Bi-women who don't go down

[Ed & Bunny]

i was glad to see this topic come up again. The wife and I are starting to talk about swinging alot again so it looks like we may be back in action soon.

The bi topic came up last night. Right now I am not entirely too sure what to think about her motives. I dont think it is a case of "bi for the guy" because she states that there is going to have to be a certain chemistry for that to happen. I am hoping it is just her re-evaluating her feelings. She is already doing that with some of the rules we have so this would go along with that. So it is now possible we will be involved in some bi activity. But one thing she does state is that she doesnt think she could go down on another woman. She doesnt even like to kiss me after I have been down on her so her preference doesnt supprise me.

So now to this post. It was enlightening to read how others feel about this topic. I can understand how some could feel a bit let down by the one sidedness of it. So based on this, we probobly wont list her as even bi curious on our profile when we set it up for Arizona. If asked about it, we will tell others that she is not sure if we can go there yet. This way we will be telling the total truth. Bunny is picky with men, so I am sure it will be as bad if not worse with women. This way if she does feel the spark, it will be a bonus supprise for the other couple/female, and Bunny will be able to state her preferences before it goes anywhere.

So what do you think, is this the best route to take?

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by Ed & Bunny

i was glad to see this topic come up again. The wife and I are starting to talk about swinging alot again so it looks like we may be back in action soon.

The bi topic came up last night. Right now I am not entirely too sure what to think about her motives. I dont think it is a case of "bi for the guy" because she states that there is going to have to be a certain chemistry for that to happen. I am hoping it is just her re-evaluating her feelings. She is already doing that with some of the rules we have so this would go along with that. So it is now possible we will be involved in some bi activity. But one thing she does state is that she doesnt think she could go down on another woman. She doesnt even like to kiss me after I have been down on her so her preference doesnt supprise me.

So now to this post. It was enlightening to read how others feel about this topic. I can understand how some could feel a bit let down by the one sidedness of it. So based on this, we probobly wont list her as even bi curious on our profile when we set it up for Arizona. If asked about it, we will tell others that she is not sure if we can go there yet. This way we will be telling the total truth. Bunny is picky with men, so I am sure it will be as bad if not worse with women. This way if she does feel the spark, it will be a bonus supprise for the other couple/female, and Bunny will be able to state her preferences before it goes anywhere.

So what do you think, is this the best route to take?

I think honesty is always the best policy. It should be no different than discussing any of your other preferences and boundaries when swinging.

=)