The beautiful people....huh?

[ALilOEverything]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

I mean, do the 6's want to play and have experiences with the Un's?

Be honest....

I'm a size 6, though my body is quite soft after 3 kids and I have all the imperfections that come with having them. I feel good about myself though and try to keep in decent shape. As for playing with someone who isn't a 6? Several times. There are women who are quite a bit larger than I, that radiate feminine beauty and have these awesome personalities... I find myself quite attracted to them. I've often wondered if my body becomes more of a disappointment for them since I'm not curvy and volumptous (I'm small breasted and narrow hips). I am what I am though and they are what they are but that's not what's important to me. A pretty face, bright eyes, a dymamite smile and a sexy attitude is really what gets me going.

It's not just about what's on the outside, it's the whole package. I don't see these people, male or female, who I have sex with as just physical objects. I want to give them pleasure because I like them for who they are, inside and out.

[Nymph an' Satyr]

Size 6 + 10- Size 16 baby- that's where the ample flesh and fun are!

[Dynamar]

Originally Posted by Nymph an' Satyr

Size 6 + 10- Size 16 baby- that's where the ample flesh and fun are!

Over here! Over here! I'm a 16!

[northindycpl]

Gosh ladies.... (and gentlemen) you have really driven my point home! I appreciate your posts!

It is about the persona nd not the size. People have their preferances, true...but it is what is on the inside that matters most!

[sensuality]

I have often times commented that the thicker ladies get a lot more play/attention than women who are my size.Hubby is real picky about who he'll play with and hence has only played with women who reflect something along the lines of my body type.Again, we get A LOT of compliments and a few touches, but it's like we are admired from afar,so to speak.For the most part,whenever anything has ever happened,I've initiated the conversations and made the moves.There have been exceptions, but not many.I actually like woman who have some meat on their bones, I just don't like really overweight ladies.But, as I said, there's someone for everyone!

Something else you all might find interesting and sexy too:{I hope I can put this here}
I was just browsing Swing Lifestyle and came across a website there...www.iEVW.com

There are some really beautiful ladies on this site.

[HotMoCpl]

Quite frankly, a size 6 doesn't mean squat in my book and I have the ability to speak quite knowledgable about the subject since I've had more then one wife.....for whatever that's worth.

What I've noticed is that a lot of women's sizes tend to run to the small side and that may depend on the company who made it.

I've noticed that in my wife's panties she may wear a 7 or 8....depending on who made them. The same for blouses, skirts, jeans and so on. She's been wearing men's Wrangler jeans since I met her, but they look good on her.

Let's stop and think. What was a size 6 40 years ago (how many of you are that old?) is probably a size 8 these days.

Its all a part of the women's clothing business.

[sensuality]

Point blank:
Beauty is most definitely in the eye of the beholder.

[Pepper & Drew]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

It seems to me that the Size 6's get a really bad rap! I want to know, does it matter to the 6's as much as it seems to matter to the Un-6's?

I mean, do the 6's want to play and have experiences with the Un's?

Be honest....

Would you avoid a club that didn't have people of your particular size as members?

(Maybe there is a whole secret society of Size 6's out there just waiting for me to arrive )

I'm one of those 6's now, and I think that in some ways, I seemed more approachable when I was an un. (35 pounds ago) I think a lot of times, people discount you and think that you wouldn't be interested in them because they're not a 6 and quite often, the opposite is true. I like women who are curvy, soft and well...girlie-feeling. facelick I think people underestimate their attractiveness, and that insecurity is what's not attractive. I think it's a mind over matter thing: if you don't mind, it don't matter.

Pepper

[DBL D]

You have to be comfy in your own skin. I am! If you aren't then you'll have lot's of problems dealing with others and not get past the idea that it ain't the body, it's the mind!

I'm certainly not saying that everyone should be with everyone but there definitely is more to it than a dress size.

Male D

[Dynamar]

I've hesitated to post this, because I don't want it to sound like I think I'm all that and a bag of Cool Ranch Doritos... but recently I have been on two first dates with new gents, and after the fact, during an IM or phone chat... each has said to me "gee.. I loved talking with you... You are so confident and open, and I find that incredibly sexy." Both of the guys... younger, totally HWP and each 97 kinds of smoking hot!

Full disclosure: I'm a big girl... 5'9", size 16 or 18, ~200 lbs (give or take... I really don't weigh myself, just go by how my clothes fit). There have been times in my life when I certainly didn't feel so sexy and desirable. However, I've always liked to think that I "accentuate the positive"... focus attention on my eyes, my smile, my brain and my wit... and at this point in time, at least... that's what's winning out. It's proof enough for me!

[NaughtyKitten]

Originally Posted by ALilOEverything

I'm a size 6, though my body is quite soft after 3 kids and I have all the imperfections that come with having them. I feel good about myself though and try to keep in decent shape.

Dito

I am also a size 6 with kid imperfections. Everyone has their own body hangups. Here's mine. I have a womanly curvy shape, great legs, 34D breasts that even my gay friend told me were mesmerizing a rather pretty face IMHO and a fun flirty personality. All my imperfections are well hidden under my stylish clothing. I feel like I will be a big let down for any guy after I get naked. Hubby thinks I am beautiful and tries his best to calm my insecurities.
I feel like my outward clothed appearance is false advertising.


---NaughtyKitten

[MrNorthIndyCpl]

Ummm Darling? I thought you were a size 6.....Damn! All this time I thought WE were the beautiful people, and all those little people were sadly under-nourished.

John

[janetlee1977]

uhhhh..... I'm a size 13 stripper. And me and my Hubby go to a klub in Muncie. And I enjoy the woman with boobs more than anything..... I don't care size 6 or 26..... if she's got anything over a D cup you better look out cause it's going to eventually make it way into my hand or mouth! LOL And as for caring about the size of people at a klub..... I just care as long as they shower, no stains on thier clothes and have teeth! Other than that I don't care.

Janet

P.S.
I think we know each other indy!

[TheGeek]

Originally Posted by sensuality

I was just browsing Swing Lifestyle and came across a website there...www.iEVW.com

There are some really beautiful ladies on this site.

Wow -- great site! Those are the beautiful people!

I wonder if I could get Mrs. Geek on there. facelick

[charms123]

You people are all a bunch….

Ok, now that I have your attention!

Here is “a” guy’s point of view. Oh, a guy that is about 335lbs and 6’1. “N” is a size 16 or so (I only know her thong size as I have bought enough of them for her!) and is 6’ tall.

We are both neat and clean ALWAYS, have our own teeth and no stains anywhere! “N” always wears something sexy and appropriate to her frame.

That said, I feel it is me that is holding us/her back from playing. When we go to the club, my concern is that I might turn off the beautiful people. And I have voiced that opinion to my wife when we first started in this lifestyle. I have always been large.

Cum to find out, we quickly made friends with all types and sizes. From the size 4’s (though we have not played with some of them) to ladies and guys my size or bigger. And would you believe they all are some of the nicest people when you get to know them? Figure that? facelick

I guess, as my therapist would say if I had one, “M” get a grip. Accept people for what they are. If they don’t like you because of your size, personality, skin color, lack of hair on your head but enough everywhere else to weave a rug, FUCK ‘EM! And that at $225/hr!

If you think me a slob because I am “fat” and you are not, that is your hang up, not mine. “N” has allowed me to see that you don’t have to be perfect to have fun, as long as you are neat and clean. The club we attend gets 200 people per party. Sometimes we play, sometimes we don’t. But we have fun with each other and love each other for the way we are.

I hope that made some sense to at least a few people that have the same hang up as I do.

Oh, most of the shots on our web site are “N”. And has she receives some great compliments from men and women. That proves that you can be a bigger size, not a 44-D and get some hot remarks. So there, you hung-up-on-looks, carrot-eating, don’t-look-at-me-cause-I-am-a-goddess/god, people!

WOW that felt good. Ok, to whom do I write the $225 check?

Great thread, thanks.

M of M (him) &N (her)