plus size women

[NYCWhtFBlkmCpl]

We would prefer the female be plus-size (mainly because wife is a BBW). If only we could actually meet someone.

[ShellyM]

In response to the OP,
In this lifestyle there is truly someone for everyone. I do not prefer skinny men. The men I am turned on by are what most would call chubby....HAVE GOT to have meat on those bones. I have found in our experience that most men love women who have curves on them. Its just a personal preference, but I guarantee you that there is someone for everyone.
Shell

[nice_cpl_n_bama]

I like all shapes and sizes of women except for stick-thin-shaped-like-a-12-year-old-boy types and over 400 lbs. between those extremes, it's all good. One thing I dislike about plus sized women though is so many of them have horrible self images. I couldn't really care any less about a womans body shape, I want her to have a confident sexy attitude.
I am very blessed to be married to a beautiful sexy woman who is confident in her sex appeal. It doesn't matter a bit that she's larger than average.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by danjan

We just wanted to get everyone's thoughts on being with plus size women/couples.

The more people we meet, the simpler this becomes in our minds. It's entirely a personal preference. As far as our prefereneces, our Lifestyles friends range from 90 lbs. to 275. Just to speak for myself, I think it is silly for a man to say, "I really like big women." Seems a bit condecending.

[ShellyM]

I agree SW_PA.
The reason why I say that is because what one person thinks is thin may not be to another, and same with chubby or BBW. I think of myself as rather thin, but compared to some girls I'm not. So when a person says "I like them big" I always think okay, give me your interpretation of what big is.
Shell

[mwcohio]

My fiance and I both go to the gym daily. Not just to stroke our ego's but because we enjoy living healthy. We are not models, nor are we perfect. But it means alot ot us both to try to stay sexy for each other, and to live healthy. Neither of us smoke either.

We are not attracted to people who are obese. Its not a judgement thing. Its not a friendship thing. Its just a sexual thing.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by nice_cpl_n_bama

I like all shapes and sizes of women except for stick-thin-shaped-like-a-12-year-old-boy types and over 400 lbs. between those extremes, it's all good. One thing I dislike about plus sized women though is so many of them have horrible self images. I couldn't really care any less about a womans body shape, I want her to have a confident sexy attitude.
I am very blessed to be married to a beautiful sexy woman who is confident in her sex appeal. It doesn't matter a bit that she's larger than average.

Exactly!

[Youngcalcpl]

I'd say we agree with the common consensus here...For us its not so much how heavy someone is but how attractive overall they are to us. Size, attitude, etc. all mixed together. Someone can have a perfect body and some other factor can make them completely unattractive to us.

We're going to the gym almost everyday now but we've still got a ways to working off the baby fat. We know that we aren't going to be attractive to everyone; we've accepted that and have 'tough skin' enough to be cool with it. Though the couple that we recently started playing with have awesome personalities and great bodies to match and yet they don't seem to care that we aren't as fit. I think we hit the jackpot!

[catalina8591]

WOW! I am glad I came here today after not popping in for months! I am plus size and cute! (okay my mom says so but so does my SO...) - I needed this pep talk thread since I am dieting..... trying to be healthy to get rid of a cold!

-Cat

[SailLovers]

Without getting too graphic, my experience is that plus-size women have much better pussies. I was married to a very slender ex-stewardess for many years and am now married to a lovely plus-size woman. Believe me, the current Mrs. is much, much better.

[funcpl4life]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

I agree SW_PA.
The reason why I say that is because what one person thinks is thin may not be to another, and same with chubby or BBW. I think of myself as rather thin, but compared to some girls I'm not. So when a person says "I like them big" I always think okay, give me your interpretation of what big is.
Shell

Hmmm. How about this: "My ideal female body shape is somewhat larger than what fashion magazines tell me it should be, but I'm not willing to change." or this: "I think Lane Bryant underwear ads are sexier than Victoria's Secret"

BUT, body shape is somewhat further down on the scale than what fashion magazines tell me it ought to be as well.

Unrepentant
Mr. FC4L

[ANGEDKY(mr)]

Glad we could have this discussion without some ass piping up, interjecting his/her stupid comments........it's been a long time comng around here. Specifically as it relates to this topic.

Way to go SB!!

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by ANGEDKY(mr)

Glad we could have this discussion without some ass piping up, interjecting his/her stupid comments........it's been a long time comng around here. Specifically as it relates to this topic.

Way to go SB!!

I think this is the first time where people just stated what they liked without saying other people were somehow 'wrong' for not liking the same thing, or casting character aspersions upon those who do not fit their preferred body type.

Very odd indeed

[DRxDON]

There are all sizes and shapes of 'plus sized women'. My particular preference is for the full bodied sex queens of the 50's and 60's like Marilyn, Jane Russell, Jayne Mansfield, etc. The typical 'hour-glass figure'. Today, these women would NEVER be shown on screen as 'sex symbols'. They would be considered 'plus sized women'. ALL of the 'sexy' women on TV shows, movies, music videos, and commercials are skinny as far as I'm concerned. If a 'plus sized woman' has that hour-glass figure, with the 'plus' in the 'right places' and isn't much over 200-250lb she's fine with me. facelick . I'm not attracted to what would be called 'obese' women with very large bellies and large arms and alot of loose flesh. Anyway, the most attractive feature on a woman for me is a cute face.

[bethncole]

I've been with some amazing looking women who were so bad in bed I didn't care to play with them again, and I've been with some very average looking women who were absolutely amazing. I'm pretty sure almost every guy on here has had the same experience.

So, it's not about the looks when it comes to sex. Yes, there must be a physical attraction but that attraction can come from the sexy attitude that one has rather than a bra size.