plus size women

[danjan]

We just wanted to get everyone's thoughts on being with plus size women/couples. I know that everyone fantasizes about super model women and buff guys, but in reality.... Anyway, is it a problem for people, or is it more about the situation, attitude, ect.

[Cpl2share]

Read some of the other posts on breast and penis size. There are also some others regarding body shape. But first go to the local shopping center. Look around. The stats say that something like 5 percent of people are into swinging, and over 50% of this country is considered clinically obese. The heavy are swinging around too. It is not just Barbie and Ken, in fact, I would venture to say that over half of the people we have met in the lifestyle have been a bit beyond just heavy.

[des1re06]

We both prefer women with curves over stick thin. The majority of our playmates are plus size.

Personality is more important to us than body type.

Mr. & Mrs. D

[fordman460]

Originally Posted by des1re06

We both prefer women with curves over stick thin.

Personality is more important to us than body type.

Mr. & Mrs. D

I concur, although I reserve the right to not throw a skinny girl out of bed

[jedi6942]

Large ladies will always be my first choice...all other things being equal.... facelick

[fun4Ds]

nothing wrong with plus size women. yea i know your thinking that that since mrs.fun is 5'7 at 135 with every thing in the write places, that im being contradictive but one of our very best friends growing up with was quite large. let me tell ya though this girl was one of the most fun people to be around. talk about someone being sexy. yep plus size women are hot.

[havefuninsun]

It's all about variety and desires. Not everyone wants to play with plus-sized folks, and not everyone wants to play with "skinny" people either. But most want to play with folks with fun attitudes. Sounds like you have what most people want -- have fun!!

[BCinIN]

Not my thing at all. My wife doesn't like plus-sized men either.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by danjan

We just wanted to get everyone's thoughts on being with plus size women/couples. I know that everyone fantasizes about super model women and buff guys, but in reality.... Anyway, is it a problem for people, or is it more about the situation, attitude, ect.

Its going to be a problem for some people, and others it might be a turn on. You need a 'thick skin' for swinging, because just about everyone gets rejected at some point no matter what you look like.

[wildcherry]

well lord i am a plus size women and am married to a bigger guy too ..i like a guy to be bigger not obese but some meat on him and i am bi and i like both types of women. it all has to do with them as a person and if we like them then it happens if not ..it dont we are not rude .and i dont care if someone tells me they dont get turned on by a plus size person ..heck its ok .. plus you normally know if they are into you or not without gettin your feeling hurt.

[mike big]

I do enjoy a plus size woman over a skinny girl, but i like a girl with a nice round ass, so that it all depends. I've seen some very very sexy plus girls out there.

a girl im seeing now has a hard body (we met at the gym) and thats fine by me

[DBL D]

I know I am generally not attracted to plus size gals and don't really look at them for play partners but I have been with a lady who was a lot larger than I thought I would want and we had lots of fun. There are a couple other larger gals that I have decided that I will play with if given the chance but the personality really does have the lions share of what I look for and not the physical. Like chicup said: all of us will be rejected by every type before it's all said and done, and also will reject every type ourselves too.

Since swinging reflects our societys' demographic, you should expect to see every body and personality type on display.

Male D

[TOC]

We have played with both, I the male half seem to injoy the bigger ladys, there personality seem to be so much better, it's like most are just a joy to party with!

[lost_j1]

I guess I would half to play the guy card on this one. Have I play with plus sized women? You bet I have on several occasions. Was it something we went to club looking for? Nope.. The last meet and greet we went to was cool as hell went out to eat and met everyone then we went to a LS club. So happens that when we started to relax and enjoy the club the one couple with the plus size was a blast to party with. We had a great time dancing and fooling around. Due to some bad food the wife got sick so went did not have sex as to say left early. BUT, I did everything else but penatration with her. Was a blast to have fun and relax. To us it is about the trip down the road to fun not the ending. Every situation in it's self has an answer. Just like I am not attracted to very skinny women. Would I play with them? Hell, I don't know, never got the chance to meet the person. Body size need it be plus or very skinny is just a shell. Once you get to know the person things may change. So relax and enjoy it's just sex....

JAY!!!

[WesternSwing]

I will never turn down any woman I am attracted to, and it is more than just body size that turns me on. But, in my world, life starts at size 12.

Mr. WS