Reaction to guys who can't get an erection

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by Concupiscence

If the gentleman that I was with was a jump refusal (Army airborne term) then I would go to the full body massage with lots of tongue action and kissing. If he didn't want to do that, I would suggest that we (if we were at the house) go down to the kitchen and fire up the coffee pot and make chocolate chip cookies. If I liked the guy enough to have sex with him that means I like his company not just his dick. The hubby can keep the other wife entertained while I and the gent get better acquainted. If all goes well then he'll have me bent over the bowl of cookie dough!

From full-body massage to makin' cookies to makin' bacon.

:: Thrax kneels down to pray: "Please Lord, if that damnable limp thing ever happens to me again, bless my partner with the knowledge and skills of Concupiscence, or better yet, with the presence of Concupiscence even. Amen." ::



Thrax

[LikeMinds321]

One thing I know about myself is that I could easily become a home-made cookie addict. facelick Because of this I do not keep cookies of any kind in the house and I rarely bake them.

If ever I find myself with a man that has an erection problem, for the benefit of mankind - or should I say a 'kind man', who is sexy and likable, I'll give myself permission to take him in the kitchen pronto, bake up a batch of cookies while the coffee is perking, and together we'll eat every last one of them!

Then we'll fall into bed listless. Being too full to move anything more than my hand, I'd begin slowly massaging his cock. Once erect, I'd tell him, "What a yummy-looking cock you have and I'd love to taste it, but I'm too damn stuffed to put another thing in my mouth. Can I eat that next time?"

LM

[Thrax]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

If ever I find myself with a man that has an erection problem, for the benefit of mankind - or should I say a 'kind man', who is sexy and likable, I'll give myself permission to take him in the kitchen pronto, bake up a batch of cookies while the coffee is perking, and together we'll eat every last one of them!

Then we'll fall into bed listless. Being too full to move anything more than my hand, I'd begin slowly massaging his cock. Once erect, I'd tell him, "What a yummy-looking cock you have and I'd love to taste it, but I'm too damn stuffed to put another thing in my mouth. Can I eat that next time?"

LM

Um...LM? Let me say that as an unelected (but partially erected) member of mankind, I appreciate your attention to the benefit of all mankind. You are truly an altruist!

If this would ever happen to me, I'd prefer Oolong or English Breakfast to coffee, but with a lot of milk and sugar, etc., coffee would be okay, or just unimportant.

And I can't imagine falling into bed listless...

Thrax

[prettylady]

I am on board with twobears. A little extra attention where it is needed to relax him usually does the trick. besides I love what it feels like to have a guy become hard while in my mouth.
Your friend,
Prettylady

[JP51]

Surrender to the ladies of the fourm....they sure know how to treat a man....and Prettylady...Dog is one lucky man.

[Concupiscence]

Originally Posted by Thrax

If this would ever happen to me, I'd prefer Oolong or English Breakfast to coffee, but with a lot of milk and sugar, etc., coffee would be okay, or just unimportant.

And I can't imagine falling into bed listless...

Thrax

Thrax,

I have Oolong and Green Tea

LikeMinds,

I am the same way with cookie dough, if I eat too much I go into a sugar coma! LOL I figured, in theory, the naked baking might be a fun way to get back in the saddle. Of course, it could be naked thumbwrestling and naked armpit farting... I'm willing to go that extra mile.

[LikeMinds321]

Originally Posted by prettylady

...besides I love what it feels like to have a guy become hard while in my mouth.

This is one of my favorite pleasures.

But I don't get the opportunity very often because they're usually hard by the time the clothes come off.

Originally Posted by Concupiscence

LikeMinds,

I am the same way with cookie dough, if I eat too much I go into a sugar coma! LOL

When I eat it I don't want anything else!

One winter I baked home made cookies 5 days a week for 2 months. Gained 10 lbs because of it. I'll never do that again...if I can help it.



Cookie Addict's Prayer

"I'm a cookie addict...

But I can change...

If I have to..."



LM

[Amanda69]

hmmm cookie dough......I get turned on just thinking about the soft, yuumy goodness with little chocolate pieces sprinkled in for good measure. I get a lot more enjoyment out of the dough than I do the cookie...wow that could sure be taken many different ways...

That being said there are many ways to help a man feel more comfortable and take the pressure off. One of the reasons I have seen that men get this way is simply a reaction to what they perceive as aggressive females. ( we were at a party recently and my partner became concerned about going to the bathroom alone as the females were grabbing very aggressively and he isn't shy about coming forward)

[BiBootie]

For a few months I dated a guy with a massive cock, but he had the situation of not being able to get it hard all the time. We did a lot of oral on each other and when (and if) he got hard enough, we'd go at it. If he didn't, there was a lot of foreplay with lots of oral for me.

He wasn't into anal play for himself. Pity because I think that could have helped.

p.s. At a party, I'd probably do the same thing. It wouldn't really matter to me as long as his tongue and fingers still worked.

[celtics]

I had some erectile problems at one time, and used Cialis. When I quit the Cialis, instead of a worse problem with erection, I seemed better off than before. I also quit drinking and found a new mate, so I can't say which was responsible for the improved performance, but...

[mssquirtgun]

I have ED NOt full blown never happen ED but a roll of the dice do you feel lucky it may or may not happen and this is even with cialis.
The causes of this are much abuse to the nether regions from my younger streetfighting days, Heart Medication and Smoking.

That all being said I have found that being up front with swinging partners usually results in a "Doesn't matter" response. We have developed a wonderful relationship with several couples using the honest approach and we have become good friends also.
There is more than one way to please a lady and fortunately I am very good a pleasing the ladies!