Does a History of Cheating Lead to Swinging? - Page 7

SirDavidandhalo · 08-08-2007, 10:57 AM

Both Dave and I have been cheated on in previous relationships. Those relationships were not strong to begin with. But the cheating bothered us because it was done behind our backs. In fact in both cases we were already swinging so we thought...what the heck? So as Dragonslair stated swinging will not fix what is wrong with your marriage. Dave and I have a strong relationship so swining just adds to it. We are strong believers that humans are not sexually monogomous. We feel that SOMETIMES that is what leads to cheating. We have talked at length about this and there is no reason for either of us to cheat as we have the other partners permission to have sex with whomever we choose as long as the other knows of it and is getting their emotional needs met at home.

Jim&Shelley · 06-03-2009, 07:03 PM

She and I both cheated, that is how we came to be together;-) I had cheated once and she was the second affair of my ten year marriage. She had cheated twice and I was the third affair of her six year marriage.

NCfuncouple98 · 06-04-2009, 07:53 AM

Interesting question.

I cheated on Mr. NC back when we dated in high school, causing our break-up. He's 98% sure is ex-wife cheated on him, but when we married there was no hint of infidelity whatsoever between the two of us.

I'll have to ask him his thoughts - he is the one first brought up the subject of swinging.

bbarnsworth · 06-04-2009, 09:56 AM

Cheating's had no connection either to our relationship or to our swinging lives. Cheating has had an impact on my view and management of relationships (oddly, in a positive way). But, there's no apparent connection in any of it to swinging.

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I cheated in a prior relationship	224	37.90%
My Partner cheated in a prior relationship	159	26.90%
I have been cheated on in a prior relationship	215	36.38%
My partner was cheated on in a prior relationship	154	26.06%
Cheating has never been an issue in either of our prior relationships	177	29.95%
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08-08-2007, 10:57 AM	#91 (permalink)
SirDavidandhalo Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 16 Location: New York Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:SirDavid924	Re: History of Cheating Both Dave and I have been cheated on in previous relationships. Those relationships were not strong to begin with. But the cheating bothered us because it was done behind our backs. In fact in both cases we were already swinging so we thought...what the heck? So as Dragonslair stated swinging will not fix what is wrong with your marriage. Dave and I have a strong relationship so swining just adds to it. We are strong believers that humans are not sexually monogomous. We feel that SOMETIMES that is what leads to cheating. We have talked at length about this and there is no reason for either of us to cheat as we have the other partners permission to have sex with whomever we choose as long as the other knows of it and is getting their emotional needs met at home.

06-03-2009, 07:03 PM	#92 (permalink)
Jim&Shelley Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 32 Location: Knoxville, TN Status: Couple	Re: Does a History of Cheating Lead to Swinging? She and I both cheated, that is how we came to be together;-) I had cheated once and she was the second affair of my ten year marriage. She had cheated twice and I was the third affair of her six year marriage.

06-04-2009, 07:53 AM	#93 (permalink)
NCfuncouple98 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2008 Posts: 723 Location: North Caroliina Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ncfuncouple98	Re: Does a History of Cheating Lead to Swinging? Interesting question. I cheated on Mr. NC back when we dated in high school, causing our break-up. He's 98% sure is ex-wife cheated on him, but when we married there was no hint of infidelity whatsoever between the two of us. I'll have to ask him his thoughts - he is the one first brought up the subject of swinging.
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06-04-2009, 09:56 AM	#94 (permalink)
bbarnsworth Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2008 Posts: 1,870 Location: South Central Indiana Status: Couple	Re: Does a History of Cheating Lead to Swinging? Cheating's had no connection either to our relationship or to our swinging lives. Cheating has had an impact on my view and management of relationships (oddly, in a positive way). But, there's no apparent connection in any of it to swinging.

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