How many people have you had intercourse with?

[JTcamp05]

Is not enough an answer???????????

[mbnudist]

Him, accurate count is 55 at present and counting

Her, aout 12 to 15 total and counting

These numbers only include m/f sex, and does not include f/f events, of which there are an additional 6 or 7 for her.

He is 54 and she is 52 years old. Most of these were BEFORE getting involved in swinging, but that's what the poll asked for.

[verdiemae]

Okay, saw a lot of questions going on here I am going with over the lifetime and that is what I added to the pole. That is the 13 in my lifetime personally and the 4 we have "played" with as a couple or single in the lifestyle. This includes anything where 1 person at least had some sort of orgasm whether intercourse, oral or "touchy feely". That about covers it all, I guess. So suprisingly, most folks seem to fall in the under 15 category. I don't know, just don't want to be the "biggest slut" award winner any more than I did when I was a teenager. Quality, not quantity is what I prefer, I guess. V

[couplers]

I have only been with three men my entire life, but with two of them now (my lover for seven years, my husband for 5). Hubby has had seven women, me plus three others since we've been an item.

[sweet_tna]

Just when I started thinking I wasn't such a newbie anymore . . .

My lifetime total: 4 (2 since swinging)

Mr. Sweet: 3 (2 since swinging)

We'll get those numbers up eventually, lol!

=)

[Beachswinger]

For me, just over 60. Pre-marriage, 50 or so encounters (all straight) in 6 years that involved vaginal intercourse and included a couple of 4 couple daisychains, 2 foursomes and an FMF with 2 very pretty cousins that lasted a year, all when I was single through 1979. In '80 I met my better half (who was a virgin) and we've had just 10 since, mainly due to fear of Herpes and AIDS, making us WAY more careful about whom we choose to "hook-up" with.

[ldenn2]

Originally Posted by duwannaball

DD here. So does that mean when two women are together intimately they're NOT having sex?

We can beat around the bush and consult the egghead courts, but you know and I know that if you reach a climax, it's sex. Hurray.

[Cureeuscpl1957]

We have been in the lifestyle for about 15 years. In that time we have been with 3 single men, 3 single women and 7 couples in that time. I guess you could say we like long term relationships.

[olderyder]

Personally, I haven't been with anyone. My Mrs has been with. maybe, two dozen singles and 3 couples. I guess that's not bad for 3 years.

[shrevecouple]

I had several partners before meeting my husband. So far only 1 other than my husband lifestyle wise.

[GPHTallCouple]

Originally Posted by VegasLee

Something to remember is that many people on this site are not swingers or are very new to the lifestyle as you are so it tends to keep these numbers low.

Whew, thanks for explaining that. It would be nice to see some numbers on the higher end, so I'll throw mine out there. Mine is a guess, I'd say about 170 prior to swinging and around 200 now I guess.

Yes, I'm a Samantha and I love to fuck. I think Samantha's numbers are much higher though. I was active duty military and I moved around a lot, plus the guys I met where often moving around a lot too. It was hard to find someone to have a relationship with that was going to be around long enough to get serious with. I also had a lot of opportunities living in areas where the ratio of men to women was very much in my favor. Many of my former military partners had some higher numbers too. The highest I ever heard was a former FB whose number was about 345. He was in his early 30s at the time.

MrGPH says he doesn't keep track of how many, but I think his numbers are slightly higher than mine.

[Learning]

Impressive to all I can count mine on one hand.

[revicamc]

eight over a thirty year period.

[Coupleerotic22]

Originally Posted by GPHTallCouple

Yes, I'm a Samantha and I love to fuck.

I have never heard this term. What does it mean?

[exploringRM]

Originally Posted by Coupleerotic22

I have never heard this term. What does it mean?

Samantha from Sex in the City? It's funny, our daughter calls my wife Samantha sometimes as she is not afraid to talk about sex and is not shy about checking out hot guys. If she only knew what we really do when we go out, lol.