BBW sex or not?

[pixieandelf7]

We paid for a membership to X-Match and have clean normal face and full body photos up, and we *are* an attractive couple, despite me being a size 14, we've not been added to a single hotlist yet. It's making me feel like it's because I am not Barbie. Elf has a (shorter 5'6) Ken body, maybe not so much the face, but he's a hottie.

I'm hot, damn it, and sexy. I really feel like a fatty amongst Barbies on that site. Is this a known 'Barbie site"? Should we join somewhere else?

Sorry to hijack...

[jennandjamesinm]

Pixie -

First off a size 14 is the average size of the American woman these days, so you are by no means a "fatty" Secondly - I haven't heard of X-Match. We use Swing Lifestyle and have good success. Some of the other members use adultfriendfinder and have good success. I think alot of it depends on the area of the country you are from. We just like Swing Lifestyle better, seems to be more serious "lifestylers" there.

Hope this Helps...

Jenn

[pixieandelf7]

Thanks, and you are absolutely correct, 14 *is* the average size in this country. I am content with my body and I know what to do with it, isn't that the point??

I did post to the "Ad review" thread, though. There were plenty of normal couples in our area, and I did email a few people, but no replies.



Elf keeps calling me all excited to see if anyone got back to us and I hate to disappoint him by saying 'no.'

And I tried getting onto Swing Lifestyle but it wouldn't go past step 2 for some reason.
Hmpf...

[DEMON74]

as long as they have a good personality(not to sound generic)and turn you on then who cares what their phyiscal stature is big small short tall lets love them all.

[colspgscpl]

I am married to a BBW, whom I adore. I prefer, and always have, a woman with curves. Now I have nothing against Ken and Barbie, but what people are considering Barbie now days reminds me of the commercials featuring starving children from Africa. I have been with several “Barbie” women. The sex was vanilla and quite frankly the bones hurt.

I know that not everyone is going to agree, which is the way it should be. The only thing that does bother me is those people who ignore the people because of their size. At least take a few minutes to get to know them a little bit, you might be surprised

[CuriousInOregon]

The answer is YES YES YES BBW and BHM can deffinatly swing and Put any ken and barbie to shame. We are proof of that. WE got invited to come back if that says anything

[Chicup]

Originally Posted by CuriousInOregon

The answer is YES YES YES BBW and BHM can deffinatly swing and Put any ken and barbie to shame. We are proof of that. WE got invited to come back if that says anything

This is the kinda post that puts me off a bit here. I'm sorry but my guess is that there are some 'Ken and Baribie's' that do just fine, are good people, and know how to have a good time.

There is this general hostile feeling I get from a lot of the posters on this board over the years when it comes to people in shape who are only attracted to other people in shape. Its ok to say 'I prefer women with curves, they know how to REALLY have fun, unlike the Barbie's' thats ok, but I'm sure saying something akin to 'I prefer women in shape with flat stomachs, they really know how to have fun unlike a BBW' I'd be shot to pieces here.

[CuriousInOregon]

Originally Posted by Chicup

This is the kinda post that puts me off a bit here. I'm sorry but my guess is that there are some 'Ken and Baribie's' that do just fine, are good people, and know how to have a good time.

There is this general hostile feeling I get from a lot of the posters on this board over the years when it comes to people in shape who are only attracted to other people in shape. Its ok to say 'I prefer women with curves, they know how to REALLY have fun, unlike the Barbie's' thats ok, but I'm sure saying something akin to 'I prefer women in shape with flat stomachs, they really know how to have fun unlike a BBW' I'd be shot to pieces here.

I would like to clear up my comment. I did not mean to offend. I did nto mean that "ken and Barbies" could not have fun or were not Worth the time, I guess I phrased it wrong So let me Rephrase this for you and anyone else I could have possibily offended. BBW and BHM can get the same amount of Responses and have the same fun as Any Ken or Barbie out there, We are just as likely to get that second or 3rd invite as any "inshape or flat stomached person". Unfortunatlly the way that society is today If your out of shape or just not quite up to par you either get Critisized or taunted, This is not an Easy lifestyle to live and Being a BBW myself I have to take precautions to protect myself against any of the "taunters" I by no means ment to say that Because you are in shape you think your better if that is how it came out I am sorry. Surrender

[jm77723]

We were talking to a couple who say that they dated Barbie and Ken once, and they were boring!!!

[jennandjamesinm]

I have to agree with chicup though - it seems that Kens and Barbies do get a bad rap. I like all types - big, small, Ken, Barbie, their chunky cousins - but they have to be able to string together a sentence. I guess to me personaility is the make or break factor for me.

Jenn

[Pinmonkey]

we haven't had much success at all with online ads though. I think the only way we would make a connection is a club. And so far she hasn't shown and interest in a club.

[EvilMJ]

Gotta tell ya, I play with all types, Big, thin, short, tall and I find everyone is special in their own way. What it comes down to is personality plain and simple. We all have our 'types' and that is what we are going to be attracted to. You can't just lump people into groups...

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by EvilMJ

Gotta tell ya, I play with all types, Big, thin, short, tall and I find everyone is special in their own way. What it comes down to is personality plain and simple. We all have our 'types' and that is what we are going to be attracted to. You can't just lump people into groups...

We are both right there with ya! We've had fun with big and little. Both were fun!

It is always the personality that gets our motor running. facelick Of course we need some physical attraction too, but like Evil said, everyone is special in their own way.

[ALilOEverything]

I've played with both, and enjoyed both. I don't think that size has any relation to how much fun a person is going to be. When we had any less than thrilling experiences I never attributed it what was on the outside, but totally what was in the inside.

[lovedoctor]

Who ARE Ken and Barbie after all? I have never met them. Maybe it's cuz I deal with the human condition every day and see that there is no such thing as perfection. It's not the size of the package, it's the contents we are concerned with. If there is no chemistry, then there's nothing, right? So what someone looks like takes a back seat to who they are! You would not catch me "with" Brad Pitt, he can't even carry on a conversation - what a turn off. I've never met him and don't want to. But Rob Thomas, while not a classic hottie, and def not a 'Ken' is the sexiest man I can think of - um, besides Mr LD that is!