Height/wieght proportional. ... yeah right......

[L&K]

I agree all fit people are not ass holes, I am 42 years old walk 4 miles per day and have lost over 40 lbs in the last 4 months. and would like to loose another 20 lbs, not for society but for myself to feel better and so i can live longer for my family. Do I find HWP un sexy? NO, but we do screen them because of size. Size can be intimadating. If you are going to have sex safty is a issue. and you must feel confortable , and when swinging on average do you know people that well? We are new at this and still looking for a couple that is looking for what we are out of this life style. And we both wonder if there is such a couple.

S.

[jeff_reba_tncpl]

I am 5 ft 5. and have measurements of 42F/33/42. I am constantly approached by body conscious men because they find me attractive despite not being a size 3. Hey boys, if you want big breasts, and you want them real, you will not find it in a skinny chick. Not to mention, I am fit. I work out at the gym on the elliptical for 45 min, 4 days a week, followed by running on the treadmill for 20 min and doing weights. We were with a couple recently where the man definitely wants fit women; guess what? I absolutely adores me and finds me very beautiful. Guess he doesn't notice the fat. He is crazy about my face, eyes, natural redhair and breasts lol. Not to mention my heart

[SR71]

My fiance were just having a covo about this subject last night, he asked what I plan on wearing to the club and I said anything that doesn't make me look bad. His response was that the only thing that makes me look bad are the clothes that I am uncomfortable in. You see I am not fat by any means but I am not thin either. I am very well toned but have a bubble butt and large natural brests. I have an hourglass figure. 50 years ago I would've been a pin up girl, but now our priorities have changed. No longer are women valued for looking feminin but for looking a-sexual. I personmally prefer women to look like women and so do most the people I know. So if you are happy with yourself good for you, if not then you can work on it. As far as the insulting goes its fine to have an opinion, but by no means do you have a right to direct anything hateful towards anybody. Esp. if you are not perfect yourself...

[CanadianCouple]

quote:

---

Originally posted by jeff_reba_tncpl:
I am 5 ft 5. and have measurements of 42F/33/42.

---

Are you kidding me?? With those measurements, that's a knockout body which is, pardon my being forward, perfectly built for sex. Who the hell would consider you overweight?

Dan

[CanadianCouple]

quote:

---

Originally posted by SR71:
My fiance were just having a covo about this subject last night, he asked what I plan on wearing to the club and I said anything that doesn't make me look bad. His response was that the only thing that makes me look bad are the clothes that I am uncomfortable in. You see I am not fat by any means but I am not thin either. I am very well toned but have a bubble butt and large natural brests. I have an hourglass figure. 50 years ago I would've been a pin up girl, but now our priorities have changed. No longer are women valued for looking feminin but for looking a-sexual. I personmally prefer women to look like women and so do most the people I know. So if you are happy with yourself good for you, if not then you can work on it. As far as the insulting goes its fine to have an opinion, but by no means do you have a right to direct anything hateful towards anybody. Esp. if you are not perfect yourself...

---

SR71 --

I can't speak for other men, but I know THIS man has little physical attraction for women who have bodies like 12 year old boys. I wouldn't preclude swinging with such women if the chemistry is right, but for God's sake I like some curvature on women too. Being long time nudists, we've seen countless nude women, every size and shape you can possibly imagine, and I've always found the more full-bodied women very attractive to me, and they also seem more sensual and self confident in their sexuality than many of their thinner counterparts.

Perhaps they know something some of the rest of us don't?

Dan

[Quin]

Sorry to burst your little bubble, but you can find large natural breasts on a skinny woman. I am a perfect example. I wear an E cup and have a 27 inch waist (28 inches on a bad day ). while it's not the 24 inch waist I had in college, I'm by no means considered fat. I could have even bigger breasts if I were to get fat, no doubt. My mother and my sister both are fat and wear an M cup, but I refuse, absolutely refuse to allow my body to go the way my mother's and sister's have. 36E-27-39 and my ass isn't fat either.

Quin

[Chicup]

quote:

---

Originally posted by SR71:
50 years ago I would've been a pin up girl, but now our priorities have changed. No longer are women valued for looking feminin but for looking a-sexual. ..

---

Looking at the pin up girls of 50 years ago (think WWII), the idea body type had already changed to a lot more thin. Hips were maybe emphasized a bit more, but thats about it. You have to go back to the early 1900's to see the more Rubenesk form. Even now I wouldn't consider main stream attraction to be the sickly thin, unless you consider a french fashion show to be 'main stream'.

Reguardless of course its what you want that matters, not what the current trend is. What this thread is really about is hurt feelings over rejected for being to fat for someone elses tastes.

[CanadianCouple]

quote:

---

Originally posted by Quin:
Sorry to burst your little bubble,

---

Whose bubble are you referring to? Was there a specific person to whom this was addressed?

Dan

[Quin]

quote:

---

Originally posted by CanadianCouple:

quote:

---

Originally posted by Quin:
Sorry to burst your little bubble,

---

Whose bubble are you referring to? Was there a specific person to whom this was addressed?

Dan

---

Um, yeah. It was jeff_reba_tncpl who posted:

quote:

---

Hey boys, if you want big breasts, and you want them real, you will not find it in a skinny chick.

---

I'm far from being waif-like and far from being even remotely chubby...I'm slim, thin, whatever you want to call it and I have big breasts. And they are all natural...I wore a triple D by the time I was 14!! So that makes their statement moot and utterly (or should that be udderly ) ridiculous.

Quin

[Sweetdevil]

Quin,

36E-27-39 and I sit at the computer having more dreams about you!

My lust continues to grow!

[mehim]

gsheeeeeeeeee how could i miss that post ... must have been blind ...well WHP a big supject.im 5'.7" 175lb i consider myself heavy and nothing i do will get it back to my size i had 25 years ago ,so!!!! well when you get older, you stop growing up ,instead you grow out.!!!!!first of all every women has to be compfteble and happy with theme self and it would be a dull world if everybodys taste is the same .im for one thing like my men thall and a view extra pounds.huppy is 5'10 190lb. i like them over 6 maby 260lb so it is my taste ....he like his women sizes like me .is his taste ...we dont have many proplems with weights friendship is what count for us ...we have proplems with age 49 just about <50> him 55!!!!!!!! when we answer an ad and telling couples our ages they either disarper never been heard again .or have some excuse.thats what get us , they not even want to know us as what we are .<allmost> normal funloving people. we can keep up with every young pup . right now we in a friends circle ,and we realy happy.. good friendship and hot sex is greattttttttt .<me>

[FTnPV]

My .02. This whole lifestyle is about personal preference. It's no different then our whole lives. I choose to drive a mini van because it's convenient. It's my preference. I choose to work out and eat healthy because it is good for me and my family. I want to be here to see my children grow and have families that I can spoil. I's my preference to go to the gym and avoid junk food. I actually prefer women with a cpl extra pounds. If they are pretty, have a nice personality and find me desiable, that works for me! The couple extra pounds thing opens up a can of worms I know. My wife is 5'2 and goes between 135 and 140. She's not skinny, but she is sexy as all get out. She has legs and a bum to die for with a real 36D chest and a gorgeous face too. She's certainly not sloppy and carries her weight pretty well and dresses to accentuate and eliminate. When we go to swing parties she never fails to attract the attention of guys and ladies. It's my preference! I had a good idea of what her body would look like when we got married. (23 years next month!) She is constantly battling to keep her weight in check, but I think she does a great job at it. We all need to ignore the assinine comments made by those that think they are "holier than thou".

[C@YWMI]

Right on FTnPV, it is personel choice and I might add I'm more interested there personallities and politness then, I'm looking for a certain size. And that is hard enough for us right now.

[jeff_reba_tncpl]

Hey Quin...

This is Jeff; I don't think Reba had any intentions of stereotyping, as there are obviously exceptions and you are one of them. Her attitude was directed at the morons from earlier in the thread making sweeping judgements.

Canadian Couple: Yeah, she's a knock out, I agree.

[jeff_reba_tncpl]

Quin (again):

I clarified with the ol' lady, and she was referring to skinny chicks as women with no hips at all (the 12 year old boy syndrome), now it is really rare for that body type to have big natural boobs.

Jeff