For the ladies, do you prefer to be with women same breast size as you?

[scott17201]

ladies do you prefer women with same breast size? like my gf would prefer to be with a girl her size shes a 34a, bigger boobs would make her feel not as sexy. she might try with my friends gfs she made a comment that she thought she was cute and loved the fact that her boobs were small too.

[Dynamar]

I enjoy playing with all kinds of tits. Sometimes, it's just fun to play with something you don't have yourself... just like any other kind of toy.

For the record, mine are small, perky and extra-sensitive... and I wouldn't trade them for a set of 36DDs! Tell your girlfriend to be proud of what she's got... tit size is NOT the measure of sexiness.

[pushandro]

Personally I love all boobs! Mine are a D and I've been with girls all different sizes. It's the sensuality of the girl that matters to me and how comfortable I am with her.. facelick

I just joined here and this is my very first post btw !!

Ro

[Tybee Swing]

Hi Scott,

Your girlfriend feels insecure about her breast size. I'm a C-cup, and I enjoy being with women of any breast size. I think they are all beautiful, including A cup size. In fact, I find small and perky breasts very sexy. What matters in how a breast size suits a woman is who they're on. Most petite women would look weird with big boobs.

To me, the lifestyle is about enjoying variety. Everyone may have a favorite size/type of a body part (or perhaps have no favorite), but can still enjoy variety in their partners. I'm like that. My husband is like that, too. We've been with couples where the woman had really large natural breasts, and it didn't make me feel insecure at all. In fact, I very much enjoyed the differences between the two of us.

Another common size insecurity that is exactly like the one your girlfriend has, is the way some men feel about being naked in the same room with another man who has a bigger penis than he has. Many of these guys also feel insecure about that bigger penis being in his wife or girlfriend (comparison thing again). Just like an insecure man might worry, "Will my girlfriend still like mine so much, after she's experienced that big one?", your girlfriend may be feeling exactly the same way about you being with a woman with bigger boobs.

My husband and I have run into these insecure guys in swapping. I actually had one man say to me (the last time we played with a couple, actually), "I don't have anything for you". He meant that just because of my husband's size, he had nothing to offer me sexually! What a dumb thing to think. In reality, I was looking forward to experiencing his penis for a variety of reasons. There's that variety word again. In the very same way, if you two are with a couple where the other wife/gf has bigger ones, her husband may be really looking forward with anticipation to experiencing your wife's smaller and perky breasts.

If a couple with an A-cup woman got together with us and seemed to be having some sort of emotional drama going on just because my boobs were bigger than hers, it would really put a huge damper on the whole experience (if the experience was even able to proceed). That's what happened with that couple I mentioned above. (It didn't work out.)

Confidence and positive attitude go a long way in making a person sexy and attractive. Your girlfriend will do well to work on her self-confidence and learning to find her own breasts beautiful and desirable.

Are you two new to swinging? You might want to continuously reinforce her confidence with compliments about her hot body. Do you love her breasts? Does she turn you on just as she is? Let her know that verbally, and don't stop telling her. It's a chick thing. We need to hear these things, and not from just anybody but from our significant others!

You might want to bring up the variety topic and explain to her that even if there was a woman you two were with that had a bigger pair, that doesn't mean that's your preference, it's just variety. If you aren't the insecure type of guy, tell her that you'd feel the same way if you two got together with a guy who was hung bigger than you are - that it wouldn't bother you. The more you talk, the more she'll get it that you two can play with all kinds of people, and it won't make her any less in your eyes.

I hope you let us know how it goes!

[ohash01]

I am an "exploding out" C or a "slightly loose fit" D (stupid bra sizes) and I think that smaller breasts are a novelty. I think I posted about this a while ago. I've had larger breasts since I was about 11...one of our playmates is a AA and I think her breasts are gorgeous. However, one of our other playmates is a C/D and I think hers are great too! I guess I don't have a preference - I think I just think breasts are beautiful. Even in a non-sexual way. Just in an "ahhh - pretty" way.

Your girlfriend is probably just a little scared that you'll show more interest in the girl with the bigger chest. Easy solution - DON"T. Haha. Make sure your GF knows that you are most interested in her.

[flkeyscouple]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

You might want to bring up the variety topic and explain to her that even if there was a woman you two were with that had a bigger pair, that doesn't mean that's your preference, it's just variety. If you aren't the insecure type of guy, tell her that you'd feel the same way if you two got together with a guy who was hung bigger than you are - that it wouldn't bother you. The more you talk, the more she'll get it that you two can play with all kinds of people, and it won't make her any less in your eyes.

Dito I think every bit of Tybee's post was accurate. And very well stated. Pay some special attention to your wife's breasts, and make sure she knows that even if someone has different, larger, breasts - you still love her and you still appreciate her breasts - just as they are. Communication. How about having her read these posts?

Good luck!
Sarah

[Mr. Truelove]

I don't mind small breasts, and in fact, anything really large starts to be a turn off.

Not to say I would even turn that down. The woman is what is sexy, her breasts are just a small part of the whole.

It's like chocolate cake, after a while you might want some cheese cake.
I don't think she needs to be concerned about her breasts. All sizes are welcome here...


Mr. Truelove

[scott17201]

i agree with everything said here. i tell her those things. i think shes hot and i tell her that alot. she has a 3 yr old boy and before she was pregnant she was a 34c so she really misses them. we arnt swingers yet. ive played in the past. we have talked about it. she has kissed a girl before and said she might go further at some point. she thinks my friends gf is cute and loves that she has small boobs. i dont mind her breast size. ive even said i loved her nice nipples.

[lovinher]

I'd imagine most women think of breasts just as men do.
They're all good and size don't mean much.
I actually prefer smaller breasts.

[funcpl4life]

I'm not going to say that they're *all* good. I've seen some scary boobies that didn't do a thing for me.

I'd also say that they make up less than 1/10th of 1% of all those great boobies out there.

Great boobies come in all sizes. Less-than-perfect boobies are still a whole lot of fun. (thus fall into the great boobies catagory)

My lovely wife enjoys boobies as much as I do. We've both been called for "throwing elbows under the basket" when jockying for position on good boobies. Luckily, there are two.

Mr. FC4L

[havefuninsun]

Ditto Ditto Ditto

[WesternSwing]

Originally Posted by scott17201

ladies do you prefer women with same breast size? like my gf would prefer to be with a girl her size shes a 34a, bigger boobs would make her feel not as sexy. she might try with my friends gfs she made a comment that she thought she was cute and loved the fact that her boobs were small too.

For Mrs. WS, boobs, like penises, are only important as much as the person they are attached to. She likes them all if she is attracted in other ways to the person they are attached to.

Mr. WS

[daisy girl]

I have to chuckle...I am a weird breast size..I am a small woman -32 C which surprises people; however, it is really smaller than a 34 B. 34B is way too big for me!!

[telly2]

I agree with most, it depends on people how they fit, a big girl with small boobs doesn't do it for me, but a small girl with huge breasts aren't great either. I like proportions they have to fit so to speak. I am a big girl with 44e but they suit me everything looks right, but these on a small girl would look terrible. So for me it is all in the look not the size.

Chantal

[MrsVan]

I personally like all size breasts. I am a C but I have also been with woman who are smaller than me and larger than me. facelick I find the breasts to be very sexy no matter what the size and being able to be sensual with a woman while kissing her and touching her breasts is just a great feeling.

MrsVan