Uncircumcised and Swinging

[MassageCouple69]

My wife and I have been talking and discussing swinging for months now, and are going to go to a club in a few weeks. Of course, nothing may happen, but my point is that we are going to give it a try. I do have one question, though, that experienced swingers may have some insight on. I am not circumcised. I have never had anyone think this a bad thing (although women usually want to check it out for a bit before jumping right on ), but I wondered about this in the swinger community. I assume that most are circumcised, but are there plenty that aren't? Any women out there stay away from uncircumcised males?
Personally, I love being un-circumcised and wouldn't do it for anything!! Just wondering about others experiences.
Thanks,
D and N

[naughty A]

you might want to check out these threads...

cut or uncut

and this one

cut or uncut part 2


to relate MY own experience...

my husband is NOT circumcised...

ONLY ONCE has a woman actually said and to his face mind... (she knew because we had been to a nude beach that day)...that she would never consider sleeping with him or any uncircumsized man because "that was just gross"

Frankly I have never before or since seen such a display of rude behaviour... and was overjoyed to have nothing more to do with either of them... much to her hubby's dismay

sorry had to fix that second link....

[eddypasifa]

I am happy to be circumsized

[ionsawmill]

Originally posted by MassageCouple69
I wondered about this in the swinger community.

You'll find that the swinger community is just as diverse as the rest of society. Things that disgust one couple may fulfill a longtime fantasy for another couple. My suggestion is that you be open about the fact that you are "intact". You may run into couples looking to experience something out-of-the-ordinary.

[naughty A]

oh... I don't know...

I find swinging is much more about the PERSON than the PENIS

and it isn't something that comes up in conversation ordinarily for us anyway...

I think it is closer to 50/50 in the guys we meet anyway...

I just never gave it any thought one way or the other...

[PrtyinDuo]

We have met 8 different cpls to date,and non of the men were
uncut.Not sure if thats enough data to give any % of are/arent,
but,we talk about it from time to time and 'both' fantasize about being with a guy who has not been circumsized.And for the record,have allways thought that doing it to a newborn,as was done to me,is wrong.The operation can be done when the male is old enough to choose for himself.

[JMR]

I am circumsized, but the wife has never seen an uncircumsized penis and is cutious as to what its like. she not sure about the sex thing but figures it doesnt really matter...after all it will still make her CUM...

[wrnakedru]

Originally posted by PrtyinDuo
....And for the record,have allways thought that doing it to a newborn,as was done to me,is wrong.The operation can be done when the male is old enough to choose for himself.

That particular choice MIGHT be a dicey one to make, me thinks.

Several years back, ex and I were friends and lovers with a couple, the male of which was uncircumsized. He was not my first, but the first we had a long time friendship with. So we were concerned for him when he told us his doctor said he was going to have to be circumsized NOW. Seems he had developed some scar tissue that was causing incomplete retraction of the foreskin, a "touchy" issue when an erection occured, causing him pain.

And so here he was, headed towards celebrating one of those ending in zero birthdays of less than young years, faced with the prospect of a change he had fears about. Obviously, something needed to be done. His life had been lived "uncut"; his greatest fear was that once his "protective shield" [his words, not mine] was gone, his penis was going to be "exposed" to such constant stimulation, he would eventually lose all sensitivity (as a defense from a state of over-sensitivity).

All the reassurances from the many "cut" men they knew were of no consolation. His wife became concerned he would become a "self-fullfilling prophecy" (a strong possibility in this kind of situation) So she (on the q.t.) called the administrative nurse for the urologist and relayed the situation. Two days later, the mail brought a 9x12 kraft envelope chock full of goodies aimed at dissolving his fears. He went into surgery feeling much more positive. Once released by his surgeon for "normal sexual activity" to resume, a grand "coming out" party was held. Keeping his tender but ready organ's newbie state in mind, the ladies oohed and aahed and cooed - and a "star" was born!

All a matter of attitude? Yes! Keeping mindful attitude can be heavily affected by others and their response.

[Katjams2000]

I must confess that I avoid uncircumcised men if at all possible...just a personal preference but it isn't appealing to me.


Kat

[EternallySingle]

I'm uncut and never gave it a second thought. Its just how I am.

To me, its kind of funny that this particular type of body mutilation (no matter how you look at it, it is a form of ritualized mutilation EXCEPT for certain medical conditions) has become the norm. I don't know what the big deal is, anyway. When erect, you normally can't tell if a man is circumsized or not.

[SidB]

I find this post quite weird. I'm in England and hardly anybody is "cut". My wife met a guy a little while ago who was cut and she found that un-nerving. still, she learnt to enjoy it ! Personally, I think it's barbaric to mutilate a child in this way. God gave it us for a reason, and that reason wasn't for us to cut it off !

[Alura]

If anyone hasn't read the links Naughty A put up, I'd strongly suggest doing so.

Mr. Alura