Men Not staying Up!!!!!!!

[acai&issa]

Well for me, I'm just not comfortable with the whole mfm threesomes, I've tried with past playmates before I got married but it just doesn't work for me, my erection will not stay and I firmly believe it's because another penis is in the room about to partake in the same guilty pleasure as I. I mean the first time I did it, it was unexpected, my playmate wanted to know what it felt like to have a DP and didnt want to use a dildo to accomplish so she called me and another guy she knew, we were doing good for a while but the red flag appeared when he took off his condom and kept on going with her and that was it for me, I just stopped and watched because I wasn't taking chances like that although she knew him, I didn't know him and thought it best to be safe than sorry. Other times after that I couldn't maintain the erection unless I was a little intoxicated and didn't care who else was in the room.

[daisy girl]

Almost forgot...could also be drugs or alcohol use as well. ANd...sometimes condoms influence performance (not an excuse not to use them by the way).

[ShellyM]

With us, if the couple is okay with separate room play we will usually try that. Also getting his mind OFF of his dick for a minute helps tremendously. Going into another room other than the bedroom also helps. What you want to do is get the pressure element out of the equation. Go into the kitchen, talk about sports or something else other than sex is good. Then start flirting. I have heard that this works wonders.
Shelly