BBW sex or not?

[alicat69]

Oh come now Lovedoctor, the things I would do to Brad Pitt should be on FILM, Angelina would definately be welcome too
It depends on the person, but the attraction on some level needs to be there or why bother? Everyone has to have standards. Everyone I have ever slept with has been 'hot' to me, though it may not be in a traditional way and not everyone would think that they were hot. By the way after my last child I am a curvy size 12 and never have had a problem getting who I want.

[lovedoctor]

Originally Posted by alicat69

Oh come now Lovedoctor, the things I would do to Brad Pitt should be on FILM, Angelina would definately be welcome too
It depends on the person, but the attraction on some level needs to be there or why bother? Everyone has to have standards. Everyone I have ever slept with has been 'hot' to me, though it may not be in a traditional way and not everyone would think that they were hot. By the way after my last child I am a curvy size 12 and never have had a problem getting who I want.

LOL, as long as you wrote the words for Brad to speak and he didn't try to come up with them himself, I would watch that movie! Or just keep him busy enough that he couldn't speak! I just wouldn't want to DO him ...It's all in the eye of the beholder, eh?

[UCONN Keith]

Ken and Barbie DIED in the Barbie Playhouse Fiasco of the 1970's! Their Barbie pool collapsed and drowned the both of them - Ken AND Barbie!

Didn't anyone else get the news release? Geez!

We have all since "moved on" to the "Cabbage Patch couples" and "Bratz" - which I might add have a much MORE delictable booty and figure than that of those skinny, self-absorbed, cosmetically altered, personality disordered "Barbies" (and Ken) ever had! (Hmmmph!)

So there, Mattell! Take that!

(Hmmmm? Can ANYONE Guess my stance on this issue?)

Keith
Storrs (Mansfield) Connecticut

CT_MWM@Hotmail.Com

[Thkmlkchoclik]

Originally Posted by UCONN Keith

Ken and Barbie DIED in the Barbie Playhouse Fiasco of the 1970's! Their Barbie pool collapsed and drowned the both of them - Ken AND Barbie!

Didn't anyone else get the news release? Geez!

We have all since "moved on" to the "Cabbage Patch couples" and "Bratz" - which I might add have a much MORE delictable booty and figure than that of those skinny, self-absorbed, cosmetically altered, personality disordered "Barbies" (and Ken) ever had! (Hmmmph!)

So there, Mattell! Take that!

(Hmmmm? Can ANYONE Guess my stance on this issue?)

Keith
Storrs (Mansfield) Connecticut

CT_MWM@Hotmail.Com

Say it again

I'm a BBW and I loves me a BHM facelick

[WesternSwing]

Yeah, but them Bratz??? Their heads are too big and their feet come off with their shoes!

Mr. WS

[Mr. Hump alot]

I myself being a BBw lover wish there were more site's and clubs for BBw's to gather I love,love,love um (by the way i'm married to one and haveing the time of my life) I think the barbi's and ken's of the world should give them a try.(JMO)

[aahours1]

I agree with "EVILMJ". She is right on about her comment. It's all about confidence and personality. I myself like something to hold onto. I feel as though I could hurt those BARBIE type. It is all in HOW YOU CARRY yourself. Do not be sloppy or cocky, that is a turn off to many. But confident about yourself.

[SuAndBud]

Guess we're about to get shot down in flames.

We're not Ken and Barbie (Su's better looking than Barbie for a kick-off. Bud's less attractive facially than Ken).

Su's naturally petite. 5' and around 100lb. 32A/B breasts. Takes little conscious excercise but is very active and eats primarily vegetables and fish (for taste reasons, not because of any dietry fad).

Bud eats similar but also likes lean red meat and works out regularly at the gym. 5'10 and 150lb of muscle. Neither of us show our ribcage though and are not overly worried to have a layer of flesh on our bones.

Guess what? We have a GREAT time (between the sheets and otherwise). We can string a couple of words of more than one syllable together and can even smile, laugh and engage in serious or amusing conversations. If you met us you'd find Su in particular to be the life and soul of any party.

You don't have to be overweight to enjoy life to the full. The immortal words of Will Shakespear "methinks thou doth protest too much" springs to mind when reading some of the posts on this subject.

Apologies are extended if we don't fulfill the criteria as laid down by the majority of the respondents to this thread. Likewise if it's considered wrong and selfish of us to look after and cherish our bodies and health. No doubt we are to be damned eternally for actually being proud of our physical appearances.

And yes, we do generally (not always) find similar body types more physically attractive. A few extra pounds is fine, but we're just not attracted to fat (or skeletal, for that matter) body types. Our desires are our desires as are your own. We can no more change what we find attractive anymore than could a gay person.

A little more tolerance and understanding from the members would be cool (we are disappointed to have found such tolerance that we extend to those who are overweight appears not to be reciprocated).

[graygo98]

Originally Posted by SuAndBud

Guess we're about to get shot down in flames.

We're not Ken and Barbie (Su's better looking than Barbie for a kick-off. Bud's less attractive facially than Ken).

Su's naturally petite. 5' and around 100lb. 32A/B breasts. Takes little conscious excercise but is very active and eats primarily vegetables and fish (for taste reasons, not because of any dietry fad).

Bud eats similar but also likes lean red meat and works out regularly at the gym. 5'10 and 150lb of muscle. Neither of us show our ribcage though and are not overly worried to have a layer of flesh on our bones.

Guess what? We have a GREAT time (between the sheets and otherwise). We can string a couple of words of more than one syllable together and can even smile, laugh and engage in serious or amusing conversations. If you met us you'd find Su in particular to be the life and soul of any party.

You don't have to be overweight to enjoy life to the full. The immortal words of Will Shakespear "methinks thou doth protest too much" springs to mind when reading some of the posts on this subject.

Apologies are extended if we don't fulfill the criteria as laid down by the majority of the respondents to this thread. Likewise if it's considered wrong and selfish of us to look after and cherish our bodies and health. No doubt we are to be damned eternally for actually being proud of our physical appearances.

And yes, we do generally (not always) find similar body types more physically attractive. A few extra pounds is fine, but we're just not attracted to fat (or skeletal, for that matter) body types. Our desires are our desires as are your own. We can no more change what we find attractive anymore than could a gay person.

A little more tolerance and understanding from the members would be cool (we are disappointed to have found such tolerance that we extend to those who are overweight appears not to be reciprocated).

Very, very well put.

[EvilMJ]

Sue and Bud,

I completely understand where you are coming from. I think the reason you are going to find such a vehament response is that overweight people get treated so much differently than those who are thin or HWP. I think it is great that you both look after yourself and look good, I am sure you have no trouble finding people who find your body type pleasing. Overweight people go into it automatically thinking that they are going to be shunned or have a hard time in the lifestyle because they do not fit what the media tells us is the perfect body. There are a lot of preconcieved ideas out there about overweight people that are generally unkind and in many cases untrue. I have been on both sides of the coin weight wise and I one thing I can tell you without hestiation is that overweight people get treated very differently than thin people.

That doesn't mean that we should degrade or shoot down people who are thin or fit the 'Ken and Barbie' profile. I know I am repeating myself on this one but I play with people of all shapes and sizes but when it comes down to it what I find sexy is not what you are going to find sexy and there is nothing wrong with wanting to play with someone who is fit, overweight, or of a certain height, etc its just a personal perference.

The point here is that you should not feel trepidation about going into the lifestyle if you are overweight. There are people out there who will accept you and find you attractive, especially if you come into it with a confiident positive attitude.

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by SuAndBud

A little more tolerance and understanding from the members would be cool (we are disappointed to have found such tolerance that we extend to those who are overweight appears not to be reciprocated).

We're here, we're thin, get used to it!

As one of the 'in shape' rights activists of the board, its been funny how many PM's I've gotten from other posters who want to tell me how glad they were I posted what I did but don't want to post that themselves or even agree in public for fear of being less popular, seeming insensative, whatever the reason.

[prettylady]

I was having a similar train of thought as SuandBud.
Dog and I are fit and strong, we love to train and be in the gym.
We could fall under the catagory of Ken and Barbie. But Dog has a penis and my back is not breaking from the weight of my breast. We have more then just air between our ears. Dog is 26 years in the military, Helped his ex wife raise a wonderful child into an exceptional adult. I am in the process of molding two wonderful kids of my own, while attending college and holding down a job.
We are not superficial, mirror obsessed, close minded people who only think of how we look while having sex. Our Orgasm faces are just a goofy as anyone elses.
If anyone called me a barbie to my face I would be pissed, NOT because I am a drama queen, but how dare anyone make such an assumption about me with out meeting me. Lord knows once you meet me Barbie or Princess is not a term to best discribe me. BBW is a term of endearment for a curvey set person, while the term that has come up for people with less curvey bodies is an insult by being called Barbie and Ken.
I hate to go off like this towards people I respect so much. But we have got to come up with a category for those of us who are thin and have substance.
A thin funloving person who is great in bed is not a contradiction. It is, in many cases, Fact.
Why do we even need to catagorize ourselves. I love sex, you love sex. If the chemisty is there...lets have sex, if not perhaps become good friends.

Your friend,
Prettylady

[fitcouple]

SuandBud, great post and also our thoughts too!. I always get a kick out of how open mined and nonshallow swingers pronounce themselves to be, then you hear the ken and Barbie trashing. Quite hypocritical.

We like what we like, period. We are a very fit couple, and like others who are into fitness/bodybuilding too! That doesn't mean that we don't like all folks or are mean or hurtfull to others who don't fit our idea of what is attractive. I know that my body type isn't attractive to many, and a more toned than a muscular body is thier liking, but who cares.

Nothing worse than a overweight person claiming to be so open minded, and a good person on the inside, and then Ken/barbie bashing comes out of thier mouths. It really makes one look pretty unattractive.

[EvilMJ]

Originally Posted by prettylady

Why do we even need to catagorize ourselves. I love sex, you love sex. If the chemisty is there...lets have sex, if not perhaps become good friends.

Your friend,
Prettylady

Exactly

[Stubby-n-Juggs]

A guy goes into a Toy Store to look at Barbie dolls for his daughter. Eyeing the shelves he sees that "California Barbie" is $19.95. "Circus Barbie" is $19.95. "Prom Barbie" is also $19.95. Then he spots "Divorced Barbie" and is surprised to see that the price is $199.95.

Chuckling, the man approaches a salesperson, "I think someone accidentally slipped an extra digit into the price of your 'Divorced Barbie'."

The salesperson says, "No, sir. That doll is $199.95."

The man is shocked. "Why is 'Divorced Barbie' so much more than the other dolls???"

The salesperson replies, "Because 'Divorced Barbie' comes with Ken's house, Ken's convertible, Ken's yacht, Ken's kids, Ken's..."

;-)