View Poll Results: Do you Swing With Single Males?

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  • Yes, we swing EXCLUSIVELY with single males

    69 13.19%
  • No, we have no desire to swing with single males

    88 16.83%
  • We don't currently, but we have considered/ are considering adding them

    97 18.55%
  • Yes, we swing with single males as well as couples

    269 51.43%
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  1. #16
    Life's too short not to.. CB_n_Red's Avatar
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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    Unfortunately the poll leaves out the option that we would tick - we have played with single males in the past but don't at the moment!

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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    We grabbed a swing virgin about 2 weeks ago. Single male It was fun & funny all at the same time. Can you say "performance" problems. He finally managed to calm down enough to enjoy himself.

    We don't go looking for them, no do we advertise for them. But, we do find a single male/female from time to time. Our preference is to swing with couples.
    Phonies and Fakes Need not apply. We're as real as it gets, and don't have time to be wasting on dumbasses.

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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    We want to play with them, but haven't yet. Haven't decided which route to take in order to meet them.

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    We play with single males, females and couples. All of our experiences have been enjoyable so far.

    We really got to know our playmates before venturing into the bedroom with them. The extra time taken and their willingness to be patient really cemented the fact that they were indeed great people and huge fun to be with in and out of the bedroom. We are comfortable with same room and separate room.
    Ward, I think you were a bit hard on the Beaver last night.

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    While we do most of our swinging with a regular group of couples, we do swing with single men once in a while. Jo really loves being the centre of attention in an MFM threesome. When one guy has finished fucking her the other can take over and of course the first guy can be pleasuring her with his tongue while his cock takes a rest! Also as a bisexual guy I especially enjoy MFM threesomes when the other guy is bi too.

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    We love MFMs ... so in addition to looking for couples, we occasionally will look for a single male.

    Like most couples, we got tired of all the obnoxious "You're so hot!" and "Look at my penis ... isn't it just great?" emails when we posted we were open to single males. So now, we just say that we are looking for couples. That has helped.

    So now, if we are in the mood for an MFM ... I'll go surfing on the site we belong to and find one I like both the looks and sounds of. Then we'll write him a short note expressing interest. We've had great luck this way; the men we've written have been very nice, respectful, and lots of fun too.

    Now, whenever I marvel at our luck in finding nice single males, my husband always points out it's because I've always had excellent taste in men.

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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    Two facts. 1) There are more single males out there looking than couples. 2) Some single males are far preferable to some couples. Especially single males who are clean, sane, and understand the rules as opposed to couples who are curious or the wife is reluctant or you add the reason.

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    We started off with a single male but he was a close friend of ours, and it was great but since he got married 3 yrs ago we haven't tried to look. But we are eager to try again .

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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    We actively seek playmates who enjoy the same flavors we do. Most adventures are with single guys. We enjoy couples and single women as well, but they're harder to find.

    S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl

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    For most of our swinging lifetime, single males were the choice about half of the time. There are several reasons for this. At our club in Indy and at Sun Aura nudist resort, where we lived in the summers for several years, there are many OK singles who want to play. So it was easy.

    We found that it was much more difficult to find another couple where all four of us were equally attracted. Usually, there was one out of the four who didn't quite fit. So that was more difficult that the threesome. It happened again this weekend. I really like the woman. My wife can not connect at any level with the husband. So that relationship is going nowhere.

    We both liked the more uninhibited atmosphere of the threesome. There was none of the anxiety about how my wife was making out, nor did she ever have to wonder if I was having a good time. She was just more relaxed.

    Finally, I liked it because it was a thrill for me to see her having a good time and being the absolute center of attention. There is some inexplicable warm feeling that I get when I watch another guy's cock slide into her. Besides, I happen to like to be the second one in.

    That said, looking back over a hundred encounters, the best times for me were with another woman in a foursome. But only once or twice (that I can remember) was a foursome better for my wife than the best of the times with the singles. There were lots of good times with couples, but for her, the better times were with the singles.

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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    Quote Originally Posted by GirlieZ View Post
    We play with single males, females and couples.

    We really got to know our playmates before venturing into the bedroom with them. The extra time taken and their willingness to be patient really cemented the fact that they were indeed great people and huge fun to be with in and out of the bedroom.
    Although we have not had the opportunity to play with a couple yet. We are hopeing to change that next weekend.
    I totally agree with getting to know them first. That is the only way we swing.

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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    We do not currently swing with single males, though we've given the matter some thought.

    =)
    I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than heaven wondering what it's like.

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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    We do swing with single males, but not often
    Homo sapiens are not meant to be monogamous

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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    While we prefer couples and single girls we sometimes swing with single males. We tend to approach them when we want them. It's fun to have 2 guys wanting me and Rob enjoys seeing me with other men as well. We find that single males are useful when Rob is away on business although if I'm away we like to find him a single female ;o)

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    Default Re: Do You Swing With Single Males?

    When we first started out, we would only get together with couples. Now that we have been in the ls for a while we have become more adventurous and it's so hard to findi couples that we are both attracted. We both love encounters with both single males (for her) and single women (for him).

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