Swinging when both of you aren't attracted to the other couple?

We have met a couple that live close to us and we have alot in common but there is a problem.

Mrs naughty finds the male extremely attractive (Which turns me on ) but I do not find the female half of the couple attractive.


I love to give Mrs naughty what she wants and I want her to experience the male in this couple but it would have to be a group thing. I cant let Mrs Naughty have the male without me being with the female.
So my question is this:

Do you swing with people that you are not really attracted to so your partner can fullfill their desire or do you just stay away?

[VegasLee]

We personally have a saying or rule if that is what peoplewant to call it.

Neither of us "takes one for the team."

I believe that is why we mostly go to clubs that also have singles at them and tend to party with many more singles or in groups then we do with couples.

It took us many years to find eachother and like each other, we found it is very hard to find two others that we both like both in appearnce and attitude.

[TNT]

Originally posted by Mr&Mrs-naughty
Do you swing with people that you are not really attracted to so your partner can fullfill their desire or do you just stay away?

That would be what is called "Taking one for the team".

You will probably get a lot of comments from people who say, Nope, we are either both attracted and play or we don't play at all.

We have been in your situation before and yes, I took one for the team, if that's what you want to call it. I personally had no problem with it...the lady of the couple was extremely HOT and the gentleman, well...he did absolutely nothing for me but I really couldn't pass up the opprotunity to see Ted with her. As it turned out, even though it was not one of our most enjoyable play sessions, there were times during that I still play back in my mind and look upon with fondness.

I will say that it was the gentlman's personality that allowed me to be able to do this. Had he been an asshole, it would not have mattered how hot she was, how much Ted wanted her or how much I wanted to see him with her, it would have been a no go.

We are probably totally different than most where this is concerned in that it's really no skin off of either of our noses to allow the other to have someone they want. It dosen't hurt us in any way and we both receive pleasure from the other's pleasure, regardless of if we are getting any personal physical pleasure out of the encounter or not.

I guess we look at it as just sex and even the worst we have had was pretty damn good so our answer to your question would be yes, we would.

Teresa

Thank you.

[sexypairca]

As TNT stated this topic has been brought up a few times. If you are interested in any previous discussions you can check you here and here .

To answer your question we try not to take one for the team but that isn't to say that it hasn't worked out that way at times.

Annette

[Spoomonkey]

We BOTH did that!

Talk about a lack of communication!

She thought I liked the female... I thought she liked the male... Next thing you know - we are playing with people that liked us...

So - now we only play if we are both into the other couple.

Spoomonkey

Well I "Took one for the team" and it was AWESOME!!!!

Watching Mrs naughty ride that cock rocked my world!!

We both had a great time!!

[midnightpassion]

we don't mind playing alone. when one of us is not attracted to the other's partner. but we know not everyone is like that. so all we can say. is go on what you feel

[TNT]

Gald to hear you had a great time Mr. Naughty.

Sometimes watching the one we love in the throes of ecstasy is even better than being there yourself. I know for us our connection with each other is so strong that when I am just watching and he turns to look at me, the look he gives me draws me in to feel and experience everything he is. I never feel left out because in that moment we are truly sharing with each other.

Teresa

[hmr]

I would have to agree with TNT. A lot depends on the person's personality. No matter their physical attributes, their personality either enhances or takes away from their attractiveness. For this very reason we have both taken one for the team. It may not have been our most memorable night, but it was good. They may not have real attractive, but they turned out to be beautiful people. People we could have good sex with.

mrs hmr

[Brit_Pair]

Originally posted by Spoomonkey
We BOTH did that!

Talk about a lack of communication!

She thought I liked the female... I thought she liked the male... Next thing you know - we are playing with people that liked us...

So - now we only play if we are both into the other couple.

Spoomonkey

Well, that's certainly the first time I ever heard of a couple both taking one for the team at the same time!

Nice one!

Spoomonkey, yet again you have managed to completely crack me up.


lol:

About Mr. Naughty's post-: It IS the guy from the gym.....do I really need to say more?:slam"

[Spoomonkey]

Talking to Mrs Spoomonkey tonight, we decided that chances are, we will always be willing to "take one for the team". We just may never admit it. If she really likes a guy and I am not completely turned off by the female, then - like TNT's perfect post - letting her enjoy herself and being able to watch and experience that is well worth the "sacrifice".

So - we decided just to never tell each other that we were "taking one for the team". Better to just go with the moment.

But - honestly - if you guys think I'd ever turn down sex, I've completely made the wrong impression

I think it will more be a case of Mrs Spoo "leaning into a pitch".



Spoomonkey

[midnightpassion]

you are starting to sound like me. going by some of your other posts. lol

[b_and_sc]

WTG Mr. and Mrs Naughty!!! I was wondering if that 'gym guy' worked out....sounds like a good time


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