Swinging and BBW's

[skidder11]

Hi all, Im new to here and justrecently backfrom texas. Im interested in BBW, is there a spot on here anywhere that deals with BBw mostly. I cant help myself. BBW turn me on

[skidder11]

My typing wasnt too good, huh,

[Elusive BiFem]

Originally posted by yawanna
One word... "homeopathy" Although< i have to say that now I'd be FINE if I stayed this size.. doesn't seem to matter to anyone but ME. Gawd, eh? Live and learn

YES I sent in bouillabaise (say THAT 3 times fast lol)... but I did. And Julie confirmed.

At the house party, we met the most amazing woman... she was 6' tall and all amazon I swear! .. she was a BIG girl....and.. just 27 years old! and her partner..... 6'4", and 40! They were just wonderful.....sat with her a good portion of the evening and just whispered and giggled.... such goofs we were but in a good way

This house party was our second and seems to work best for us in lifestyle activities... all I can say is we are today



in a good way.

yes.. thankfully..... the temperatures have dropped to 23C finally and I knew we'd be stumbling home in the early morning hours after hottubbing, etc. and I always like to have something warm to cuddle up into on the drive home (besides hubby). Luckily.. I wore my red brocade bra... seems to go well with the dark blew errrr blue skirt

Glad to know I have the bouillabaisse to look forward to. That has been a major concern of mine, you know...

I looked up that 23º C thing - that computes to about 73º F - not bad. Really about the same as down here at night.

Wow! Sounds like she is a BIG girl but if she's having fun, who cares? Of course, as short as I am, anyone over 5'3" is tall...

Red brocade...blue fleece skirt? Nice combo....have fun! - EBF

[smoothmoves]

Ms Smoothmoves is a BBW, and she has more fun than most women we've met. It's all in the attitude. She'll tell men she meets straight-out that they'll get spoiled by her techniques, and she's right. She always enjoys herself, and men (and women) can sense that, and get caught up in it. I love to watch her playing.

We've found a lot of web sites and shops that have lingerie specially made for larger women, and they have some really nice things. You might try some sexy clothes and lingerie, and see if that helps you feel better about yourself. We've also found several clubs and groups we party with that prefer larger women, for all the reasons already given in this thread. Overall, we find BBW's to be much more relaxed and comfortable to be with. They know how to let go and just enjoy themselves, and it's a very contagious attitude.

If you have problems finding groups up there, just come down to San Diego for a visit.

Just my opinion - Gary

[StacyCat]

Well, im a BBW. And ive had female partners between about 150 lbs over me, to a little size 4 girl. I find that personality matters a lot more than looks.

But, honestly, a big girl thats confident and friendly is a lot prettier than a stuck up skinny thing, or anyone without confidence. I would much rather play with the girl that looks and sounds as if she is enjoying herself, rather than the girl thats too shy to do anything. Size wouldnt make a difference in that instance.

[skidder11]

Thanks for replying elusive bifem

[lovers]

http://www.geocities.com/TheTropics/...4/biggirl.html

I think it says it all....

[BBgurl]

BBW is in! Trust me, I know (now). However, I do relate to your concerns about weight, I felt the same way when I first started out. You will soon find out that people are more interested in your personality than you size.

[ranger733]

I am no expert by no means on swinging but a BBW woman usually know how to please a man. My experience with a bbw woman has been wonderful. I wouldn' turn a bbw woman away at all. I agree with the personality angle all the way. It is nice to have someone who isn't so stuck on themselves,and knows to have a good time.

[nwin_bifemcpl]

Your absolutely right! Us plus sized women are softer, more sensual, and know how to take our men to great heights of sexual awareness. My hubby was married to a real skinny woman before, and he says I by far am the best he's ever had. I wish more men would feel like you do and do away with the prejudices against us larger women...

SB

[fun_pairTX]

Absolutely the way to go for those in the know. Y'all can have all the Barbies you want I'll take a WOMAN any day.

[Chicup]

You know I always wonder why its ok to say being overweight is somehow superior to being thin on these boards, but god help you if you claim the other way around.

Is it a double standard?

[Quin]

Originally posted by Chicup
You know I always wonder why its ok to say being overweight is somehow superior to being thin on these boards, but god help you if you claim the other way around.

Is it a double standard?

I have always wondered the same thing, Chicup. And to be truthful, I don't even think God is powerful enough to help you if you claim the other way around.

Quin
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[nwin_bifemcpl]

I certainly don't think that BBW's are surperior, we just wanna be treated equally. There is nothing wrong with a fit women. And I have no problem with them.

SB

[Elusive BiFem]

Originally posted by Chicup
You know I always wonder why its ok to say being overweight is somehow superior to being thin on these boards, but god help you if you claim the other way around.

Is it a double standard?

I understand your point, Chicup, and I can see where you get the idea that being overweight is somehow superior to being thin.

But somehow, I really don't think that is the attitude of most. I'm not a BBW and it is kind of hard to see things from their view. However, I tend to look at the BBW vs. thin issue as I do the "mature vs. youthful" issue.

It was only a few years ago that I never dreamed I would one day be old , but suddenly, one morning, I woke up and found myself there. Much to my chagrin. And quite frankly, and at risk of sharing too much info about myself, it isn't always a fun place to be. It is a constant battle with myself to affirm my worthiness and value to myself...not to mention others. But myself is the the most important and on some days, myself is the person I have the most trouble with, not that there is a damned thing I can do about it (getting old, that is). My mental strategy and defense mechanism is to throw my age out there on the table from the get-go. In a sense, if I do it, you can't hurt me with a comment about it. (a generic "you")

And I can't help but believe that many BBW's feel the same way or at least have similar feelings. They are overweight and often times for reasons they have no control over. There is lots of recent research out there that has shown that for many, weight contol is a much greater issue than merely the amount of food consumed, and fortunately for some, they have chosen to give up a battle they could never win, anyway, and have decided to enjoy life as they are - BBW's. Unfortunately, for some, society's focus has been on the slim and trim, and after the constant bombardments, they may feel they have no value as people - just people. Much as I feel about my age.

Now-young people (defined for me as anyone under 50 ) and now-slim people really don't have any concept of the constant ego battles that are fought and it takes a lot out of you on a daily basis to fight those battles. All of us, in both camps, really do understand that others may not find us physically appealing. That's life and it hasn't changed an iota from my days as a younger person. But I really do want to be accepted as a person with value. And I think that is a large part of it for BBW's.

Just my opinions....EBF

...one more thing I want to add and I can...because I'm OLD! ...much of what I've said cannot be understood by those of you that are youthful and thin. They are things that can be understood only by those that have "arrived." I know. Because just a few years ago I didn't understand.