BBW sex or not?

[graywolf71]

I just would like to know, who out there amoung you like BBW's or BHM's

Alot of people in my experence are looking for "Ken and Barbie". Now why would you look for some one who isn't correct anatomiclly?

I was just wondering because we've had some bad experences with the Ken and Barbie seekers. They don't stop us though, cause big people are fun cause there is more to love.

[mfmyeahbaby]

We absolutely agree with you. We aren't Ken or Barbie either, nor do we get any complaints.

[Chicup]

We picked a different path.

We were overweight and out of shape. Instead of complaining about Ken and Barbie, we are working on becoming them.

To each his own, but when I was somewhat fat I knew it was my fault, and I didn't get upset if others found me unattractive because of it.

We are now looking pretty damn good and I'm hoping we can move from the B list to the A list (or at least A-) in a couple more months.

Shallow, you bet, but its about what WE find attractive and if our fat wasn't attractive to us, we couldn't expect in-shape couples to be attracted to us either.

[Mike and Jan]

When I was a kid I visited the Rockies for the first time and a cousin and I climbed the first mountain we got to. Then, we realized we had to climb back down and I was terrified. So I became very afraid of heights.
But I joined a special military outfit that required me to jump out of airplanes. Never really overcame my fear but enjoyed the parachuting.
Same way about my fear of widths. If a person has a nice enough personality and a great attitude towards sex? Well, now! I'm in!

[EvilMJ]

Actually I have found that there are lots of people out there who appreciate people of size, just as much as there are people who like Ken and barbie types. It's all about confidence and personality.

[playmatesinpgh]

We are a bigger couple and have never had a problem finding others to swing with. Both of us prefer being with other couples our own size but it is certainly not a requirement. When we attend our local swing clubs, we have fun with everyone. Size has never been an issue and we have had some wonderful playtimes with both bigger people and Ken/Barbies. Maybe it is because we are outgoing and don't wait for others to come up and start talking with us.

Anyway, not to ramble on, we love BBWs and BHMs.

[jennandjamesinm]

We are both bigger people also and find that it isnt our size that people are attracted to, but our personalities and attitudes. We do tend to be attracted more to people that are similar in body types to ours though.

Jenn and James

[InterestingOnes]

I am a 38 year old BBW married to Ken and we have no trouble finding willing participants in our lifestyle. Many more people these days, men especially, are admitting that they are attracted to BBW. Most people are attracted to personality, attitude, confidence and smiles. Most people are just looking for a good time. If you look like you are having a good time people want to hang out with you, in the bedroom and out. Have fun. If they are just in it for appearances they are the ones missing out.

[CuriousInOregon]

i dont really have much to contribute to this as I am still a newbie but I have to say that I am a BBW and my husband is a "mini ken" he is only 4ft 8. He is extremely attracted to BBW and I am extremely attracted to tall and skinny so we do differ in what we like but so far it has all worked out for both of us

[Pinmonkey]

We actually skip talking to people who are Ken and Barbie.

[parcarcaliente]

Hello there, we're also no ken and barbie, but like Chicup said, it's something you can work it out, we agree that we don't like the Ken and Barbie type, we really prefer to hang out with someone that you feel great with it, than anything else. Still we have to agree there have to be some kind of physical chemistry between everyone, it's just a matter of finding the right ones, and the rest well, it's just what you have to do to get there. Keep it up and don't get dissapointed.

Hugs

Carlos and Tata

[MassPleaser]

We aren't "Ken and Barbie" either, and personally wouldn't want to be. He's not big, but she is and we wouldn't have it any other way. Both of us can agreee that we've had more fun with bigger women. Neither one of us would turn down a woman or a couple because of their size, it's the attitude and personality that really counts. We've been able to meet and play with different size people and we always seem to stick with the bigger women, they always seem to be alot of fun and have great personalities. But to each his/her own.

[graywolf71]

I thank you all for the insites. It really opens my eyes.
We don't really get to talk to alot of people in the lifestyle for the simple fact folks in our area are fairly closed mouthed, which i respect and honor that. I'm just glad to have this board to learn the thoughts of others in the lifestyle.
Though if i have miss led you we don't reject anyone for race, color,creed, ect. and we like playing with bigger people or ken and barbies too i was just seeing what your thoughts were.

Play happy
graywolf71

[WiserNow]

Several times I've rejected couples or single women because the lady had the personality or social skills of a cement block, but though I may not make a conscious effort to choose BBW, I've never rejected a lady on that basis alone and I believe anyone who does is making a mistake. I've never been one to side with the politically correct, but compatibility for me has little to do with appearance alone.

[LIZA]

Ive been in swinging when I was a pretty fit kickboxer and when I was 40 pound at least overweight

I really didn't notice much difference in people we attracted. I think it should be about chemistry, because I sometimes feel a strong attraction to someone who I do not find physically my type at all, but the personality and charisma wins out