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    Default Are You A Giver Or A Receiver ?

    When your in a sexual situation, playing , fore play or even fantasy. Where do you feel comfortable? Giving or receiving ? Not in every day life, but just sexually. Well maybe everyday life could be a comparison. This is more of a sexual question and about ones comfort zone. Im a giver Mrs.fun is a receiver. Both of us actually feel uncomfortable out of our zone.
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    Default Re: Are You A Giver Or A Receiver ?

    It depends on the situation.

    Oral sex - giver
    F*cking - both, depends on my mood
    Flogging - receiver (submissive)

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    Him....giver all the way. I love to watch as a person gets what they want.

    Her....giver all the way but she would really like to be the center of attention in a group setting once to see what it feels like. Her day is coming.

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    Last night I was a giver and a receiver...that is my preference. Give a lot take a lot...

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    I'm definitely a giver. There is nothing I enjoy more than being able to give multiple orgasms to my women. Most times I am able to receive my own pleasure, but only after I am sure that I have done my best to make my partner satisfied, or totally worn out if that is her preference.

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    Giver. Heidi and myself both are. We love giving we get more enjoyment out of it. There has been many nights when I didn't even get an orgasm until I got home with her and that is perfectly alright with me. As long as I am not being ignored

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    Giver. No question about it.

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    Mr. Sweet is more of a giver, I go either way depending on the mood and playmate(s).

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    I'm definately versitile all the way across the board. The only area I would say I'm more one or the other is with oral sex where I am more of a giver than a reciever.
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    Giver love to see pleasure. Love to eat pussy can be very happy to see women come after I have eat their pussy.

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    Gator is a giver all the way. I can be either. Just depends.

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    receiver!! i love being the center of attention- i love being pleased!!

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    Him- giver

    Her- reciever with SO, but with playmate- giver

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    Jeff is a total giver.

    I (fortunately?) have no problems taking advantage of his giving nature...rotflmao

    But seriously, with most partners I try to be a giver, but do enjoy just laying back and receiving as well. Depends on the partner.


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    Default Re: Are You A Giver Or A Receiver ?

    I think the reason I asked is, recently the girls had intentions of me being the center of attention for an evening of fun sex. This might sound strange to some, but the thing is. I wanted this just like anyone els would. I looked forward for a few day to this happening but still something felt different, I noticed this, but couldn't put my finger on what felt wrong or out of place.It effected me for a few days at work, home everything.It even felt out of kilter in my general well being. I've had sex before with these two women and everyone is quite happy with every aspect of the sex we have had. And at those times i had the feeling of giving in a sense. But this time the tables were turned, this was all about me receiving all attention and pleasure. Everything went fine but I can see now clear as a bell, what the trouble was those few days. I was out of my zone.

    Mrs.fun, like I say is a receiver. She would rather have a sex partner (like me) that needs no explanations what she wants or what it takes to (go with the flow). Not that she cant initiate everything to get started and preform well. No, she has never encountered someone that couldn't preform or climax. But still she has talked about this with me ,that for her to enjoy a climax with a partner she needs a (Giver). someone that can go with the flow and take her there, with no explanations.Someone that can sense her needs. Not have them explained.

    We had a couple that wanted to meet us and one would presume have sex. The trouble was I turned down the woman. My first NO. Well now looking back I see why. The woman was hot hot hot, She had major chemistry toward me, Not overbearing, I couldn't understand why I felt different with this woman. Why the chemistry felt wrong. It would actually appear that I ran like a coward and was afraid to admit why. It was just that I couldn't explain this. I see now what it was. She was a giver !00% I'm thinking what I felt now was actually a crash with someone of my own kind.

    I'm not sure now that I see more about myself, if this is even a problem. I know how I feel, I know what my flow is, I don't feel the need to change. How I feel is quite comfortable being a giver more than a receiver.

    Has any one els felt this way? I could see how two receivers would not have good results unless one could alternate giving and receiving.

    Two givers might have a crash that Ive experienced. Unless one takes a receiving side. Its not that I cant receive, and I do. But for the most part I'm a giver during sex.

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