Lost it at the worst time

[Buff Daddy]

Hehe, thanks Mike.
Now I really see how much worse it could have been. LOL
I've never even accidentilly farted when my wife was down. LOL
I guess if you write a song about it, it was definately a significant emotional event. LOL

I would not be so worried if it would have went well the second time.
Thats why I got the Viagra for our third try.
I think the biggest thing for me is staying away from my wife for a while before we do it again. That damn girl will suck and screw the life force out of me every chance I give her. LOL...... me too.....hehe
I am literally going to have to cut her off for a week or so before we do it again. I mean, how can I be sexually active at a swing meeting when I'm already having sex 10 times a week with my wife!!?
Hehe, I don't want to blame it on her, but, I'm getting so much satisfaction from my wife, I don't think I really need the satisfaction from swinging. But then again, I want to do it.
We both want to, successfully. We are both very sexual people, I'm suprised we haven't tried this earlier in our 17 years of marrige.
So I am going to do my best to feel as much sexual attraction as I can to the other girl on our next meeting, then hope the Viagra takes over.
That is really more effort that I want to give, but now I'm curious if I can really do this or not.

[Mariposa_y_Oso]

A word of caution on the abstinence method...

We did this once (so as to be SUPER horny...like that's needed! lol) and what happened to me was that I got so excited that I came within about 15 minutes of a great double blowjob, then had to wait a while before Big Sam woke up again. Luckily for me, it didn't take that long, but if anyone's refractory period is somewhat longer than this, that might be something to take into consideration...


Cheers!
~Mike

[dave_susie2001]

Yesterday morning, Susie and I woke up with the house to ourselves. We had morning sex for the first time in a LONG time. I was still tired, and after what seemed like hours, I was unable to cum. Instead of risking chaeffed private parts, we decided to stop and continue later on in the day.

A little while later, the very first couple we were ever with (2 years ago) invited us to thier place last evening for popcorn and DVD's on thier new Surround Sound Home Theater. We've kept in touch with this couple and have had dinner and other get togethers since our first swing encounter, but have not had sex with them again.

The reasons (on our end) were that right after we had gotten with them, they were going thru some tough financial times (which we all know can stress your marriage) and we felt that stress. We didn't want to be any part of anyone's marriage failing.

On that first time, I (Dave) had some performance issues. The other woman was much shorter than Susie, and we didn't fit together quite right. To make a long story a little shorter, the bottom line is the sex wasn't that great for either of us.

Anyway, last night we were into our third movie, when Susie decided that she wanted to play. Of course, I didn't know we were going to play, so I didn't bother to take a Viagara. Things started to get heated up and I began to fuck the other woman. Now remember, I had been fucking for a very long time that mornign without cumming, and within about 5 strokes, I felt that urge for release.

I pulled out and calmed myself. Thought about baseball, Gilligans' Island, even WORK. Well, it worked and I didn't cum. The only problem was, I went limp. No amount of coaxing would restore it. Susie even tried, to no avail. There was disapointment all around.

When we got home at 3:00 am...I was rock hard and ready to cum. I NEEDED to cum. And I did.

Now, I know....it happens to everyone at one time or another. But this was the WORST time for me because after two years of swinging, this other woman probably STILL thinks I'm terrible in bed.

[Buff Daddy]

Dave_Susie

Does the Viagra work for you in those situations?
I mean, do you take it just for those occasions and does it do it's job?

Sorry, don't mean to get to personal, but I can't even get as far as you did.

I got my Viagra in the mail yesterday. But no where near ready to test it with another couple.

[dave_susie2001]

Yep...works like a charm! I don't need it with Susie or with a couple that we've been with a few times. For me it's a comfort factor.....Stage fright....Shy Member.....what ever. All I know is that it works for me. In fact, it works so well for me that I can perform mulitple times in a single play session.

Try it, you just might like it. Just make sure that you have your doctor's OK. And read the precautions that come with the drug. OK, I'm off my soap box. Have fun and I hope it works for you.