Your newbie fears, and how you over came them.

[seattlecpl06]

Originally Posted by good times

Our main fear was how we would react seeing our mate having sex with someone else. Turns out it was a non-issue, we were both so turned on by it that we screwed like rabbits for a couple of weeks afterward.

Sweeeet...

[seattlecpl06]

Originally Posted by Bad Sandy

We haven't taken the plunge yet but I think my biggest worry is the "after". Everything's fine during the playtime but what about after? Do you flee your swing partner to cuddle with your spouse? Do you stay in your swing partner's arms? Perhaps this changes with each situation. Hmmm....

Bad Sandy, we haven't taken the plunge yet either, but one of our "rules" so far is that play time is ALWAYS followed by couples time where we talk about what happened and clear up any fears or hurt feelings. Also, that reinforces that we're a couple, not just two disconnected people who happened to drive up and drive home together. It makes it more shared.

If that makes sense.