a bit worried about our bodies.

[Curiuoswonder]

omg

Thank - you all sooo much I am soooo keen to go now facelick

We went clubing (normally) on Saturday night with some friends and well the only person who go left out was my b'f the poor guy just stood in the corner totally open to conversation but no-one approached him (except me of course) he thinks he looks too scary and most ppl would honestly agree, the problem is all my g'f's who know him know that he's a big teddy bear who would not hurt a fly lol and to be hones he's also very tender and gentle (can also be a grissly bear in bed lmao) the point is, if you look scary to other is nightclub will you look scary to ppl in a swingers club?

Thanks :O)

lots of luv wonder

[lovedoctor]

Last night we were at the club in Tampa and this really tall big guy was there. His head was shaved and he really could have looked like a bad dude with a 'tude. But he had a silly T-shirt on that read something like "Caution, Giant Penis" ~ and he was nice, funny and talking to everyone. So I think it's all in the presentation. You can buff him up a little, but I'm sure there are plenty of girls who like bad boys!

[Curiuoswonder]

Thats such a GOOD idea ) thank-you so much I will try to assist him to relax about himself and wear something thats a bit of fun he'll love it. Thank-you sooooo much

Cheers
Wonder

[sereneiders]

Perhaps it's worth to point out something else about the social dynamics inside a club.

You never know who already know who, if some couple that you dislike is a friend of some other you may like. The personal attitudes people have towards others, moreover the degree of tolerance and acceptance of people they dislike, even the way they use to reject proposals, are spread all around the place very fast. Regulars get warned against those with a bad attitude, they warn non regulars they know of... you know, people talk, people ask questions about others, at end, people with bad attitude trends to get isolated and rejected, so even for them, clubs are places where they have to learn manners at a fast peace to avoid ending up boring like a fongus.

As a result, the norm there for people is to be very kind and educated. At least in the local clubs that's something very notorious.

Just as an example for this, we once bring to the club a vanilla friend because he was curious. This guy was younger 30 years old who used to hang out in vanilla clubs. Knowing the rules of etiquette (and being known that he won't play with us nor interfere with our fun) he was on his own in the club for most of the night. Afterwards he commented about the club, telling that in no other place he feelt people being as respectfull as in there. Tinny things like bumping another guy would trigger a bad attitude that may end up in a fight in any club, while here it happens to him twice, and both times the guys appologized.

So, don't worry.

I'd to know about your first experience, so please, keep us posted.

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by Curiuoswonder

Thats such a GOOD idea ) thank-you so much I will try to assist him to relax about himself and wear something thats a bit of fun he'll love it. Thank-you sooooo much

Cheers
Wonder

You are welcome!

Now, my T shirt of choice were I in Australia right now would be a "Rob Thomas Tour 2006" T (with Rob's signature on it, of course ). But I would strongly recommend against that for your hubby; it might attract the WRONG type of attention. There is a website (Tshirthell, I think it is) where you can order all types of funny shirts.

Welcome to the board! I would say I agree with everyone else to just go out and have a good time.. I am self conscious of my body also and all I can say is that continue to go out there and you will see many people will be similar to your sizes.. I worried about my weight till we went to our first club outing and met up with a couple who we ended up having fun with facelick.

I have been working on my body issues by working out and trying to watch what I eat while being in the lifestlye.

And for your husband, just let him know that REDHEADS are few and far between. I am partial to redheads facelick as I am a redhead myself..

MrsVan

[LOL_OMG]

Accentuate the positive

JnCC is right here....everyone has something about themselves that they dont like. We work out, and both of us try to make better the areas we don't like about ourselves.

As far as dressing for clubs...I know what my man likes...legs and tits. I wear the shortest skirt and sexiest hose I have cause he loves my legs. I wear the most revealing top and even have crystal pasties on my tits as enhancements, because HE likes it. He loves it when people (even women) will walk up, admire and kiss my breasts.

When we get home, I get paid for the time I took to look good for him. I'm like a kid in a candy store, getting showever lavishly with touching, kissing, fucking and sucking. I pay so little for what I get in return....

Mrs LOL

[Curiuoswonder]

Your opinions have been wonderful and great we will let you know when we are going (we need to save lol )

I will be wearing this gorgeous almost hazy leopard print dress with stelitto style shoes.

Also do u bring a bag with things such as (I know lame but have to ask) a towel, swimmers, maybe a change of clothes etc?

As you can tell we have heaps of silly little questions :rollseyes
gtg luv Wonder

[in4alook]

Wow can't believe my first post is for this. First off Hi to all! I have a better website for all kinds of conversions http://www.onlineconversion.com/ 172cm is 67.7 inches or approx 5' 7" and a half, 76kg is 167.5 pounds.

I can't top what has already been said except that a hundred or so years ago you would be considered perfect. Some will even prefer playmates to be a bit heavy so they won't feel self conscience for being heavy themselves. Just be enthusiastic and sexy and you will do great.