Will you turn down swinging with someone because they are TOO attractive?

[catslaughing]

If I (male half) avoided people that I thought were "out of my league" there is no way I would have married Mrs Cats, she is gorgeous and I am just a guy. Most "out of your league" types really are not, you just place them there.

Besides which people who choose only by looks tend to be treated so poorly by the people they are with that they are happy for anyone considerate that shows up.

[TheSwingerSet]

This something that we deal with every party that we host, there always seems to be 1 or 2 couples who are very good looking and seem stand offish, however being the host I have to do what I can to make them feel at ease. I will go and talk to them and introduce them around.

What I have found is that just like in high school most people are afraid to make the first move with the "beautiful"

At one point it got so bad that people were calling me (and Leah) fresh meet hunters because we always seemed to be hooking up with the new hotties, and over looking the fact that we were the only ones who would go up say hello and talk, dance, and flirt with them, so of course we were the ones that got to them first.

God I'm rambleing again, My point is that just because someone is hot is not a reason to not go and introduce yourselves to them, they are most likely just like you, a little scared of being turned down or left out.

And if they shoot ya down what have you lost 5 minutes of your life, so what.

K

[charms123]

We will talk to anyone. We are not Barbie and ken. We understand there are shallow people in the world. As Cloud9Social said, there are other things than looks.

We were in a room with a "beautiful" couple that was not very good at playing. In fact, they were not good at oral, manual or whatever we tried. Nice people but awkward. We tried but it just did not work.

My point here somewhere is it takes all kind. If you are going only on looks, good for you. I personally think you will be more disappointed more than not.

And Greg, NEVER think you are out of anyone's league... unless it comes to income!~ then maybe. We are not in THE DONALD’S league!

N&M