Same room with limited space

cpl4friends · 03-13-2003, 05:18 PM

Hello everyone. We are newbies (Only 1 adventure so far), and don't know what the norm is. The only experience we have had so far was a swap with another couple in the same room. This is how we prefer to do things.
It took place at the other couple's house. The other couple has a king sizde bed, so as we were all having our fun (Just straight swap), we had plenty of room to work with.

We are thinking of having them over to our house, but are worried that there will not be enough room in our queen sized bed for all of us. Now we have a guest bedroom with another queen in it, but we don't want to seperate. I know more seasoned swingers will think this is trivial, but how do you guys usually handle this? I'm sure we will all fit, but it may be cramped.
Who knows though it may prompt a 4some instead of a swap, since everyone will literally be "On Top of each other"

You advise/suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

D (Him) and K (Her)

kycpl4bifem · 03-13-2003, 05:23 PM

We once did a 4sum in a twin bed

Though I wouldn't recomend it. We now keep a queen air bed rolled up in the trunk of the car just in case an extra bed is needed wherever we are.

ciscosv · 03-13-2003, 05:41 PM

Do you two have a sofa and love seat?

**Alura** · 03-13-2003, 06:11 PM

In our opinion, two couples in a queen-size bed is no problem at all. In fact, we think its a lot of fun!

Alura

cpl4friends · 03-13-2003, 06:18 PM

LOL kycpl.
We just keep seeing you guys get ready for a trip.
Flashlight........................................ ...........Check
Spare Tire.............................................. ....Check
First Aid Kit............................................... .Check
Mattress in case of swinger emergency....Check

ciscosv
Yes we do, but the living room windows are subject to prying eyes, but the everyone could use a good show now and then.

kycpl4bifem · 03-13-2003, 06:37 PM

He was a Boy Scout leader "Allways be prepaired"

Handyman69 · 03-13-2003, 08:42 PM

We also prefer the king size bed but hey....queen or double, we have had fun on both too. We had three couples on a queen size in a motel room. A little crowded but led to lots of fun.

Just go for it.

Rhonda (and John)

Brit_Pair · 03-14-2003, 05:20 AM

Improvise.

Adapt.

Overcome.

(Or should that last one be come over?)

***JustAskJulie*** · 03-14-2003, 08:23 AM

Unless we are in a hotel, a Queen size bed is pretty much the norm for us. It's what we have at home and whenever we are at our friends it's usually a Queen size air bed. Plenty of room for side by side sex, regardless of who wants to be on top.

Michcouple · 03-14-2003, 11:23 AM

We usually use the living room

Using the sofa and couple of blankets on the floor.

PartyCouple2003 · 03-14-2003, 12:36 PM

I think a Queen size would be plenty.....lol
All we have is a double...

Jenn

OhioCouple · 03-14-2003, 01:11 PM

We have often wondered about this. We have a queen size bed but have never played at home. For the most part it has always been at a motel with a king sized bed or the other couples home who have a king size too.

Lori

PartyCouple2003 · 03-14-2003, 01:21 PM

The stuff that we have done so far has been either at my friends house in his hot tub, or at a hotel....

Lee.

ciscosv · 03-14-2003, 02:47 PM

You would definately not want to get down in the living then if there is a privacy issue. Your fun may end up on Kazaa.

wiscpl · 03-16-2003, 05:57 PM

We've played in our home once before on a Queen sized bed. It was a little small but we still had fun. We recently purchased a king sized bed and we will have to play in it and get back to this thread.

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03-13-2003, 05:18 PM	#1 (permalink)
cpl4friends Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 11 Location: Western Arkansas/ Eastern Oklahoma Status: Couple	Same room with limited space Hello everyone. We are newbies (Only 1 adventure so far), and don't know what the norm is. The only experience we have had so far was a swap with another couple in the same room. This is how we prefer to do things. It took place at the other couple's house. The other couple has a king sizde bed, so as we were all having our fun (Just straight swap), we had plenty of room to work with. We are thinking of having them over to our house, but are worried that there will not be enough room in our queen sized bed for all of us. Now we have a guest bedroom with another queen in it, but we don't want to seperate. I know more seasoned swingers will think this is trivial, but how do you guys usually handle this? I'm sure we will all fit, but it may be cramped. Who knows though it may prompt a 4some instead of a swap, since everyone will literally be "On Top of each other" You advise/suggestions would be greatly appreciated. D (Him) and K (Her)
	__________________ People are like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are gonna get, so you gotta taste them all. :-) He is D. She is K

03-13-2003, 05:41 PM	#3 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 755 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	Do you two have a sofa and love seat?
	__________________ M&M Melts in your mouth, not in your hand

03-13-2003, 06:18 PM	#5 (permalink)
cpl4friends Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 11 Location: Western Arkansas/ Eastern Oklahoma Status: Couple	LOL kycpl. We just keep seeing you guys get ready for a trip. Flashlight........................................ ...........Check Spare Tire.............................................. ....Check First Aid Kit............................................... .Check Mattress in case of swinger emergency....Check ciscosv Yes we do, but the living room windows are subject to prying eyes, but the everyone could use a good show now and then.
	__________________ People are like a box of chocolates. You never know what you are gonna get, so you gotta taste them all. :-) He is D. She is K

03-14-2003, 05:20 AM	#8 (permalink)
Brit_Pair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	Swingers' motto? Improvise. Adapt. Overcome. (Or should that last one be come over?)
	Last edited by Brit_Pair; 03-14-2003 at 05:23 AM.

03-13-2003, 05:23 PM	#2 (permalink)
kycpl4bifem Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 31 Location: Central Kentucky Status: Cpl	We once did a 4sum in a twin bed Though I wouldn't recomend it. We now keep a queen air bed rolled up in the trunk of the car just in case an extra bed is needed wherever we are.

03-13-2003, 06:11 PM	#4 (permalink)
Alura Just a hick Okie Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 8,135 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Widower	In our opinion, two couples in a queen-size bed is no problem at all. In fact, we think its a lot of fun! Alura

03-13-2003, 06:37 PM	#6 (permalink)
kycpl4bifem Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 31 Location: Central Kentucky Status: Cpl	He was a Boy Scout leader "Allways be prepaired"

03-13-2003, 08:42 PM	#7 (permalink)
Handyman69 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 553 Location: MI..God's country.so we thought. Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:handyman69	We also prefer the king size bed but hey....queen or double, we have had fun on both too. We had three couples on a queen size in a motel room. A little crowded but led to lots of fun. Just go for it. Rhonda (and John)

03-14-2003, 08:23 AM	#9 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,287 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	Unless we are in a hotel, a Queen size bed is pretty much the norm for us. It's what we have at home and whenever we are at our friends it's usually a Queen size air bed. Plenty of room for side by side sex, regardless of who wants to be on top.
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03-14-2003, 11:23 AM	#10 (permalink)
Michcouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 845 Location: Michigan Status: couple	The Living Room We usually use the living room Using the sofa and couple of blankets on the floor.

03-14-2003, 12:36 PM	#11 (permalink)
PartyCouple2003 Active Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 27 Location: Central PA Status: Couple	I think a Queen size would be plenty.....lol All we have is a double... Jenn

03-14-2003, 01:11 PM	#12 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	We have often wondered about this. We have a queen size bed but have never played at home. For the most part it has always been at a motel with a king sized bed or the other couples home who have a king size too. Lori
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03-14-2003, 01:21 PM	#13 (permalink)
PartyCouple2003 Active Member Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 27 Location: Central PA Status: Couple	The stuff that we have done so far has been either at my friends house in his hot tub, or at a hotel.... Lee.

03-14-2003, 02:47 PM	#14 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 755 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	You would definately not want to get down in the living then if there is a privacy issue. Your fun may end up on Kazaa.
	__________________ M&M Melts in your mouth, not in your hand

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