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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 6,485 Location: Behind door #2 Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:mrmrsfun
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well this morning while posting to another thread i was thinking of a time while recently playing with some friends.we were all in the bed messing around a bit and our friends had a porno on the tv. i noticed the other guy was looking at the screen alot but i found it. well...kinda distracting. so i asked to turn off the t.v. and put on some music instead. no biggy but it just got me thinking.we could watch porn by ourselves and never did see the end of the movie before humpin like wild.do most people like porn while playing with others.not in the forplay but while your actually down to business.or would you prefer music?
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| Julie's Helper Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 4,001 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits and retired Swing Lifestyle Name:graceful
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We would prefer music in the play areas and if you need porn them put it in a common area or a room/area to itself. Pretty simple.
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 510 Location: Florida - but right now, I'm on tour! Status: M Female Swing Lifestyle Name:Fllovedoctor
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 70 Location: North Carolina Status: Married Male Swing Lifestyle Name:MyBetterHalf
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Silence is golden! But if I had to choose, it would be music.
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| Way too opinionated Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 1,826 Location: Southeastern Virginia Status: Single Female Swing Lifestyle Name:The_Fuse
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Definitely music. We were playing two weekends ago when our friends suggested some porn. I'm not opposed to porn, and thought what the hell, it might be fun. But once it was on and I looked at it a little, it just made me laugh. Does this happen to anyone else? Later, Mr. Fuse told me my moaning was drowning out the porn anyway . I'd much rather watch him with the other lady facelick than watch porn on the TV. Silence is fine too, but music can add something to the atmosphere.
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Isn't the reason that your having sex in the same room/bed is so you can watch your partner enjoy him or herself? I would think porn at that point would take away from it. Music is always nice to have in the background. |
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| insert witty banter here Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,190 Location: Virginia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:havefuninsun
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LIVE Porn!!! <<insert cheesy porn movie music here ...>> Yes, LIVE Porn is where it's at. Good music is just gravy. | |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 206 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple
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Have never had this happen when we are with friends (we stick to music or just the sounds of each other), but it's always on at the clubs we've been to. It's kinda like background static, I don't really notice it or pay attention to it. There's too much going on in the room to pay attention to the television. ![]() Boris |
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| It's not easy being easy. Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 2,012 Location: In Bed Status: Person
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I agree, porn would just be a little distracting. It could be good to help start things off. Music is good... But, the live porn starring your SO...that would be best! ~SS |
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| Chimpin' Ain't Easy Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 6,739 Location: Ohio Status: Married Monkeys - will you be our vine? Swing Lifestyle Name:Spoomonkey
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Who needs porn? Music if we have to have something (seems kind of a natural when we play at home) but otherwise, nothing... Spoomonkey |
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| Canadian, eh? Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 2,633 Location: Kingston, ON Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:intuition897
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Music. Definitely. I sometimes find even silence distracting, but music is really nice to have in the background. No heavy metal or rock; just ambient sounds. Enigma is good humpin' music. |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 577 Location: Denver area Status: single male Swing Lifestyle Name:Magnum
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 46 Location: Thailand & UK Status: Couple
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Inly exception if the camcorder was filming us all live and it was being played live. Like to show my best side to the camera | |
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