plus size women - Page 3

ShellyM · 07-07-2007, 09:46 AM

Ive said this before and I'll say it again. There is absolutely someone for everyone! Just love yourself and be confident. Nothing turns people on other than confidence...not cockiness mind you, self love and confidence.
I have a friend who loves tiny, tiny women size 2-4. With my body type I could never attain that, even if I literally starved to death. You'd have to cut my pelvic plate lol. So to him I'm too heavy. Then to some men I'm too thin.
So its all about personal preferences and what turns you on.
Just love yourself, and the rest will take care of itself.
Shelly

BradAndJanet · 07-07-2007, 09:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by bethncole

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So, it's not about the looks when it comes to sex. Yes, there must be a physical attraction but that attraction can come from the sexy attitude that one has rather than a bra size.

Well said.

Have y'all seen this already? I love it.

-B

foxyscarlett · 07-10-2007, 12:06 AM

I think it's whatever / whomever you are attracted to.... Plus size or skinny it has to do with personality over all; if they're effin lame or need to back to school for some book learnin' then it just ain't happening at any size...

Foxy Scarlett

lovemonkey#1 · 07-10-2007, 03:45 PM

i just have to say, like many others out there, i just love women. i'm not really interested in putting labels on them and honestly, i don't know what PLUS size even means. does that mean that she isn't supermodel thin? is there a difference between BBW and plus size women? where is the line drawn and who decided? it's all so silly to me.

it all comes down to confidence, intelligence, and a sense of humor. i do hate that in this culture so many women have such horrible self images because they try to compare themselves to what the mainstream says is sexy. just love yourself and forget about the ones who judge you based on your "size". fuck that!

badangelcpl · 07-13-2007, 05:28 PM

I swung as a single and never had a problem being a BBW....lost of men actually prefer woman with great, larger curves.

Now?....it is a bit more of a challenge because it seems that couples do want "model quality" people. Maybe I haven't found the right place or people yet....we've only started to get into the Swing Lifestyle the past month. Have already made some fantastic friends though, which makes it all worth it.

B is for "bad"

dkswingers04 · 07-13-2007, 06:37 PM

I look for personality first and foremost, If I like to talk to them and they come across as interested then I too will most likey be interested...I love to kiss and this is the one thing that will make it or brake it for me, if they are not a good kisser then I will not enjoy it as much no matter what size they are. I have been with both persay extreems and have had just as much fun on both ends of the sprcturm. Again it is all about personality and being a pleasent person to start with.

Our world has made everyone think that thin is beautiful. and that everyone should be thin....That is just not right and will never happen. It make me sick that some people judge others by thier looks before they ever meet or talk to them, some of my best friends are on the large size and that sure does not make them any less friends.

I too am glad that no one has tried to tell others that they are wrong for liking or disliking one body type over another. To each thier own. It is all good, it can all be fun and we are all swingers to have fun and enjoy sex together.

Larry & Michell · 07-13-2007, 08:11 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by TOC

We have played with both, I the male half seem to injoy the bigger ladys, there personality seem to be so much better, it's like most are just a joy to party with!

Well, they are supposed to be jolly...

lovemonkey#1 · 07-14-2007, 11:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by dkswingers04

I look for personality first and foremost, If I like to talk to them and they come across as interested then I too will most likey be interested...I love to kiss and this is the one thing that will make it or brake it for me, if they are not a good kisser then I will not enjoy it as much no matter what size they are. I have been with both persay extreems and have had just as much fun on both ends of the sprcturm. Again it is all about personality and being a pleasent person to start with.

yes, this is the most important thing to me: personality. and i think they should be able to kiss too!

FloridaFlirt · 07-22-2007, 12:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

Well said.

Have y'all seen this already? I love it.

-B

Love the video!

Personality means more to me than appearance does (except when it comes to hygiene and grooming...LOL)

I gotta admit though...it's awesome being a BBW in the lifestyle. There are so many men that think I am a goddess!

WesternSwing · 07-22-2007, 12:46 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

Well said.

Have y'all seen this already? I love it.

-B

Mrs. WS sent me that link a couple of weeks ago. She says it's her new theme song!

Mr. WS

queenofhearts · 08-09-2007, 05:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

Have y'all seen this already? I love it.

-B

Oh, gosh I loved the video. Cute. I sent it to my friends.

In response to the post. I have been called everything under the sun. Plush, over weight, zaftig (spl?), chunky (I am not applesauce), healthy (which is funny) and BBW. Big is too vague, beauty is in the eye of the beholder, and woman is mandatory. My other doesn't call me any of this. It is part of who I am. I am sure if I cut off my boobs and my hips/butt I would loose about 50 lbs there.
I love who I am except for my height I am only 5' 3". And I only really hate that when I am trying to get something off of a tall shelf. I haven't swung before but I am sure... if you like me we will party and if you don't well you missed out on a really neat tounge trick.

I do list BBW on websites only because I don't want anyone to say that I lied.

FloridaFlirt · 08-14-2007, 10:34 PM

Here's a link to the lyrics of a great song from the musical "Hairspray":

http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/hairs...dbeautiful.htm

charms123 · 08-15-2007, 10:41 AM

We are both plus sized, he more than she. We have played with same and those that are "weight and height appropriate." We have fun with people, not sizes.

That said, I guess that is why God invented chocolate and vanilla! And for those on this board... Strawberry!

Our best,

M&N

deanncat · 08-16-2007, 01:40 AM

would have to say attitude is more important the body shape or size

funcpl4life · 08-16-2007, 08:23 AM

I'm pretty buff, the Mrs. is a size 20. I likes it just fine. I prefer Lane Bryant underwear models to Victoria's Secret. I prefer women who are into me and comfortable in their own skin as play partners. Size is pretty far down on the list. (Though *really* tiny women scare me a little.)

Mr. FC4L

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07-07-2007, 09:46 AM	#31 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat Swing Lifestyle Name:lost_j1	Re: plus size women Ive said this before and I'll say it again. There is absolutely someone for everyone! Just love yourself and be confident. Nothing turns people on other than confidence...not cockiness mind you, self love and confidence. I have a friend who loves tiny, tiny women size 2-4. With my body type I could never attain that, even if I literally starved to death. You'd have to cut my pelvic plate lol. So to him I'm too heavy. Then to some men I'm too thin. So its all about personal preferences and what turns you on. Just love yourself, and the rest will take care of itself. Shelly
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07-10-2007, 12:06 AM	#33 (permalink)
foxyscarlett Registered Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 3 Location: los angeles Status: couple	Re: plus size women I think it's whatever / whomever you are attracted to.... Plus size or skinny it has to do with personality over all; if they're effin lame or need to back to school for some book learnin' then it just ain't happening at any size... Foxy Scarlett
	Last edited by JustAskJulie; 07-10-2007 at 05:15 PM.

07-10-2007, 03:45 PM	#34 (permalink)
lovemonkey#1 Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 67 Location: DC Status: m of a couple Swing Lifestyle Name:lovemonkeys	Re: plus size women i just have to say, like many others out there, i just love women. i'm not really interested in putting labels on them and honestly, i don't know what PLUS size even means. does that mean that she isn't supermodel thin? is there a difference between BBW and plus size women? where is the line drawn and who decided? it's all so silly to me. it all comes down to confidence, intelligence, and a sense of humor. i do hate that in this culture so many women have such horrible self images because they try to compare themselves to what the mainstream says is sexy. just love yourself and forget about the ones who judge you based on your "size". fuck that!
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07-13-2007, 05:28 PM	#35 (permalink)
badangelcpl Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 10 Location: Sacramento, CA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:badangelcpl	Re: plus size women I swung as a single and never had a problem being a BBW....lost of men actually prefer woman with great, larger curves. Now?....it is a bit more of a challenge because it seems that couples do want "model quality" people. Maybe I haven't found the right place or people yet....we've only started to get into the Swing Lifestyle the past month. Have already made some fantastic friends though, which makes it all worth it. B is for "bad"

07-13-2007, 06:37 PM	#36 (permalink)
dkswingers04 Registered Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 3 Location: Blue Mound, KS Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:kansaswing	Re: plus size women I look for personality first and foremost, If I like to talk to them and they come across as interested then I too will most likey be interested...I love to kiss and this is the one thing that will make it or brake it for me, if they are not a good kisser then I will not enjoy it as much no matter what size they are. I have been with both persay extreems and have had just as much fun on both ends of the sprcturm. Again it is all about personality and being a pleasent person to start with. Our world has made everyone think that thin is beautiful. and that everyone should be thin....That is just not right and will never happen. It make me sick that some people judge others by thier looks before they ever meet or talk to them, some of my best friends are on the large size and that sure does not make them any less friends. I too am glad that no one has tried to tell others that they are wrong for liking or disliking one body type over another. To each thier own. It is all good, it can all be fun and we are all swingers to have fun and enjoy sex together.

08-14-2007, 10:34 PM	#42 (permalink)
FloridaFlirt Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 71 Location: Um....Florida? Status: a polyamorous "W"	Re: plus size women Here's a link to the lyrics of a great song from the musical "Hairspray": http://www.stlyrics.com/lyrics/hairs...dbeautiful.htm
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08-15-2007, 10:41 AM	#43 (permalink)
charms123 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 102 Location: Delaware Status: Couple	Re: plus size women We are both plus sized, he more than she. We have played with same and those that are "weight and height appropriate." We have fun with people, not sizes. That said, I guess that is why God invented chocolate and vanilla! And for those on this board... Strawberry! Our best, M&N
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08-16-2007, 01:40 AM	#44 (permalink)
deanncat Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 75 Location: manteca Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:deanncat	Re: plus size women would have to say attitude is more important the body shape or size

08-16-2007, 08:23 AM	#45 (permalink)
funcpl4life Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 150 Location: NW Arkansas Status: Couple	Re: plus size women I'm pretty buff, the Mrs. is a size 20. I likes it just fine. I prefer Lane Bryant underwear models to Victoria's Secret. I prefer women who are into me and comfortable in their own skin as play partners. Size is pretty far down on the list. (Though really tiny women scare me a little.) Mr. FC4L

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