Accepting of BBW? - Page 2

***JustAskJulie*** · 05-22-2001, 11:13 AM

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Originally posted by Stratecpl:
Still though we find that some couples will get defensive and in return be rude to us regardless of how nice we tried to be in declining their offer.

I think that happens to everyone. I don't think anyone likes being turned down in as a result of that people do tend to get defensive when it happens no matter what the reason. Assuming that ones who are turning them down must have an attitude automatically. When they should just go on about their business and say to themselves "well it's their loss not ours" and look for someone else who they would be a better match with.

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CanadianCouple · 05-22-2001, 03:12 PM

I'm sure that everyone whether BBW, skinny, or very muscular finds rebuke in this lifestyle. I think that we all need to remember that as long as we respect each other , remember to be as kind and curteous as possible when turning others down, we will all eventually find the right couple or person to have a great time with.
Being a BBW myself, I understand how easy it is to have hurt feeling and become defensive. I'm sure it's the same for every body type out there. After all hurt feeling do feel the same no matter you size, shape, color, etc...
The problem I have is being labeled. She's big so therfore she must eat non stop. NOT TRUE! Someone in here had the nerve to say that all big people smell. AGAIN NOT TRUE!! These are the kind of things that p--- me off to no end. Just say that overweight people aren't your thing and leave it at that. After all big, small, buff or a wet noodle.Everyone of these can be clean or dirty.
Well enough ranting. Hope all has a great day.

Wife of CanadianCouple

[This message has been edited by CanadianCouple (edited 05-23-2001).]

Stratecpl · 05-22-2001, 05:31 PM

Very well said...Mrs. Canadiancouple..

It's all about respecting each others feelings. Being labeled is something none of us like. There are too many cruel labels out there. Everyone has something special offer to a frienship or relationship whether they are Skinny, or a BBW, or a MBW (Muscular Beautiful Woman)it sounds much better than she-male, which is one that definantly qualifies as a cruel label.

CanadianCouple · 05-23-2001, 07:30 AM

Stratecpl,
Although I understand exactly what my hubby means, I do agree that MBW is a better way to put it. I think it is great for anyone that is able to stay in great shape. I just wish some people would realize that not everyone that is out of shape, is that way from stuffing their mouths or eating unhealthy.
I also believe very strongly that BBW can offer as an exciting a time in bed as any other woman can. Unfortunately too many seem to see the fat and nothing beyond it. I do honestly believe what I said that it's a matter of respecting others and their feeling. That's why I don't get bent out of shape when it is obvious we have been turned down for my weight ( as long as it is done in a decent manner).
Well I hope everyone find their special friends and has a blast.

Wife of CanadianCouple

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05-22-2001, 05:31 PM	#18 (permalink)
Stratecpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2000 Posts: 456 Location: TN, USA	Very well said...Mrs. Canadiancouple.. It's all about respecting each others feelings. Being labeled is something none of us like. There are too many cruel labels out there. Everyone has something special offer to a frienship or relationship whether they are Skinny, or a BBW, or a MBW (Muscular Beautiful Woman)it sounds much better than she-male, which is one that definantly qualifies as a cruel label.
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05-22-2001, 03:12 PM	#17 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	I'm sure that everyone whether BBW, skinny, or very muscular finds rebuke in this lifestyle. I think that we all need to remember that as long as we respect each other , remember to be as kind and curteous as possible when turning others down, we will all eventually find the right couple or person to have a great time with. Being a BBW myself, I understand how easy it is to have hurt feeling and become defensive. I'm sure it's the same for every body type out there. After all hurt feeling do feel the same no matter you size, shape, color, etc... The problem I have is being labeled. She's big so therfore she must eat non stop. NOT TRUE! Someone in here had the nerve to say that all big people smell. AGAIN NOT TRUE!! These are the kind of things that p--- me off to no end. Just say that overweight people aren't your thing and leave it at that. After all big, small, buff or a wet noodle.Everyone of these can be clean or dirty. Well enough ranting. Hope all has a great day. Wife of CanadianCouple [This message has been edited by CanadianCouple (edited 05-23-2001).]

05-23-2001, 07:30 AM	#19 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	Stratecpl, Although I understand exactly what my hubby means, I do agree that MBW is a better way to put it. I think it is great for anyone that is able to stay in great shape. I just wish some people would realize that not everyone that is out of shape, is that way from stuffing their mouths or eating unhealthy. I also believe very strongly that BBW can offer as an exciting a time in bed as any other woman can. Unfortunately too many seem to see the fat and nothing beyond it. I do honestly believe what I said that it's a matter of respecting others and their feeling. That's why I don't get bent out of shape when it is obvious we have been turned down for my weight ( as long as it is done in a decent manner). Well I hope everyone find their special friends and has a blast. Wife of CanadianCouple