had a VAS, and we were looking for a couple where the male did, also- but no luck finding that! If we were with our regular couple and he had a VAS condoms wouldn't be a biggy to me.

[northindycpl]

ok.... question:

In a DP situation, Mr Indy is gloved and Hubby B is ungloved. Does Mr. Indy run a risk if Hubby B cums inside his wife and it leaks onto Mr. Indy?

It seems like the shaft is exposed so there would be risk? Right?

[Mrs Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

It seems like the shaft is exposed so there would be risk? Right?

I think in the lifestyle there is always a risk with everything. We use condoms but then do oral with no protection. I think you just have to be as careful as you can and then decide if your willing to take the rest of the risks.

I would think in this situation the condom would be good protection but like you said there is always a chance of it getting on the shaft, and then if it does is that a risk That I don't really know. It doesn't seem like it would be.

Mrs Spoomonkey

[northindycpl]

yes... that is what I was thinking. But I guess I wanted someone elses opinion, too!

Maybe only DP with me is what I am thinking.

[cupl4fun]

maybe i don't get the question, but none of these answers really work for me. I wouldn't use a condom with my wife but if it was a ffm i would with the other woman. if it was mmf i still probably wouldn't with my wife unless she asked me to but don't think she would.

[Hot Raleigh Cpl]

Bareback is the only way for us.

S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl

[sweet_tna]

Mr. Sweet never gloves up when he and I play each other. There's no need to, since we always use condoms when playing with others (realizing it's not 100% foolproof). And moreover, it's our CHOICE.

If the other guy has an issue with it, then we eliminate the issue by not playing with him.
And of course, if Mr. Sweet were the second guy in an MFM, he'd glove up automatically.

=)

[Tia Vampire]

Yeah, what sweet tna said. There is no need for SO to use a condom in any situation, but it is a must for the other guy.