Over weight, sagging bodies, and swinging

[BBgurl]

This was a wonderful thread to read this morning!
Yes, it is all in the attitude, I have seen people big and small with attitudes
that I dont care for, but I must say, some of the kinkiest people I know
are not height/weight porportionate

[DBStPete]

We've found that adding some clothing helps a lot. It helps us look better, and it makes us less self-concious. And all of those things make us sexier, so this is a win-win.

For the ladies, certain types of lingerie can help a lot. Stockings help legs that aren't quite as smooth and pretty as they once were. Lacy full-body stockings with holes in the appropriate places are great. You can "stay clothed" and still be in the center of an orgy.

Both of us love and wear sarongs, both as daily wear around the house, and at parties. Guys, think of it as a toga. The way I like to wear it just tied over one shoulder. That leaves it fitting loosely, and open on one side. Very easy to cover or reveal things as needed, and extremely comfortable.

Mr. DBStPete

[dave110256]

We all put on a few pounds with age but obesity is a real turn-off for us. We both work very hard to stay in good shape, excercise daily and try to eat right. Nobody is perfect including us but we prefer to stay in shape. When it gets right down to it though it is the attitudes and personalities that really matter in the end but it is hard denying that outward appearance is what initially attracts.

[luv2plzu]

I am new to this board, but have been swinging for a while. I have had some bad experiences with people. Don't go into this thinking you wont. But the good ones so outweigh the bad ones!! I can't tell you how right everyone is about the attitude...feel sexy and you are sexy! Dress in whatever you feel good in. You don't have to dress any certain way to be accepted. If you want something a little shorter or tighter, try Torrid. I know they have a website and are in a lot of malls. It's all plus size, though a lot of it is kind of dark and goth-like. A lot of cute stuff though too! Other than that, I always search the web for "Plus Size Club Wear" and come up with a lot of options.
Good luck!