Would you be turned off

[BeachLilyandHim]

We are newbies! Would you be turned off by (I'm just going to lay it all out there, embarrassed) anal skin tags? I am an attractive woman that loves sex and my husband and I want to swing' but I dont want to be embarrassed if some one sees them and then gets turned off. Do alot of women have them since they seem to come from giving childbirth. I don't plan on having anal sex (because Im not into it) so thats not the problem. Its the only thing that might make me hesitant. Any comments about this is welcome, Thanks!

[luxor]

hello,
can you explain what anal skin tags are?

[lovinher]

It's the woman as a whole I'm interested in.
So in a nutshell-no.

[BeachLilyandHim]

Anal skin tags are flaps of skin around the anus. They don't even phase my husband, probably because he loves me. Just wondering if others have them and what they think of them. Thanks

[sexcupid]

You can also get skin tags in other high friction spots: under arms, breasts, etc. Some of them can get inflamed or tender, so as a courtesy if they are in a spot that could be rubbed/grabbed/etc. then I would just let your partner know it's a tender spot...but if they aren't highly noticable or painful to you (like say a hemorroid which women can also get from birthing a child), especially if you aren't into anal play...I wouldn't worry about it too much (I know, easier said than done ).

Every one has slightly different physical features (nipple/aereola size and color, some have more prominent clits and inner pussy lips, different angles/size of penis) and at some point every one has probably wondered if a potential partner would find something wrong with them. And I agree with lovinher...it's not the parts we are concerned with, it's the whole person.

Good luck...have fun,

Maria

[4Beauty2C]

We have come across some couples that had skin flaws etc. but it did not affect us one bit. We were there to have a good time.

[cplnuswing]

Given the scenario, most playmates probably wouldn't even notice. It wouldn't be a turn-off since no one is "perfect" and everyone has signs of having lived life, whether they be scars, stretch marks, wrinkles, skin tags, or whatever. What others see is the finished puzzle, not just one small physical piece of what makes it up.

Have fun!

[socolais]

I think the overwhelming majority of folks overlook the little things on the surface and then there are a few that just can't get past even "normal" variations. I had a lady tell me she thought foreskin was gross - she never had an opportunity to sample mine. Her loss, not mine.....

[undercovercpl]

I am an uncircumcised male. It took me a LONG time in the swinging word to get comfy enough to just hang out with no cloths on. I use to think that long inner pussy lips were a turn off, now that I have seem a lot of them, I actually find them appealing. Point is no one should ever say anything to you about it, if they do, thats their problem. Don't be embarrassed about your body ever! It's your and you really should only care if your hubby likes it if anyone at all. Thats a hard thing to actual put in practice but once you have been doing this for a while thats the attitude you will develop. More power to your anal skin flaps!

[ncmd_couple]

I wouldn't worry about the skin tag, it isn't a big deal. But, if it really bothers you, your dermotologist can remove them painlessly. I had a couple between my legs and he took care of them!

[WeMayTryIt]

Nope. Wouldn't even notice them.

[GuyDekerf]

would not bother me at all

[BradAndJanet]

I have a whole bunch of them in various places, so I completely understand. They are easily removed in most cases. One dermatologist even offered to cut me a deal - 5 for $100!

[Tybee Swing]

Originally Posted by BeachLilyandHim

Its the only thing that might make me hesitant. Any comments about this is welcome, Thanks!

If it makes you uncomfortable and self-conscious, if it will be a mental distraction to you and someting you'll be worrying about, there's nothing wrong at all with looking into removing something you're uncomfortable about or unhappy with. My understanding of skin tags is that they're easily removed by a doctor. If they really bother you, why not just rid yourself of it so it won't even cross your mind or cause you any worry? It's wonderful to just feel free to enjoy yourself.

Best wishes, and enjoy the lifestyle!

[ShellyM]

OP, I can pretty much speak for Jay and say that he would not pay attention at all...when a woman turns Jay on you could ask him his name and he'd be like "huh" lol. However. Its how YOU feel that matters. If they are a concern to the point where you just cannot relax and have fun than I would see a dermatologist. Its just a tiny snip. The ones I get on my neck I snip off with fingernail clippers, they are pretty low maintenence. Do NOT do this with anal ones. Its up to you girl, just have fun. I doubt though that any play partner will notice them at all, much less be bothered by them.