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How often are you Naked before swinging sex begins?

This is a discussion on How often are you Naked before swinging sex begins? within the Physical Attraction (Looks/Weight) forums, part of the Self Esteem / Attraction / Fear of Rejection category; Being 5'8 and 214lbs Im alittle uncomfortable about just walking around naked. t-shirt I feel sexier in bra ...

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Old 06-14-2005, 10:50 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Default How often are you Naked before swinging sex begins?

Being 5'8 and 214lbs Im alittle uncomfortable about just walking around naked. t-shirt
I feel sexier in bra and panties. I mean I still have nice DD tits but being almost 49 they feel perkier in my bras ...but the tummy well ~~has seen younger/firmer days Surrender ..... so how often do you become fully naked before bed? Is it something that happens all the time? I dont mind once we are in bed but, :rollseyes this is something Im sure I will overcome, but being new to this, it will take some time....

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Old 06-15-2005, 04:58 AM   #2 (permalink)
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Ah, the joys of gravity.

We are past the 1/2 century point on the calendar and things aren't as firm as they were , we would like and maybe even as they should be (if you pay close attention to the recommended weight charts). But we also know we are not alone.

We just try and keep in as good a shape as possible. We don't mind being naked in front of others because that is the way we are. At that point the personality attractiveness will outweigh the imperfect bodies.

Most important to feel comfortable with yourself.

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Old 06-15-2005, 06:49 AM   #3 (permalink)
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Mrs Spoomonkey is a closet nudist... Only because I've never taken her to a nudist camp/beach/pizza joint.

She walks around/sit around naked all the time at the house. She has talked me into joining her once or twice, but I make it maybe five minutes before I have to get something on.

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I enjoy getting naked as we get into bed. I don't mind running around naked so much once things have gotten started. Once they've seen it, they've seen it. Then again there are times where I just don't mind running around naked!
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Old 06-15-2005, 07:19 AM   #5 (permalink)
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I don't enjoy being naked for no reason...too selfconsious.

I do have a habit of flashing people....can't help that it's fun.

I don't really mind being naked before bed, during sex, after sex....especially with those who are appreciative of it. Usually I just end up having so much fun I don't care.

Did I mention I like to flash people....he he...sorry....but sometimes the twins have a mind of their own.
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I'd be naked all the time if I could. Really.

We used to shed our clothes the minute we got in the door, but now we have kids - and they're more prudish about it than we are, although Girl has lately taken to yelling, "Don't look!" and running nude from the bathroom to her bedroom after showering. The boy, at 13, is still pretty shy these days.

I could see myself enjoying a nudist resort; public nudity doesn't bother me. I know what I've got isn't all that fit at the moment, but I guess I've just learned to accept myself as I am.

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I havent seen myself naked since i was 23 in firm.
Actually, I wondered that same thing, im not comfy getting naked at home in the dark, under the covers why would i be comfy with someone else in the room. I had thought of maybe getting a sexy outfit that would help hide the scary parts of the body. Truthfully, my insecirites with my body is what is keeping us from enjoying ourselves.
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To many yrs. being naked in front of guys in the army cured any sense of shyness I might have had...I still have to remind myself and Candy to put undies on around the boys they are at that age (4-7) that everything is ewwww. No bra for her is allowed. We guys in the house don't wear one why should she?

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lol we are for the most part a nude house.. my youngest was outside climbing trees naked the other day. I would be naked all the time if i could, gravity be damned. To me.. its all fleash... we all have it... some of us have more than other... amd like me.. some of us have boobs that look like oranges in a tube sock. I have never seen "the perfect" body on a real person. I just go with what is comfortable for those I care about.

The girls are less modest than my son. He has to have his boxers... The girls.. they could care less and will moon anyone. I have no idea where they learned that from. Must be Mr. BID
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To many yrs. being naked in front of guys in the army cured any sense of shyness I might have had...

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Yes, it is a matter of exposure ( ). As a teen I lived for a year in a country where most households did not have private showers at the time, so everyone used the public bathhouse. Boy did it take awhile for me to get comfortable being naked in front of all those people, even though they were all female! and during busy hours it was CROWDED . But that experience definitely cured me of shyness about nudity!
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Just like the Spoos, my wife, though not completely naked, runs around the house in nothing but a tee shirt, nothing else. Big, baggy tee shirts, sometimes not so big or so baggy. We have no kids, just dogs and cats. There've been times when she's greeted the pizza delivery guy in just her tee shirt and a smile. We'd have a laugh afterwards while stuffing our faces and figure out if he saw anything and what he'd be telling the guys back at the pizza joint.

I'm a little bit more prudish and need to wear at least soccer or running shorts. Just a little concerned and protective of the crown jewels just hanging all exposed like that.
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I'm alergic to the sun so you won't see me naked outside in the daytime, I can get sunburned at midnight with a full moon.

Because of lack of experiance getting naked in front of strangers I am a little shy about it. On the other hand, my skin is so bright white that it tends to blind any onlookers, so even if I am naked nobody really see's me.

Just the other night, we were at a house party in the play room and some of the couples were having trouble seeing each other because the lighting was a little low. I got undressed and brightened the room right up, and I didn't even have any afterglow going yet.
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Matter of fact... I'm nekid right now!

I work in the yard,front and back naked all the time. I really enjoy it. Course we do have 7 acres and live at the end of a cul de sac so it's easier for us.

Bonnie will get naked sometimes at the pool but not when all three boys are home. We both enjoy nude resorts and naked pool parties with other adults...
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You know, I guess it just depends on where you are naked. I personally have no qualms about it in most situations. Mrs. WS has had to kids and she is a little self-concious about her tummy and such, but it hasn't stopped her from being naked in a swinging situation. I remember one occasion where we were in a hot tub with two other couples, one woman said she needed another drink or something, but she was too self-concious to get out and get it. Now mind you, she definitely had the best body in the hot tub. A great body by anybodies standards. But she wouldn't get out. Mrs. WS got out and got it for her.

On the other hand we were at an event a couple of weeks ago where nudity was allowed, but both of us kept our clothes on in the public areas. So again, it goes back to where we are determining how comfortable we are being naked. More intimate settings are much more comfortable then a club or party.

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So I guess most people have some sort of shyness about "naked" to some degree! Thats nice to hear! I guess once we have our first experience, I will know what to expect. I just hope I have someone as nice as all of you to experience it with, to make me feel that comfortable.
So I take it, with my description, you would not jump up and run if you saw my body coming towards you

thanks again........you guys are great !
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