Doing Pictures & video with other couples

Dolphins524 · 10-03-2005, 11:23 PM

I see alot of ads on Swing Lifestyle that state the couple likes taking pictures & shooting video. Would any of you all be up for this? Seems kinda risky to me. I'm sure after I got to know a couple very well I might be up for it. But even then, what happens if you have a falling out w/ them? No telling where it could end up

. I'd love to have some videos of Mrs. Dolphins in some hot action, but I don't know if it would be worth the risk. Any thoughts?

BorisNatasha · 10-03-2005, 11:50 PM

No thanks... once somebody else has the goods, you have no idea where they are going to end up. You don't wanna end up like Pam and Tommy do you? And by that I mean publicly embarassed, not ending up with a career down the toilet or in jail on spousal abuse charges.

Boris

LikeMinds321 · 10-04-2005, 12:26 AM

They only way we have allowed this is with one couple we have played with numerous times.

When they are at our home we give them our digital camera to take the pictures of us (not them with us). This way we're the only people with these pictures of us.

If we take pictures of us with our playpartners we view them on the spot together and then erase them on the spot in view of each other. So the pictures are only used at that play session for additional stimulation and viewing pleasure.

If we go to their house we use their camera to film them and we never bring anything home with us.

I think you "get the picture." It amounts to never saving film/pictures of ourselves with other people while having sex.

It can be very fun to have someone film me with MrLM because those are shots and angles we can never get of ourselves. Very erotic for us to watch ourselves later.

Someone may find them after we die and wonder who was shooting those pictures of us, but we don't care, we think it would give them a secret thrill.

LM

sxndb · 10-04-2005, 12:45 AM

Uh yeah we would have no problem with that. We are probably in the minority but we are attractive and "where" they might up sounds exciting. We are not "ashamed of who we are and we also don't have jobs where "sexy" pictures would cause a problem. Not to mention we both love to be photographed and making videos so yeah we're "in"!

sxndb

montresor · 10-04-2005, 05:38 AM

We're definitely in the "shutterbug" category. Love being photo'd/video'd, love looking at them later. Usually starts a new round of sex!

Jamie&Kieth · 10-04-2005, 07:39 AM

We tried it once, with two other couples ... what we thought would be exciting turned quite boring. Poor lighting, poor angles and yes poor camera work ... guess we will leave to buying a video rather than try to make our own.

We all watched it together after we were "done" and then deleted the goods.

Greg & Sheryl · 10-04-2005, 11:11 AM

Some couple are more comfortable with the idea than others. We happen to be a couple who really enjoys it, but we can afford to be because neither of us have high-profile jobs, judgemental families or vanilla friends.

lovefest04 · 10-04-2005, 12:16 PM

We have taken pictures on a number of occasions, not really to keep but as a toy/tool. It just seems to heighten the fun when we direct our partner to do something to a "friend" and then take pictures. Sound weird in writing, but Iwe think you'll understand.

We do however always delete within a few days. One couple actually asked for copies and we had already deleted. They were disappointed, but thats our way. We just don't see the point in keeping them around.

We think the mental pictures are best anyways. And we love to paint pictures during sex of past encounters. Just the words are enough to get us going again.

Lovefest

macleods727 · 10-04-2005, 12:37 PM

Hello!

My husband and I do video and pictures ourself, the videos are in a small safe we have so there are no acidents. It is just living together so no worries of kids or roommates either. We have done it with a few people we swing with that are also fiends of ours but we have the only copies of it. The only exception to that is me giving a massage to one of our swing friends where I had to take off my dress so that I could to it properly.
What I am trying to say is we both enjoy it (especially my husband) but if we do it with others we keep the copies because we know where they are and that they are safe.
M

OrgyusGigantus · 10-04-2005, 04:52 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

When they are at our home we give them our digital camera to take the pictures of us (not them with us). This way we're the only people with these pictures of us.

If we take pictures of us with our playpartners we view them on the spot together and then erase them on the spot in view of each other. So the pictures are only used at that play session for additional stimulation and viewing pleasure.

LM

What a fantastic idea!!!! Thanks LikeMinds!!!!!

tncinmd · 10-04-2005, 10:48 PM

We have lots of pics and vids of our playtimes. Never have had a problem.

We never show anything close to identifying information. You can do this by editing the pics and being careful with the video camera work. That being said, it depends on how much you trust the other person(s). If you need to be very careful, then don't do it.

**good times** · 10-05-2005, 03:02 PM

I guess I'll have to be the one to go against the flow of the thread here, but for us, no nude pictures of us with play partners, no way, not going to happen. We both have way to much to lose if they were to end up in the wrong hands.

Pepper & Drew · 10-05-2005, 03:43 PM

We've done pictures and video. Our playmates have just as much to lose (if not more) than we do, and we both get sets, so if anybody wants to play the "revenge" game, we've both got ammo. Would we do pics or video with every playmate? No, but those that we have done it with we'd feel comfortable with doing it again.

Pepper

lovedoctor · 10-05-2005, 08:51 PM

No pictures or videos. Not gonna happen.

I once borrowed a digital camera from a friend (who I learned afterwards was a swinger) and she had left some pics of her, hubby and a play friend in the love swing. I think they wanted us to find them, but I just didn't say a word about it - he called me and said there were some pics on there and to erase them. LOL, I said "what pics???"

Dolphins524 · 10-05-2005, 10:05 PM

O.K., after reading through all of your posts, (thanks for the responses by the way) I've decided to make an all out porn flick on our 1st encounter

. O.K., maybe not. I sort of like Peppers approach to the whole thing, though

. 'Sure, we'll do a little video, but we're leavin' here w/ some too'.

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10-03-2005, 11:23 PM	#1 (permalink)
Dolphins524 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 62 Location: Cent. Fla Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:CentFlCouple96	Doing Pictures & video with other couples I see alot of ads on Swing Lifestyle that state the couple likes taking pictures & shooting video. Would any of you all be up for this? Seems kinda risky to me. I'm sure after I got to know a couple very well I might be up for it. But even then, what happens if you have a falling out w/ them? No telling where it could end up . I'd love to have some videos of Mrs. Dolphins in some hot action, but I don't know if it would be worth the risk. Any thoughts?
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10-03-2005, 11:50 PM	#2 (permalink)
BorisNatasha Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 206 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple	Re: Pictures & video No thanks... once somebody else has the goods, you have no idea where they are going to end up. You don't wanna end up like Pam and Tommy do you? And by that I mean publicly embarassed, not ending up with a career down the toilet or in jail on spousal abuse charges. Boris
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10-04-2005, 12:26 AM	#3 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 I'll think about it Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 10,099 Location: With Wild Things Status: Married Female	Re: Pictures & video They only way we have allowed this is with one couple we have played with numerous times. When they are at our home we give them our digital camera to take the pictures of us (not them with us). This way we're the only people with these pictures of us. If we take pictures of us with our playpartners we view them on the spot together and then erase them on the spot in view of each other. So the pictures are only used at that play session for additional stimulation and viewing pleasure. If we go to their house we use their camera to film them and we never bring anything home with us. I think you "get the picture." It amounts to never saving film/pictures of ourselves with other people while having sex. It can be very fun to have someone film me with MrLM because those are shots and angles we can never get of ourselves. Very erotic for us to watch ourselves later. Someone may find them after we die and wonder who was shooting those pictures of us, but we don't care, we think it would give them a secret thrill. LM

10-04-2005, 12:45 AM	#4 (permalink)
sxndb Registered User Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 1 Location: Ft. Lauderdale	Re: Pictures & video Uh yeah we would have no problem with that. We are probably in the minority but we are attractive and "where" they might up sounds exciting. We are not "ashamed of who we are and we also don't have jobs where "sexy" pictures would cause a problem. Not to mention we both love to be photographed and making videos so yeah we're "in"! sxndb

10-04-2005, 05:38 AM	#5 (permalink)
montresor Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 78 Location: Cleveland Hts., OH Status: single male (w/swing partner) Swing Lifestyle Name:montresor	Re: Pictures & video We're definitely in the "shutterbug" category. Love being photo'd/video'd, love looking at them later. Usually starts a new round of sex!

10-04-2005, 07:39 AM	#6 (permalink)
Jamie&Kieth Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 212 Location: Massachusetts Status: M.Female	Re: Pictures & video We tried it once, with two other couples ... what we thought would be exciting turned quite boring. Poor lighting, poor angles and yes poor camera work ... guess we will leave to buying a video rather than try to make our own. We all watched it together after we were "done" and then deleted the goods.

10-04-2005, 11:11 AM	#7 (permalink)
Greg & Sheryl Interracial Swingers Join Date: Nov 2001 Posts: 749 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Greg69Sheryl	Re: Pictures & Video Some couple are more comfortable with the idea than others. We happen to be a couple who really enjoys it, but we can afford to be because neither of us have high-profile jobs, judgemental families or vanilla friends.

10-04-2005, 12:16 PM	#8 (permalink)
lovefest04 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2004 Posts: 183 Location: Northern California	Re: Pictures & video We have taken pictures on a number of occasions, not really to keep but as a toy/tool. It just seems to heighten the fun when we direct our partner to do something to a "friend" and then take pictures. Sound weird in writing, but Iwe think you'll understand. We do however always delete within a few days. One couple actually asked for copies and we had already deleted. They were disappointed, but thats our way. We just don't see the point in keeping them around. We think the mental pictures are best anyways. And we love to paint pictures during sex of past encounters. Just the words are enough to get us going again. Lovefest

10-04-2005, 12:37 PM	#9 (permalink)
macleods727 Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 14 Location: Virginia Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:macleods727	Re: Pictures & video Hello! My husband and I do video and pictures ourself, the videos are in a small safe we have so there are no acidents. It is just living together so no worries of kids or roommates either. We have done it with a few people we swing with that are also fiends of ours but we have the only copies of it. The only exception to that is me giving a massage to one of our swing friends where I had to take off my dress so that I could to it properly. What I am trying to say is we both enjoy it (especially my husband) but if we do it with others we keep the copies because we know where they are and that they are safe. M

10-04-2005, 10:48 PM	#11 (permalink)
tncinmd Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2005 Posts: 70 Location: Maryland Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:tncinmd	Re: Pictures & video We have lots of pics and vids of our playtimes. Never have had a problem. We never show anything close to identifying information. You can do this by editing the pics and being careful with the video camera work. That being said, it depends on how much you trust the other person(s). If you need to be very careful, then don't do it.

10-05-2005, 03:02 PM	#12 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,919 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times Swing Lifestyle Name:randp	Re: Pictures & video I guess I'll have to be the one to go against the flow of the thread here, but for us, no nude pictures of us with play partners, no way, not going to happen. We both have way to much to lose if they were to end up in the wrong hands.
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10-05-2005, 03:43 PM	#13 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,035 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:alhedonists	Re: Pictures & video We've done pictures and video. Our playmates have just as much to lose (if not more) than we do, and we both get sets, so if anybody wants to play the "revenge" game, we've both got ammo. Would we do pics or video with every playmate? No, but those that we have done it with we'd feel comfortable with doing it again. Pepper
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10-05-2005, 08:51 PM	#14 (permalink)
lovedoctor Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 510 Location: Florida - but right now, I'm on tour! Status: M Female Swing Lifestyle Name:Fllovedoctor	Re: Pictures & video No pictures or videos. Not gonna happen. I once borrowed a digital camera from a friend (who I learned afterwards was a swinger) and she had left some pics of her, hubby and a play friend in the love swing. I think they wanted us to find them, but I just didn't say a word about it - he called me and said there were some pics on there and to erase them. LOL, I said "what pics???"
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10-05-2005, 10:05 PM	#15 (permalink)
Dolphins524 Active Member Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 62 Location: Cent. Fla Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:CentFlCouple96	Re: Pictures & video O.K., after reading through all of your posts, (thanks for the responses by the way) I've decided to make an all out porn flick on our 1st encounter . O.K., maybe not. I sort of like Peppers approach to the whole thing, though . 'Sure, we'll do a little video, but we're leavin' here w/ some too'.
	__________________ Cleverly disguised as responsible adults ;)

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