Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers? - Page 3

Littlebitsexty · 11-25-2009, 11:36 AM

I think most people are, by nature, voyeurs. I think most people, at times, are exhibitionists. I think it takes a very special breed of all three:voyeur; exhibitionist; swinger, to swing.

CXXC · 11-25-2009, 02:10 PM

Understanding that not everyone fits in every spot, would it not be safe to say:
Not all voyeurs/Exhibitionists are swingers but all swingers are Voyeurs/Exhibitionists.

**fun4Ds** · 11-25-2009, 05:30 PM

I say and voted,

"No, if they are eclusively voyeurs and exhibitionists and don't play with others they are not swingers."

I see three seperate identities, with all three having different levels of entitelment and satisfaction.

If we are with another couple I can be voyeristic or an exibitionist...And we will be swinging !

Neither of them can do what I can do (have sex outside my primary),

We (swingers) have the best of all three worlds.

>b

**good times** · 11-25-2009, 10:33 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by CXXC

Understanding that not everyone fits in every spot, would it not be safe to say:
Not all voyeurs/Exhibitionists are swingers but all swingers are Voyeurs/Exhibitionists.

I don't think so, at least not for me. I think it is just how I am wired, but a spectator or performer I am not. I am pretty much that way about everything in life though, as I don't enjoy watching others play sports either, for example. I am more of a doer than a watcher. I can't say that watching others have sex is a turn-on for me, nor do I enjoy having people watch me having sex. So, no, I am neither a voyeur nor an exhibitionist, but I am a swinger.

mikeandjenn2001 · 01-13-2010, 11:37 AM

This was exactly the way we got started swinging, was just watching and being watched...the voyeurism/exhibitionism part of it. We eventually moved on to soft swap and then full swap. Maybe not all voyeurs are swingers, but I would definately say most exhibitionists are. We were at a party where a single lady played with just about any guy she could get...partly because that's what she was into, but also because she was an exhibitionist. There is no "rule-book" for what qualifies as swinging, what works for some, may not work for all.

SecretAsianMan · 01-13-2010, 01:14 PM

I would say that if the only thing a couple does is watch / play with each other ... then they're not "swingers"

However, most swingers do engage in some voyeurism / exhibitionism at some point in their activities.

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View Poll Results: Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers?
yes, I think that voyeurs and exhibitionists are swingers.	46	22.33%
Maybe, tell me more.	34	16.50%
No, if they are eclusively voyeurs and exhibitionists and don't play with others they are not swingers.	126	61.17%
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11-25-2009, 11:36 AM	#31 (permalink)
Littlebitsexty Registered User Join Date: Nov 2009 Posts: 1 Location: LA Status: Female/S	Re: Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers? I think most people are, by nature, voyeurs. I think most people, at times, are exhibitionists. I think it takes a very special breed of all three:voyeur; exhibitionist; swinger, to swing.

11-25-2009, 02:10 PM	#32 (permalink)
CXXC Veni, Vidi, Veni!!!! Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 952 Location: Savannah GA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:cxxc1963	Re: Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers? Understanding that not everyone fits in every spot, would it not be safe to say: Not all voyeurs/Exhibitionists are swingers but all swingers are Voyeurs/Exhibitionists.
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11-25-2009, 05:30 PM	#33 (permalink)
fun4Ds Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,489 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun	Re: Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers? I say and voted, "No, if they are eclusively voyeurs and exhibitionists and don't play with others they are not swingers." I see three seperate identities, with all three having different levels of entitelment and satisfaction. If we are with another couple I can be voyeristic or an exibitionist...And we will be swinging ! Neither of them can do what I can do (have sex outside my primary), We (swingers) have the best of all three worlds. >b
	Last edited by fun4Ds; 11-25-2009 at 05:34 PM.

01-13-2010, 11:37 AM	#35 (permalink)
mikeandjenn2001 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2010 Posts: 119 Location: Dayton, OH Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mikenjenn2001	Re: Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers? This was exactly the way we got started swinging, was just watching and being watched...the voyeurism/exhibitionism part of it. We eventually moved on to soft swap and then full swap. Maybe not all voyeurs are swingers, but I would definately say most exhibitionists are. We were at a party where a single lady played with just about any guy she could get...partly because that's what she was into, but also because she was an exhibitionist. There is no "rule-book" for what qualifies as swinging, what works for some, may not work for all.

01-13-2010, 01:14 PM	#36 (permalink)
SecretAsianMan Tastes Great Less Filling Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,467 Location: Los Angeles Status: Single Male Swing Lifestyle Name:Secret_Asian_Man	Re: Are voyeurs and exhibitionists swingers? I would say that if the only thing a couple does is watch / play with each other ... then they're not "swingers" However, most swingers do engage in some voyeurism / exhibitionism at some point in their activities.
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