"Well endowed with great stamina and no performance problems"

[LikeMinds321]

To the men/couples who use ad profiles, how many of you would make the following statement in your profile?

He is well endowed with great stamina and no performance problems.

I recently read this in a profile and my first thought was the guy's got to be awfully confident in himself.

I would think you'd be placing way too much pressure on yourself to perform, and I don't see why a man would place himself under this kind of pressure.

I've not played with a man who purports these traits; anyone had the pleasure? What kind of men make these claims?

Let me into your world.

LM

[CandTinLorainCo]

LM how about the profile: Short to average endowment, suffers from pre-ejaculation, kinda fat, male pattern baldness, oh, and yup man boobs too! Appealing?? Was thinking of updating my profile!!!

-C

[BiDrywallChick]

my husband is well endowed ( got pics to prove it too) and for me.. there are no preformance problems. However, I think that for someone to put that in their profile ( the preformance part) they are really jumping the gun. You never no what is going to happen the next time. As far as well endowed, I have come across men who have said that. It appears that many people have a different definition of well endowed.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by CandTinLorainCo

LM how about the profile: Short to average endowment, suffers from pre-ejaculation, kinda fat, male pattern baldness, oh, and yup man boobs too!

-C

I have found 3 out of 5 of those traits mentioned quite often in profiles.

I have no objection to 2 out of 5, and would even be open to 4 out of 5 of those characteristics if the guy's personality turned me on.

Now you just have to guess which 4 traits they are.

LM

[JnCC]

It's a little tacky but it probably works for him. Face it...a profile is nothing more than an advertisement for oneself. I rarely come across one that is truly accurate or comprehensive. If I did, it would probably read;

Nahhhh... I'm not gonna say how they would probably read. If I did, I'd probably get flamed right into the bowels of cyber-hell by people who would think I'm spoofin' their profiles.

I'M the only guy who's honest in his profile...

[northindycpl]

Interesting post as Mr. Indy and I just had a discussion about how we can tactfully inquire an 'interviewing' couple those same questions- specifically the performance issue.

In this post, I would immediately think that this guy is full of himself, although, hopefully there is truth in advertising.

I am getting pretty tired of performance issues with playmates recently. I used to think it was a fact of life, and we can work around it, however I am finding now, that having repeated PA and not taking suggestions on how to fix the issue is getting a lot of men no where with me.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

Interesting post as Mr. Indy and I just had a discussion about how we can tactfully inquire an 'interviewing' couple those same questions- specifically the performance issue.

I am getting pretty tired of performance issues with playmates recently.

So Mrs NIC, would you and Mr Indy consider a couple who has a performance statement in their profile?

Maybe it would be worth it for you to give them a try. Maybe the initial feeling that the guy is full of himself would wane, once you found he could perform well.

Do it for the board. Won't you please?

LM

P.S. How to bring the subject of PA to a single man or couple would be a challenge. I'll have to think more on that one.

[northindycpl]

Sure. I would consider a couple whose ad made a statement like that. I would also consider a couple whos ad stated they have performance issues but have found a cure or something like that.

It just seems we have reached the age where a lot of men seem to be starting to have issues and are having a difficult time addressing them.

I will have to post our results for the board

[CandTinLorainCo]

With my humor aside, i agree with JnCC as well with all the replys so far. I think truely not to many people care what thier profiles read as im sure many don't truely believe they are ever going to be read to begin with, but if so, lets make them sound good to see if they take the bait or not. Like some put in pictures but when you actually see them it's not the pic you saw and so forth. Its all advertisning to a point. Which is why i suppose my previous reply came across the way it did with you. You yourself stated that you could deal with 2 out of the 5 and even go so far as 4 out 5 depending on personality. But what if they were really going for broke here and wanted 5 out of 5, wouldn't they want to cover everything and paint it perfectly?

Mrs Indy you are right PA is getting old. With all the meds in the world and other things one has readily on hand<w> you would think we could be past that and not worry so much.

-C

ps: considering without surgery, everything else is workable, how does one get surgery on thier personality anyway?

-C

[Just_us49]

Originally Posted by JnCC

I'M the only guy who's honest in his profile...

And where's your profile?

-D

[Just_us49]

Originally Posted by northindycpl

It just seems we have reached the age where a lot of men seem to be starting to have issues and are having a difficult time addressing them.

I can't understand that either. I had performance issues the first time we full swapped and when it was over and I had felt like a total loser and apoligized to the gal no less than 100 times...I vowed to march into my Dr. (a female) and tell her the whole story and practically demand Viagra. Surrender

As it turned out I found out you can it off the net. No problem since.

As for the well hung statement, I've never called myself or considered myself well hung, but we've yet to play with a couple who is sporting more than I. I know they exist I've seen pictures. But until then I'm feeling on top the world.

As for the 5 statements:

We tend towards couples or single males that are lower profile than that but have a good kind of confidence...the kind that has nothing to prove.

-D

[Just_us49]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

P.S. How to bring the subject of PA to a single man or couple would be a challenge. I'll have to think more on that one.

It's really not a big deal to us. I just ask them if they have had any problems or expect any. So far none have lied and none have been offended. Of course I usually tell them I had it happen to me.

If we're going to the trouble of meeting, we want that info.

-D

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

I have found 3 out of 5 of those traits mentioned quite often in profiles.

I have no objection to 2 out of 5, and would even be open to 4 out of 5 of those characteristics if the guy's personality turned me on.

Now you just have to guess which 4 traits they are.

LM

:::Short to average endowment, suffers from pre-ejaculation, kinda fat, male pattern baldness, oh, and yup man boobs too!:::


Let's see.....

I'd be open to everything but man boobs. I'm guessing you'd feel the same way?

I'm a B cup. I can't be with a man with bigger boobs than me. That's just so wrong.

[ALilOEverything]

I wouldn't make the statement because I don't focus quite so much on the sexual aspect. Now if I was only looking for great sex and nothing more I might be more inclined to respond to such an ad.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by CandTinLorainCo

I think truely not to many people care what thier profiles read as im sure many don't truely believe they are ever going to be read to begin with, but if so, lets make them sound good to see if they take the bait or not.

I care what our profile says, and I would expect anyone who is serious about meeting us will read it. If they haven't I can tell from the first communication from them.

And I've never thought of a profile as "bait" - "lets make them sound good to see if they take the bait or not" is not our approach. I think of a profile as a letter of introduction.

C - Sadly, I think your attitude about ad profiles is the norm for many swingers, it's also why so many swingers sound angry, frustrated, and negative about the whole process of trying to hook up with people through ads. They either don't count on others to be truthful and figure why should they, or they are truthful and demand others not play "games" with them.

A profile doesn't have to list everything about you to be truthful. If you're more comfortable sharing something about yourself upfront before you meet people, then do so in your profile by writing it in or including a picture that reveals it - such as being bald.

There is a big difference between saying you're bald - your bald head doesn't have to perform - and saying your cock is good-sized, gets up, stays up, and always performs well.

LM