Can't keep it up with a condom on

[sereneiders]

Oh, I forgot about this one.

While wearing condoms with my wife to get used to them, I also tried the testurized ones. In one hand, they deprive you from more sensitivity than the regular ones, but in the other, it helped to think I was wearing just a sex toy to increase her plasure. Wheter it did increase her pleasure or not wasn't the issue, but to change the way I was thinking of the condom while using it. The mindsetting shift did a great job, and after you wear one depriving you from sensitivity, wearing a regular one becomes a plus.

[GoNatural]

I was able to cum once, but was not able to cum a 2nd time with a condom, with one particular wife. I lost my erection gradually. This happened to me with a girlfriend before also.

[nubianzlust]

My wife and I collect condoms and we suggest that is what you should do to find the right ones that help you and also your partner can feel like the ribbed and studded condoms. It seems you may need a very thin condom that protects you from everything so we may suggest polyurethane trojan supra but then again we have a long list of favorite condoms and are now trying to expand out and find some in other countries like the pronto condom.

[2chase3]

I know exactly what you mean, had the same problem but here is what helped me after experimenting with a few different brands, and seriously if you try the wrong one first you can have a negative view towards them. And most guys here have tried the trojan brand , I forget which kind it was exactly but had the feel of a tight vice and left the sensation during sex of what you would expect it would feel like wearing a ziplock freezer bag.lol.

The key is to go for the thin. Personally if i can still feel warmth,Im good. another thing that helped me, dont delay while wearing, so equip, right before penetration. refrain from rough sex as it will desensitize further. also practice further with your life partner, it takes some time, but after a bit you should have no problem.

hope this helps and good luck.

[couplewanting50]

Originally Posted by sereneiders

Oh, I forgot about this one.

While wearing condoms with my wife to get used to them, I also tried the texturized ones. In one hand, they deprive you from more sensitivity than the regular ones, but in the other, it helped to think I was wearing just a sex toy to increase her pleasure. Whether it did increase her pleasure or not wasn't the issue, but to change the way I was thinking of the condom while using it. The mindsetting shift did a great job, and after you wear one depriving you from sensitivity, wearing a regular one becomes a plus.

I like your thinking on that.... great idea!

[willyoats]

I have the same problem. It almost never was an issue because no partner of mine has ever insisted on a condom. My wife wanted her partners to use a condom the first time. That also was never an issue because only once did a guy with our problem say he couldn't do it.

That one time did affect me. It was a three day weekend swingers conference. His wife and I were ready to go to our room when she found out that my wife wouldn't go with her husband unless he used a condom, which he couldn't. (She did not insist that I wear one.) She had already had a lot of action that weekend while he had relatively little. She decided to call off our date because she did not want her husband to be left out again.

That was a decent thing to do, and I can't blame her for it. I do regret it because she was really beautiful with a wonderful body, a sparkling personality and the softest, finest hair of any woman I was ever close to.

If Gennie ever reads this she will know that I still remember her fondly.