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| Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 21 Location: New Jersey Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:livnlocoNJcpl
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I was wondering if anyone (male) has had this happen to them. My wife and I were playing with a friend over the weekend (MFM). We were having a great time and something strange occured. She was on me and he got behind her and entered her ass. When he did I went instantly limp. I have no aversion to this kind of situation because we have done it many times before with this partner. Then after about a minute I was up and running again. I am a fairly young guy (mid 30's). Is this a sign of things to come? Should I get this looked into? How do I tell my doc (well doc the other night when my friend was doing my wife in the ass I lost my erection...)? Just curious. |
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard
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Were you in her vagina at the time he entered her ass (DP)?
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2008 Posts: 280 Location: Adelaide Australia Status: Couple
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before running to the Drs, i'd see if it happened again. could have been many many things. a twinge of guilt to the pressure being placed on the wrong part of your penis (i know if Mrs P clamps on the end of my penis with her hands i go limp momentarily).
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 21 Location: New Jersey Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:livnlocoNJcpl
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| Fun and Pleasure Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 950 Location: SouthWest Status: Couple
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Especially since you have done DP's before without the problem. | |
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| Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 150 Location: NW Arkansas Status: Couple
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I'll chime in and agree with the others. I think you can attribute the problem to "user error". A little pressure in just the wrong place "untied the knot in the balloon". Don't ruminate over it too much. You could turn a one time oopsie into a problem. I recommend putting in a nice long movie and pausing it every 15 minutes for your lovely, talented and accomodating wife to make sure that it can still get hard and hasn't died of old age in the last 15 minutes. No orgasm until after the movie.... Pass the popcorn. Mr. FC4L |
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| Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,288 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard
| This is excellent advice. I think so much of men's problem with getting/staying hard in swinging situations is a mental issue of "what if I don't get hard" turning into a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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| Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2007 Posts: 21 Location: New Jersey Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:livnlocoNJcpl
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I wasn't really concerned so much as confused. It was just a really weird occurrance and then to be right back so quickly. Just abnormal. Thank you all for the insight. |
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