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    Default Re: He is a swinger; this is all new to me

    Quote Originally Posted by dburton View Post

    In terms of your question, we have been dating for 4 months. We see each other once every week or two.

    Yes, I have talked to him "about all this." He was amazed at and appreciated how much time and effort I spent learning about the lifestyle.

    We went to a club on Valentine's Day. I was nervous initially, but everything quickly became okay. He was attentive, and we went at my pace. We didn't meet any other couples with whom we would like to play, but we interacted with others and had a wonderful evening.
    dburton ~

    It is amazing how much a person can learn in a few weeks of reading the Swingers Board! When my husband and I joined the Board we were on here reading for hours a day and spent hours talking about what we discovered.

    I'm glad that you found your first club experience a positive one.

    Was it what you had expected for you and your boyfriend, based on what you have read on the Board thus far?

    LM

    P.S. I appreciate that you have been replying to everyone's questions in this thread. Doing so helps make this thread more helpful to those who read it and will learn from it. Thanks!

  2. #62

    Default Re: He is a swinger; this is all new to me

    dburton,

    I'm glad to hear that you are having a good experience!

    S
    Try anything once, twice if it is fun, three times if it is real good!

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    Default Re: He is a swinger; this is all new to me

    Dear LikeMinds321,

    The people I met were as depicted in this forum. They were friendly and approachable. No one was aggressive or pushy. I expected the action on the on-premises side of the club to be far more wild. There were only several exhibitionists. Most people played in private rooms that had closed translucent curtains -- so even that experience was at my pace.

  4. #64

    Default Re: He is a swinger; this is all new to me

    It sounds like you went to the right type of club for someone just starting out. Some clubs are a lot more hardcore, focusing on gangbangs, orgies, etc. As long as you are comfortable and go at your own pace you will have a lot of fun exploring this lifestyle. Keep talking to your partner about everything.

    It's nice that you've come back and kept us posted on your progress.
    "Doggie Style is Mandatory." -- from a Swing Lifestyle profile we came across!

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