woman says she's only into fat guys - Page 3

gatorvol64 · 10-23-2006, 08:38 PM

Broad thick chest, big arms, thick legs...all that describes my Gator. So, yeah, I'd find it attractive in someone else too. Skinny is not by preference.

Vol

Spoomonkey · 10-23-2006, 08:49 PM

Funny this thread would come back around.

I am into the smallest waist jeans since high school and building a good bit off upper body muscle. I kind of like the way I am looking. But I learned an unexpected lesson some time ago that "fit" isn't everybody's cup of tea...

I had a playmate who was all over me - but then a few months later - and a few pounds off the belly - she just wasn't into me. She never said why, except to say that her hubby had a sexy pot belly and she thought it was incredibly hot (I had one too when we first met, but have since managed to lose it mostly). Funny - she was a petite, fit little thing...

It made me realize that you really have to have the body that YOU like; fit, fat or inbetween. Some people won't like you bigger - some people won't like you smaller - and in the end, you are the one who has to love it and live with it.

I keep working - because it makes me feel better and I am much healthier (I had a few health reasons that encouraged me to lose). But I realize that my physical changes have alienated a few playmates as my "changes for the better" are not always seen that way...

Spoomonkey

ShellyM · 10-23-2006, 09:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

LOL!!! I wouldn't be a bit surprised if we are, Shelly! But then, if we're long-lost sisters, it would be kind of creepy if we ever get to hook up...so let's just say we're two minds thinking alike!

Are you guys on AFF? If so, email me there (tybeeswing2), tell me it's you, and I'll let you into the network to have a peek at Mr. Tybee!

Girl, Im not on AFF, I am on Swing Lifestyle. Anyways, from the sounds of him he is definately yummy. But yeah, I agree with everyone. Body image is something else. I work out because I stress over every single pound ( I drive Jay and my friends insane), but Jay says I had better not lose my butt lol.

Tybee Swing · 10-23-2006, 09:24 PM

Shelly,

OMG, I just clicked on your profile link at the bottom of your post and I could see it (we're not on Swing Lifestyle). YES, Jay's build is yummy yummy yummy! facelick

ShellyM · 10-23-2006, 09:25 PM

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Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Shelly,

OMG, I just clicked on your profile link at the bottom of your post and I could see it (we're not on Swing Lifestyle). YES, Jay's build is yummy yummy yummy! facelick

lol, thank you. We have plans Saturday night, but we are free on Friday night! I'll buy the beer and we'll grill up some steaks lol.

Tybee Swing · 10-23-2006, 09:26 PM

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Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

It made me realize that you really have to have the body that YOU like; fit, fat or inbetween. Some people won't like you bigger - some people won't like you smaller - and in the end, you are the one who has to love it and live with it.

Spoo, you are so wise! This is so right, be happy with yourself and attract those who like you the way you are - don't worry about the rest.

Tybee Swing · 10-23-2006, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by ShellyM

lol, thank you. We have plans Saturday night, but we are free on Friday night! I'll buy the beer and we'll grill up some steaks lol.

We've got a date on Friday and a Halloween party on Saturday, but to get to that "steak" you've got over there, we might just ditch everybody here and drive to Texas! facelick

We like our men like we like our steaks: thick, meaty, with a little marbling in it!

Amanda69 · 10-24-2006, 08:10 AM

Now why wouldn't women be allowed to have particular tastes just like men. We all have our preferences....personally body type isn't important for me it is personality. I need someone that can stimulate my mind to get my body groovin...

prettylady · 10-25-2006, 01:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Amanda69

I need someone that can stimulate my mind to get my body groovin...

And that is a body worth watchin groove.

I like my guys to be healthy. What does that mean? Hell I don't know, I guess I would like to know if a relationship outside of the bedroom develops we could go out do activities. Like hiking, biking, or anything else like that, or even just a walk in the park.
But again, I would rather a great guy who can string a few words together and make me laugh. That would be a bigger plus to me, then if he is more muscle then fat.
I can't remember who said it, but it was commented that bigger guys are nicer to cuddle. Not that I am arguing, but my Dog can cuddle better then anyone I have met. But ya, bigger guys really are snugglable, kinda wish I had one to snuggle with right now. I am a sicky today and need a cuddle really bad.

Your friend,
Prettylady

gatorvol64 · 10-25-2006, 01:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Amanda69

... I need someone that can stimulate my mind to get my body groovin...

That is soooo true. My husband says laughter is an aphrodisiac for me.

Vol

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10-23-2006, 08:38 PM	#31 (permalink)
gatorvol64 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 1,426 Location: Florida Status: Married Couple	Re: what do you girls think Broad thick chest, big arms, thick legs...all that describes my Gator. So, yeah, I'd find it attractive in someone else too. Skinny is not by preference. Vol
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10-23-2006, 08:49 PM	#32 (permalink)
Spoomonkey Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey	Re: what do you girls think Funny this thread would come back around. I am into the smallest waist jeans since high school and building a good bit off upper body muscle. I kind of like the way I am looking. But I learned an unexpected lesson some time ago that "fit" isn't everybody's cup of tea... I had a playmate who was all over me - but then a few months later - and a few pounds off the belly - she just wasn't into me. She never said why, except to say that her hubby had a sexy pot belly and she thought it was incredibly hot (I had one too when we first met, but have since managed to lose it mostly). Funny - she was a petite, fit little thing... It made me realize that you really have to have the body that YOU like; fit, fat or inbetween. Some people won't like you bigger - some people won't like you smaller - and in the end, you are the one who has to love it and live with it. I keep working - because it makes me feel better and I am much healthier (I had a few health reasons that encouraged me to lose). But I realize that my physical changes have alienated a few playmates as my "changes for the better" are not always seen that way... Spoomonkey
	__________________ "Eros will have naked bodies; Friendship naked personalities." - C. S. Lewis

10-23-2006, 09:24 PM	#34 (permalink)
Tybee Swing Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 1,845 Location: Georgia Status: single female	Re: what do you girls think Shelly, OMG, I just clicked on your profile link at the bottom of your post and I could see it (we're not on Swing Lifestyle). YES, Jay's build is yummy yummy yummy! facelick

10-24-2006, 08:10 AM	#38 (permalink)
Amanda69 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 907 Location: Mississauga, ON Canada Status: couple	Re: what do you girls think Now why wouldn't women be allowed to have particular tastes just like men. We all have our preferences....personally body type isn't important for me it is personality. I need someone that can stimulate my mind to get my body groovin...
	__________________ Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself. "Harvey Fierstein"

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