Women's overall size and breast size

[Seria]

soapbox Ok, wait a minute. I've been reading through these forums, polls, etc. Im "learning" some interesting things. One thing that keeps jumping out at me is penis size. We all know men (generalization here) can be concerned about the size of their Mr. Wiggly, but does anyone comprehend the fact that women are concerned of their own size also? Im not talking about self conscious issues here....Im talking breast size mainly. I understand that a smaller woman with a 36C is going to look "larger" than a larger woman with a 36C...I just want some opinions! Feedback! Hit me with your best shot!

This is coming from a 5'3" - 205 lbs - mother of three - larger framed gal. My chest size is 40DD...but after the kids, age, and not being as physically active as I once was, well - lets just say, my DD's (I had before kids) are a bit depressed now

Now, I've said my peace on the breast size. I've also read some forums on plain ole physical size. Even a self confident woman, may have issues regarding the "first time" with any new partner. I've noticed especially in swinging situations. I understand that most swingers are normal, average, everyday johns and janes. But what do YOU think? What are your opinions? Are you turned off or on by a certain size? If so, does the opposite size that wets your appetite a total turn off? Or are we all really here to play, enjoy and have fun, regardless of size, stamina, self issues, etc?

I look forward to hearing from you all!

[Sweet_Candy]

First let me say "Each person has his or her own standard for attraction and this is fine". But since you asked for a personal opinion here's mine. I'm only attracted to HWP women and the SO feels the same way regarding men. If we're not physically attracted it doesn't matter how much personality one has, its just not going to happen sexually. I know this sounds shallow but we've been on both sides of the fence and prefer HWP individuals.

Sweet

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by Seria

does anyone comprehend the fact that women are concerned of their own size also?

Yes, very aware. Mrs two4you has lost a good bit of weight in the last year, and while she is very pleased with the results, she is miffed that she lost breast size too.
As for me, I am a "breast man". Meaning, I like them all, no matter the size.

Originally Posted by Seria

Are you turned off or on by a certain size? If so, does the opposite size that wets your appetite a total turn off? Or are we all really here to play, enjoy and have fun, regardless of size, stamina, self issues, etc?

For us, it's on an individual basis. With one of our playcouples, the female is larger. (5'5", 200ish). We find her to be very pretty. Great face, smooth skin, wonderful hair, and a blast in the bedroom. AND fun to hang out with after we play.

Thinking about it, and the folks we have played with, I guess we're both suckers for a pretty face as far as our "shallow side" goes, and pretty faces come in all sizes.

[Pinmonkey]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

Thinking about it, and the folks we have played with, I guess we're both suckers for a pretty face as far as our "shallow side" goes, and pretty faces come in all sizes.

I agree. Pretty faces come in all sizes. I'm also right there with you on the "breast man" thing. All sized breasts are good breasts.

[LindayRoy]

I don't know what to say. Roger (me) also like all kinds of breast shapes and sizes but I am a true sucker for small well formed perky ones. I don't really care to much for size as long as they are standing proud. I love a flat tummy and a nice healthy round but. I know I am shallow but that is what turns me on. Funny to say that is basically lindas description.
Linda in the other hand likes bigger breast. She says she is atracted to bigger breast because her's are not so big.
Also she is more atracted to hispanics and white (both male and female) and she is black.
Luckily again I am hispanic.
In guys she prefers a little taller and she is a sucker for indian, middle eastern and hispanics which all look the same to me. But I also have seen her go crazy for a good looking white boy.

I guess oposites atract.

Like someone above said. It is all in the personal taste. But we have met couples that play alone (like if they were single) or that believe they are god's gift to human kind. We run from those like the plague.

[Seria]

Wonderful responses! I happen to agree with the breast issue...any size is great! I also happen to agree with it being personal taste. I LOVE tall bald men (caucasion or african american). I can't even explain why tall but bald is easy...there are so many nerve endings on one's scalp, a little lick and nibble on a bald man's head with drive him wild (in my experience) and since I get off on pleasing others...his arousal and response to it just heightens mine!

Thank you! Let's get some more opinions here!

[BradAndJanet]

I can't say that breast size make any difference to me. I like 'em all!

As far as overall size goes, I'm OK with bigger women, but there is a point at which I'm going to take a pass, I'll be honest.

But, size is certainly not the most important factor in whether I think a woman is hot or not. The primary thing for me is what's between a woman's ears, not what's between her neck and her ankles. I like a woman who is confident in her sexuality, has a friendly smile and is fun to be around. If she doesn't have those qualities, I don't care if she looks like a porn star, I'm not going to be attracted to her.

-B

[starlinn]

Hubby likes women with some intellegence, and he is a breast man. I like women that are girly girls. That wear finger nail polish and nicely dressed. Little tatoos and no harley shirts! As far as size, we are not all that particular.

[two4youinswva]

Originally Posted by BradAndJanet

I like a woman who is confident in her sexuality, has a friendly smile and is fun to be around. If she doesn't have those qualities, I don't care if she looks like a porn star, I'm not going to be attracted to her.
-B

Dito If I were religious, I'd give you an "amen". Will you settle for a "Right on brother!" ?

[lostnwilds]

whell i have never been over excited by the size of the breast. but mrs lost says "it dosnt matter if thay are aa or ee if tay are pointing at the floor you might want to do somthing

[BradAndJanet]

Originally Posted by two4youinswva

Dito If I were religious, I'd give you an "amen". Will you settle for a "Right on brother!" ?

Sure!

-B

[katejustkate]

What if a woman has one small breast "AA" and an even smaller about half the size?
I am that woman I am 5'5" and thin 100lbs. How do I deal with the more normal women.

[BradAndJanet]

Well, how's your smile, kate?

-B

[katejustkate]

I have been told it's a very nice smile.

[Mike and Jan]

Kate,
In the car business we used to say "there's an ass for every seat"! Meaning that no matter how ugly you think the car is, someone will love it.

I, for one of many, absolutely love and prefer small breasts on a woman. My wife has large breasts and after 33 years of being with them I just want something different. Your self description sounds extrememly appealing to me.

If I had to describe what I'd consider the perfect female breast it'd be small with long nipples.

And, you'll find that there are a lot of men just like me out here! So, be proud of your uniqueness!