Help! He has a Big Unit!

sunlovers75 · 12-05-2005, 10:05 PM

We are a primarily a mfm couple,most of the other men have just been regular in size. We have a new contact who would like to meet with us and he has a massive tool....me Mrs Sunlovers is a little nervous about it.I have had a couple of kids and thought size would never matter but this has me scared I might tense up because of nerves and make it painfull.If any one has advice on this would love to hear it...positions that are best ect or should i tell him forget it Part of me wants to say noway the other half says might be fun! Let me have your thoughts or experiences!BTW I am 5' by 105 lbs so am not a big girl.....

DBL D · 12-05-2005, 10:27 PM

Whether you are a big girl or not...in stature...should make no difference. It's a muscle, or rather set of muscles, and all muscles can stretch and still maintain their elasticity. If you have ever fantasized about a large cock you may have tried using a large dildo at one time to allow yourself to be comfy with the extra size. You will feel very full, like you can't move or you'll split, at first, but with practice comes the ability to learn to control those muscles.

Take your time and use lots of consideration for his plight (as far as keeping it up while manuevering is taking place) and take your time with foreplay. Allow him to work on your pussy and try to stretch it out with his fingers. That should be delightful for you. Since he's soo big, he should have some ideas as to how to help you with the situation too.

Good luck...should be a fun time.

Male D

JDApopka · 12-05-2005, 10:44 PM

What do you consider massive? No matter the size though, if you take the top you will have more control during penetration.

MrsPlaytime · 12-11-2005, 10:13 AM

I can't agree more, take your time. I have had a very thick one before and I was scared to death. My partner took the extra time to get me ready and was very gentle during penetration. Lots of lube also helped.

Enjoy it!!

Tracy

janaandjames · 12-11-2005, 11:18 PM

my advice is to lay back and enjoy

ahhhhhhhhhhh

we had a regular for awhile, for mfm, and he was very large.
i was nervous and all, but he took it slow and it worked out well.
actually, i was sore for a few days after that. felt like some muscles had been worked out.
but like one of the other posters said, you can stretch it out some.

it took a few times, .. and it may take you a few times as well, to "loosen" up, but you will.
and once you do ...
thats when you can lay back and enjoy.
but be sure to stay on top until you get acclimated

ive always said size didnt matter, but a really big one is nice. being "filled up" is great

jana

kittylikesmfm · 12-11-2005, 11:29 PM

i have never been a fan of huge dicks. i mean, i like good size dicks, i don't like small ones. but really large penises make me feel limited with oral and anal, and when they're too long it just hurts my cervix.

after my husband gets my pussy wet and swollen from head, whether i'm fucking him or he's using a slightly larger dildo on me, it's the speed of the thrusts, not the thickness that makes me cum from vaginal stimulation.

hmr · 12-12-2005, 01:07 AM

Size really shouldn't be an issue. If it is girth you are worried about, as DBL D stated it is muscles and they will stretch. If it is length, hopefully he is experienced enough to not try and go too deep. The best advice I can offer is to become comfortable with him. Make sure you can talk easily with him, and be sure to talk even during foreplay. That way he can ask you what feels good, and you can tell him if he needs to adjust something without feeling nervous.
He is going to want to please you, not cause you discomfort in anyway. If he goes too deep, or thrust too hard tell him to ease up. You will both enjoy it a lot more. Good luck with your first "big Unit". It really can be great. facelick

mrs hmr

FLnewlyweds · 12-13-2005, 01:31 PM

In our experience his size only ended up being an issue for certain poistions. He was 10" and pretty thick. When it came doen to it she was so wet they didn't even need lube. After some warming up she was letting him,actually ordering him, to harder and faster! Just make sure he listens to your desires with positions/depth or else you take control. Unless your guy has severe elephantitus of the dick or somehitng I bet it will all work out

JacobSky · 03-11-2006, 11:49 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by janaandjames

my advice is to lay back and enjoy

ahhhhhhhhhhh

we had a regular for awhile, for mfm, and he was very large.
i was nervous and all, but he took it slow and it worked out well.
actually, i was sore for a few days after that. felt like some muscles had been worked out.
but like one of the other posters said, you can stretch it out some.

it took a few times, .. and it may take you a few times as well, to "loosen" up, but you will.
and once you do ...
thats when you can lay back and enjoy.
but be sure to stay on top until you get acclimated

ive always said size didnt matter, but a really big one is nice. being "filled up" is great

jana

That last sentence is really nice.......what a turn on!

morgan78 · 03-12-2006, 04:10 AM

No matter if your a "big girl" or a "skinny minnie" your body will adjust to fit! Give it a try.. relax and use plenty of lube!

johnjacob121 · 03-30-2006, 09:55 PM

I think practice makes perfect. You just have to keep working at it or on it, however you see it.

sunlovers75 · 03-31-2006, 06:11 PM

Up-Date!!!

Meet with Mr. BigUnit........and things went great....make that fantastic!!! It was all about relaxing and getting to right level before penetration.Yes was little sore the next day but was worth it

It also helped that the gentleman was very sensitive to my needs.Are we going to do it again???Yes!!! However don't think it would have been pleasant to have him pounding away with total abandon.Thanks for the support!!

Mrs. Sunlovers

Paphian · 03-31-2006, 07:26 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sunlovers75

Up-Date!!!

Meet with Mr. BigUnit........and things went great....make that fantastic!!!

Always great to hear that things worked out!

DBL D · 03-31-2006, 09:31 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by sunlovers75

Up-Date!!!
It also helped that the gentleman was very sensitive to my needs.Are we going to do it again???Yes!!! Mrs. Sunlovers

I can't explain my happiness over this...

M.D.

starryeyes · 04-01-2006, 11:57 AM

Mrs. Sunlovers, we are glad to hear it went great and we concur with Dbl D... can't say enough for someone that is a gentleman.

We had a friend that was about 10" and as thick as a coke can. (I never look at soda cans the same since). He had to go very slow at the begining, but once we both got comfortable, look out!! Being filled up is an unbelievable sensation and cumming like that is wonderful. I will take the soreness for the next day or so. Never did we try anal and giving oral to him was a challenge, could never get him in my mouth... but when there is a will there is a way to compensate, just think of something that may do the trick... we did and I loved it.

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12-05-2005, 10:05 PM	#1 (permalink)
sunlovers75 Registered Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Sonoma County Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Timeraiders	Help! He has a Big Unit! We are a primarily a mfm couple,most of the other men have just been regular in size. We have a new contact who would like to meet with us and he has a massive tool....me Mrs Sunlovers is a little nervous about it.I have had a couple of kids and thought size would never matter but this has me scared I might tense up because of nerves and make it painfull.If any one has advice on this would love to hear it...positions that are best ect or should i tell him forget it Part of me wants to say noway the other half says might be fun! Let me have your thoughts or experiences!BTW I am 5' by 105 lbs so am not a big girl.....

12-05-2005, 10:27 PM	#2 (permalink)
DBL D Oh...Why not?... Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 2,312 Location: Northern Call-ee-forn-ee-ah Status: Married Couple	Re: Help he has a big Unit Whether you are a big girl or not...in stature...should make no difference. It's a muscle, or rather set of muscles, and all muscles can stretch and still maintain their elasticity. If you have ever fantasized about a large cock you may have tried using a large dildo at one time to allow yourself to be comfy with the extra size. You will feel very full, like you can't move or you'll split, at first, but with practice comes the ability to learn to control those muscles. Take your time and use lots of consideration for his plight (as far as keeping it up while manuevering is taking place) and take your time with foreplay. Allow him to work on your pussy and try to stretch it out with his fingers. That should be delightful for you. Since he's soo big, he should have some ideas as to how to help you with the situation too. Good luck...should be a fun time. Male D
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12-05-2005, 10:44 PM	#3 (permalink)
JDApopka Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 198 Location: Apopka, Fl Status: Couple	Re: Help he has a big Unit What do you consider massive? No matter the size though, if you take the top you will have more control during penetration.

12-11-2005, 10:13 AM	#4 (permalink)
MrsPlaytime Here to Stay Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 12 Location: KY Status: Couple	Re: Help he has a big Unit I can't agree more, take your time. I have had a very thick one before and I was scared to death. My partner took the extra time to get me ready and was very gentle during penetration. Lots of lube also helped. Enjoy it!! Tracy

12-11-2005, 11:18 PM	#5 (permalink)
janaandjames Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 123 Location: kansas Status: female half of couple Swing Lifestyle Name:janaandjames	Re: Help he has a big Unit my advice is to lay back and enjoy ahhhhhhhhhhh we had a regular for awhile, for mfm, and he was very large. i was nervous and all, but he took it slow and it worked out well. actually, i was sore for a few days after that. felt like some muscles had been worked out. but like one of the other posters said, you can stretch it out some. it took a few times, .. and it may take you a few times as well, to "loosen" up, but you will. and once you do ... thats when you can lay back and enjoy. but be sure to stay on top until you get acclimated ive always said size didnt matter, but a really big one is nice. being "filled up" is great jana

12-11-2005, 11:29 PM	#6 (permalink)
kittylikesmfm Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2005 Posts: 73 Location: asheville nc Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:ravenouskitty	Re: Help he has a big Unit i have never been a fan of huge dicks. i mean, i like good size dicks, i don't like small ones. but really large penises make me feel limited with oral and anal, and when they're too long it just hurts my cervix. after my husband gets my pussy wet and swollen from head, whether i'm fucking him or he's using a slightly larger dildo on me, it's the speed of the thrusts, not the thickness that makes me cum from vaginal stimulation.
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12-12-2005, 01:07 AM	#7 (permalink)
hmr hmr Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 421 Location: Roanoke,VA Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:hmr	Re: Help he has a big Unit Size really shouldn't be an issue. If it is girth you are worried about, as DBL D stated it is muscles and they will stretch. If it is length, hopefully he is experienced enough to not try and go too deep. The best advice I can offer is to become comfortable with him. Make sure you can talk easily with him, and be sure to talk even during foreplay. That way he can ask you what feels good, and you can tell him if he needs to adjust something without feeling nervous. He is going to want to please you, not cause you discomfort in anyway. If he goes too deep, or thrust too hard tell him to ease up. You will both enjoy it a lot more. Good luck with your first "big Unit". It really can be great. facelick mrs hmr
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12-13-2005, 01:31 PM	#8 (permalink)
FLnewlyweds Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 39 Location: SW FL Status: Newly married couple Swing Lifestyle Name:FLnewlyweds05	Re: Help he has a big Unit In our experience his size only ended up being an issue for certain poistions. He was 10" and pretty thick. When it came doen to it she was so wet they didn't even need lube. After some warming up she was letting him,actually ordering him, to harder and faster! Just make sure he listens to your desires with positions/depth or else you take control. Unless your guy has severe elephantitus of the dick or somehitng I bet it will all work out

03-12-2006, 04:10 AM	#10 (permalink)
morgan78 Active Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 33 Location: WV Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Mcpl4fun	Re: Help he has a big Unit No matter if your a "big girl" or a "skinny minnie" your body will adjust to fit! Give it a try.. relax and use plenty of lube!
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03-30-2006, 09:55 PM	#11 (permalink)
johnjacob121 Registered Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 6 Location: ny	Re: Help he has a big Unit I think practice makes perfect. You just have to keep working at it or on it, however you see it.

03-31-2006, 06:11 PM	#12 (permalink)
sunlovers75 Registered Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 3 Location: Sonoma County Status: couple Swing Lifestyle Name:Timeraiders	Re: Help he has a big Unit Up-Date!!! Meet with Mr. BigUnit........and things went great....make that fantastic!!! It was all about relaxing and getting to right level before penetration.Yes was little sore the next day but was worth it It also helped that the gentleman was very sensitive to my needs.Are we going to do it again???Yes!!! However don't think it would have been pleasant to have him pounding away with total abandon.Thanks for the support!! Mrs. Sunlovers

04-01-2006, 11:57 AM	#15 (permalink)
starryeyes Here to Stay Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 99 Location: El Paso, TX Status: Couple Swing Lifestyle Name:starryeyes	Re: Help he has a big Unit Mrs. Sunlovers, we are glad to hear it went great and we concur with Dbl D... can't say enough for someone that is a gentleman. We had a friend that was about 10" and as thick as a coke can. (I never look at soda cans the same since). He had to go very slow at the begining, but once we both got comfortable, look out!! Being filled up is an unbelievable sensation and cumming like that is wonderful. I will take the soreness for the next day or so. Never did we try anal and giving oral to him was a challenge, could never get him in my mouth... but when there is a will there is a way to compensate, just think of something that may do the trick... we did and I loved it.

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