The beautiful people....huh?

[northindycpl]

You can make that check out to

Mrs. Indy's Retirement Fund

Good to see you here Janetlee! And thanks to all that have posted their opinions.

[jennandjamesinm]

Even though I am a newbie I just wanted to add my 2 cents here....and I hope I don't offend anyone either. I am an un-6 for sure LOL. I am a "thick" lady as someone so kindly put it. (6 foot tall, and about 240 or so) My body is also soft because giving birth to the 3 wonderful sons I have, and I'm proud of my body for that alone!!! There were days where I wish I could have been born thinner, but the truth is that I was born into a family where both sides have "thick" women, genetics is a bitch sometimes. That having been said - I have lost almost 100 lbs. over the past year and feel damn good about myself. When I go out, I dress appropriately, but sexy and show off my assets (James just loves those wrap around shirts that expose cleavage, if you know what I mean!!!! facelick ) Because I don't want anyone to judge me on looks alone, I do the same for others. Alot of the attraction I have had for people (in the vanilla world, no lifestyle experiences, but I think it will be the same), have been to their personality. Alot of it, in my opinion, is the way you carry yourself and present yourself to the world. I think I am sexy and beautiful, and you can see that in the way I present myself. I'm a big girl - so what? Losing that 100 lbs certainly helped, I have a confidence that I haven't had in years!!!! If you don't want to play with me because I an un-6, thats ok too - to each his own, but I hope that wouldn't stop you from talking to me either - but I guess if it did you wouldn't be the kind of person I would want to talk to either. Again - this is general and not directed toward anyone, and I hope I haven't offended anyone, just My Humble Opinion!!!

Jenn

[jennandjamesinm]

Making check out to Mrs. Indy for Jenn's 2 cents...to the Mrs. Indy Retirement Fund LOL....

[islandgirl]

well this one was good for me.....I too am not a 6....well it depends on where I buy my clothes, lets just say I am of sturdy stock or maybe vertically challenged(5'2'and a bit and 130+/-lbs), and I too have those pride marks from my little one, I have been a bit nervous about how I will be accepted, only a bit though as generally I am a 'if you don't like me for me then too bad for you!
My feeling has always been one of beauty is only skin deep, it doesn't seem to be the same for everyone in mainstream society though. So glad to see that in the lifestyle it would appear that what's on the inside matters most.

[EvilMJ]

I wanted to add on a few more things after a particularly good weekend.

There were lots of "size six" or beautiful people if you will at the dance we went to on the weekend. Lots of them were hitting on me..I am not a size six. Isn't it great when we all get along

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by islandgirl

...My feeling has always been one of beauty is only skin deep, it doesn't seem to be the same for everyone in mainstream society though. So glad to see that in the lifestyle it would appear that what's on the inside matters most.

Ditto that!

Male D

[islandgirl]

thanks Male D ......nother little boost for the ego, woohoo!!!

[CandTinLorainCo]

Originally Posted by charms123

I guess, as my therapist would say if I had one, “M” get a grip. Accept people for what they are. If they don’t like you because of your size, personality, skin color, lack of hair on your head but enough everywhere else to weave a rug, FUCK ‘EM! And that at $225/hr!

M of M (him) &N (her)

Exactly! Well put....


-C

[Bluedragon]

It's what you have in your heart that is or isn't attractive, not neccesarily what you look like on the outside.

I couldn't have said it any better Male D.

Edited for spelling.

[DBL D]

Thanks Bluedragon, but please send accolades to islandgirl. She was the one who put the sentiment into words!

Male D

[kissyface]

I was a size 6 at one time, before the last baby, now more of a 10/12 and quite comfy at this size. No matter what size I have been I have always like curvy woman the best. I have never been really interested in BBW but what I would consider thick woman....they make me swoon.

Now my hubby is a big guy, almost 6'4" and 250 lbs, he is a teddy bear. Some folks are a bit put off at his size and that is ok too.

[Sweet_Candy]

Attraction to other people for us is like walking into a Sweet Factory.
Not all candy is the same, and some you like and dislike, and then there's your favorites. To each his own. facelick

Sweet

[bluedragoness]

Well, I can relate to both sizes , was a size2 till i aged a bit then went from that to a size 18.. I have this complex about my weight now and used to really feel uncomfortable around others, but growing out of this feeling slowly thanks to a great husband and friends.

But as far as going to a club with beautiful people, sure I would still do it, it is one of the things that motivates me further out of my complex of weight, to be able to see all these beautiful people and then say "hey look at me I am just as beautiful and sexy on the inside as you guys are on the out".


Its not the cover of the book you should be judging but the contents of it.

If you are only looking at the cover , you will never find the true story inside.


Well might not have made sense to some about how I posted this but it makes total sense to me .

And that is just how I judge people, by the beauty within, not the outside shell.


Mrs B.